How Can Woman Jump From Man To Man?

Action Mike

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a broad was asking about why is it that after she told this guy she was dating other men at the same time as him, he started tryin to make more dates with her in an attempt I guess to occupy her time so nobody else could have her :snoop: shyt like this is why the game is so fukked up now

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Stupid brehs like that only make things EASIER.
 

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Sure but how do you know those things are happening? Why do you think women jump from man to man? Because their relationships fail time and time again. And without taking any breaks, they can't work on themselves, heal from past relationships, learn from past relationships, etc so they choose better partners. When you don't take breaks from relationships, you choose the same man over and over again.

It's unfair to the other individual. They are giving you their all, while you are just out of another relationship and still have feelings for your ex. Many of these women also still keep in contact with their ex, sleep with their ex, etc because that emotional attachment is still there.
I see this more than this "women check out early" bullshyt nikkas are talmbout.

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Hypothetical situation...

You just ended a 3 year relationship to a woman you thought you were gonna marry.

As soon as word hits the streets that you're single, every woman you know is trying to get at you.
They're offering to take you out.
Suck your dikk.
Buy you shyt.
Take you on vacations.

You telling me that you're gonna pass that up so you can sit at home and watch Netflix? Of course you aren't. You're gonna keep living your life and experiencing shyt.

Breakups for women are different than breakups for men.

As soon as a woman is single, there are dozens of suitors lined up to get at her. She can choose between being bored or being entertained and potentially finding a new mate. It has nothing to do with being weak, insecure, or lacking confidence.
C'mon breh this ain't the movies. The vast majority of women don't have suitors coming after them like that lol. I understand where you are coming from. I wasn't asking why they do it, but how. How can they jump into a relationship when they just got out of one. I know they ain't over their ex.
 

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I think we might be mixing two different things up. There's a difference between dating and actually being in a full fledged relationship. I assume that guy friends and other chicks are given distance as soon as I get into a committed relationship.
But you see dudes these days are very ambiguous about relationship statuses. So many of these chicks are "dating" but not in relationships. And if ur just dating and getting to know people I don't understand the issue.
Most people aren't cool with dating people that are dating others. Or at least they don't talk about it and pretend like it's not happening. But those never lead to long-lasting, positive committed relationships. If a man or woman tells someone they are dating that there are others, they'll either be thrown to the bushes or the person will lose respect for them and place them in the fwb category, jumpoff status etc.
 

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C'mon breh this ain't the movies. The vast majority of women don't have suitors coming after them like that lol. I understand where you are coming from. I wasn't asking why they do it, but how. How can they jump into a relationship when they just got out of one. I know they ain't over their ex.

Breh I'm telling you they do. Even the fat ones man.

I think it's one thing if women are halfway into another relationship before they end the old one. We can agree that shyt is foul. But women simply aren't wired to turn down attention, ESPECIALLY a freshly single chick in the social media age. It is what it is. :yeshrug:
 

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Breh I'm telling you they do. Even the fat ones man.

I think it's one thing if women are halfway into another relationship before they end the old one. We can agree that shyt is foul. But women simply aren't wired to turn down attention, ESPECIALLY a freshly single chick in the social media age. It is what it is. :yeshrug:
Fat chicks don't have a bunch of suitors going after them LOL. Maybe on social media if they post thirst trap pics but that's about it. In the real world in real life? Hell nah. Some might be able to find like 3-5 simps that they string along but those have game.
 

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Because people play so many games these days, most people are hesitant to fully commit. I see people going into relationships expecting failure.

As a woman, most have a good defense roster available just in case the dude isn't true. It helps to move on easily knowing u have somebody else to talk to and interact with.

U can really like someone but still be cautious until u get to know them while ur dating. In this age of fukkery, it makes sense to do this.

Insecurity.

Trying to fill an emptiness inside

Some women just do not like being alone. I had a friend like this when ever she was getting ready to break up with a guy she already had her back up on deck. She grew up the spoiled niece of like 5 uncles cause both her parents died so I'm sure that had something to do with it.

Every single bolded line is the truth, I've dealt with women that have all 4 of those together, and its a mess. One woman had quite a few failed relationships, her own mama told her to take 6mos to a year off from dating anyone to get her life together, she told me she couldn't because she doesn't like being lonely and alone.
 

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Every single bolded line is the truth, I've dealt with women that have all 4 of those together, and its a mess. One woman had quite a few failed relationships, her own mama told her to take 6mos to a year off from dating anyone to get her life together, she told me she couldn't because she doesn't like being lonely and alone.
Yes my friend after falling for like her 3rd married guy said she was done. I was like finally girl give that cooter and ur heart a break. I talk to her a week later and she's at the hotel with some guy she's had on the back burner for years. All I could do was smh. I remember how baffled she was at the fact that I could be single for 3+ years.
 
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