How come males always look out for their mom but females NEVER do?

[Spliff]

I've known a few women who look out for their mothers. Actually, I found that to be a problem with one of my girlfriends from years ago. It wasn't really a problem but I felt like her attachment to her mother hindered our personal development in a way that made it where a lot of our future decisions and choices had to include her. The reason I say that is because growing up, it was just her and her mother living together. So, over time they became dependent on each other. Honestly, given the fact of how young I was, I didn't want to bear that feeling of responsibility and I really didn't like how that could have become an issue in the future and, all the while, no attention or concern for the future welfare of my parents had been shown shown or expressed. Granted, I would and should be the one to express it but it disturbed me how I was already sensing the pressure.

I'm going through this exact shyt right now.

 

[Serious]

Research can suck a dikk.

I donated my left kidney to my mother.
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anecdotal

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

anecdotal

I told her I was just renting it out to her. I want it back when she's done with it........
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[nineteeneightysix]

Research can suck a dikk.
I donated my left kidney to my mother.
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1) There are plenty of women who have done the same...I am willing to bet there are more women who have done the same than men...

2) In the long, a woman is more likely to stick around to take care of elderly family members, and even partners with disabilities, than a man...

3) The OP was making a generalization, so in general, your one act of kindness does not compare to the many the average woman makes...

Men are not built for the "heavy stuff," an average dude may donate a kidney or buy a house, but when it comes to caring day in and day out, a daughter in law is still more likely to care for in-laws than the dude...

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

an average dude may donate a kidney

There is nothing 'average' about donating a kidney. That type of sacrifice is leaps and bounds over buying a house or anything else you can imagine just to support your argument.
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[nineteeneightysix]

There is nothing 'average' about donating a kidney. That type of sacrifice is leaps and bounds over buying a house or anything else you can imagine just to support your argument.
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Read the sentence, an "average dude" may donate a kidney...I am not saying donating a kidney is a small thing, I am saying an average dude can do it...

I work in a hospital, it's nothing but "average" people donating organs...No super heroes...

The point is Women take care of elderly parents and partners more often than men do...

This is NOT my opinion...This is a fact backed by research...

In my personal experience, working in hospitals and nursing homes, I am sometimes disgusted to see how the older men become so dependent on their wives and daughters...

Men can be such babies...

 

[///Vega+++]

terrible thread

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Read the sentence, an "average dude" may donate a kidney...I am not saying donating a kidney is a small thing, I am saying an average dude can do it...

Sorry, but calling the donor 'average' is an insult to those of us who've undergone the procedure as well as the recipients. There is absolutely NOTHING 'average' about anyone who chooses to do this.

I'm not one of these dudes that always tries to shyt on the females in here so you can save the condescending 'Read the sentence' crap for them.

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[Lavish]

Read the sentence, an "average dude" may donate a kidney...I am not saying donating a kidney is a small thing, I am saying an average dude can do it...

I work in a hospital, it's nothing but "average" people donating organs...No super heroes...

The point is Women take care of elderly parents and partners more often than men do...

This is NOT my opinion...This is a fact backed by research...

In my personal experience, working in hospitals and nursing homes, I am sometimes disgusted to see how the older men become so dependent on their wives and daughters...

Men can be such babies...

so because you see alot of men doing it, its average? you work in a hospital of course your going to see alot of it. how bout it being commendable? and maybe respectable?

then you say that you see women driving there mothers to the hospital all the time.. Ok then how come you dont call THAT average? people drive loved ones to the hospital ALL THE TIME , matter fact, people drive love ones to the hospital more then people donate organs, you stupid idiot.

And it doesnt take a "super hero" to drive someone to the hospital...anyone can do that sh!t. do you even know what a super heroe is?...super heroes save lives! he saved his mothers life, so what is your problem? and why would you pass that off like no big deal? his mother is alive because of HIM.

and taking it even further, whats more significant?, driving someone to the hospital? or giving them your organs?

un fukkin believable

 

[Lavish]

Sorry, but calling the donor 'average' is an insult to those of us who've undergone the procedure as well as the recipients. There is absolutely NOTHING 'average' about anyone who chooses to do this.

I'm not one of these dudes that always tries to shyt on the females in here so you can save the condescending 'Read the sentence' crap for them.

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cosign. what a slap in the face. I hate how some women show no respect for the things men do. all they do is complain and when theres a man actually stepping up to the plate, its like "whats the big deal"

you saved her life and she's gonna call that "average"

i commend you for giving your mother your kidney.

 

[PrinceDeeDer]

Me and my boys talk about getting successful to the point where our moms dont have to work and can enjoy life and not worry about bills.

Ive never heard a female say "Yeah, first thing ima do when I get money is help my mom out"

they just go find a man, have kids, and really say fukk their mom. shyts amazing to me.

All of yall fukking hoe ass females do that shyt.do yall not have any fukking loyalty but to a damn man. smh....

i take care of my mother first , then i take care of any other woman.

Thats because women have the mentally like this. If a woman wants somethin she thinks, who can i get to buy this for me, when a man wants something he thinks how can i make enough money to buy this. So women find a man to take care of them and then you think that n!gga is tryna help her parents out? he like FOH

 

[MBwithadream]

I can barely post on the coli cuz i take care of my grandma & my bad ass nieces.

scust 80/20

 

[nineteeneightysix]

so because you see alot of men doing it, its average? you work in a hospital of course your going to see alot of it. how bout it being commendable? and maybe respectable?

then you say that you see women driving there mothers to the hospital all the time.. Ok then how come you dont call THAT average? people drive loved ones to the hospital ALL THE TIME , matter fact, people drive love ones to the hospital more then people donate organs, you stupid idiot.

And it doesnt take a "super hero" to drive someone to the hospital...anyone can do that sh!t. do you even know what a super heroe is?...super heroes save lives! he saved his mothers life, so what is your problem? and why would you pass that off like no big deal? his mother is alive because of HIM.

and taking it even further, whats more significant?, driving someone to the hospital? or giving them your organs?

un fukkin believable

Dude, you need to step up your comprehension game...I am NOT saying donating a kidney is an average act...

In any case, the fact is still women are more likely to take care of their elderly relatives than men...

1) A woman is more likely to stick around and take care of a disabled partner than a man...

2) A woman is more likely to stick around and take care of senior parents and even in laws...

So, the OP's assumption is NOT supported by the facts...

That's just the bottom line.

 

[Lavish]

Dude, you need to step up your comprehension game...I am NOT saying donating a kidney is an average act...

In any case, the fact is still women are more likely to take care of their elderly relatives than men...

1) A woman is more likely to stick around and take care of a disabled partner than a man...

2) A woman is more likely to stick around and take care of senior parents and even in laws...

So, the OP's assumption is NOT supported by the facts...

That's just the bottom line.

fact is, you made it a point to say that an average dude can donate a kidney like that means anything. thats a hollow statement, especially considering that an AVERAGE WOMAN can also drive a person to the hospital. what does it take a special kind of woman to drive someone to the hospital? a "super hero" as you put it?

yet you seem to keep bringing up that women drive them to the hospital...then downplay this man donating a kidney on the pretense that an average man can do that.

wtf does that have to do with anything? so what if an average dude can donate a kidney? its still a big deal and holds alot more weight then driving someone to the fukkin hospital



edit: i edited out the last part due to organ donation

 

[Still Benefited]

I think the reason you might feel this way is becuz you do see females that have feuds with they mamas,but u hardly ever see a nikka who has hate for his mama(black dudes).....so the fact u come accross women that don't like they mama and never dudes that feel that way may be throwin ya perception off?