Cheating is cheating...it was a series of events that led up to it. Pregnancy is a stressful period for any relationship. I found out somethings that she did behind my back and and at the point didn't care. I was immature and didn't know how to cope with shyt. We needed up patching things up. We both cheated on each other. Some relationships aren't healthy so u look for peace and pleasure in other ways...weed, drinking, hobbies, or women. I grew from it so that's all that's matters.