parenting
to me, Asians have the best parenting style
they don't whoop their kids asses like black parents but they don't baby them like white parents either. good grades aren't rewarded, they're expected. they don't try to be your friend, they act like a parent. tough love at its finest
here's a good break down
Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior - WSJ.com
my pops was like this. he's part black, part Chinese Jamaican, so he had a mixture of two different parenting styles. I distinctly remember when I was in 2nd grade. I had gotten two Bs and the rest As. showed him my report card and I was like
he hit me with the
"when I was your age I got straight As." while all my friends were getting new sneakers and money from their parents for good grades he'd hit me with the
and keep it moving
plus he had that intimidating, Mufasa "simba, you deliberately disobeyed me" type presence. he only hit me once when I was a kid, yet he still had me shook just off my fear of disappointing him. that's powerful parenting right there.
shyt made me
as a young'n, but looking back I just
at some of the techniques he used to raise me