Don't let it get to you
You are dealing with insecure narcissistic men... They have to bring others down in order to build themselves up.
Reflect on why you are attracted to these demonic personality types and learn from the experience.
^^THIS..anyone man, woman, or child, putting you down like that. is doing so because they themselves have a self esteem problem. in addition they are trying to start a fight for a reason(they are trying to cheat on you, already has and want to end yalls relationship but they dont have the .... to man up and say it to your face)
the moment or chick talks to you like that. PUSH ON. dont wonder why. just PUSH ON. keep it moving. now if a dude/chick is a friend of yours and you see them treating others like that. then you can hit them up like "ay, you dont have to down talk people like that. whats going on with you that you gotta be so cold?" but if yall aint just friends. KEEP IT PUSHIN