How Can Woman Jump From Man To Man?

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Dumb question.

Think about what courtship entails from the perspective of a woman.

Your old man is gone.
Here's a new man to:
  1. Gas your head up (attention)
  2. Take you out to dinner (food)
  3. Shower you with love, adoration, compliments, time, money, gifts, vacations, new people, new experiences, new dikk.
Or you could just stay home, watch reruns, and see what all your friends are doing on Snapchat.
No woman alive is gonna go for that.

this....exactly....

its all a game

and im sick of it to be honest
 
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and another thing...there isnt just one way to go through life....

if it isnt physically hurting you....why do you care?

any half way attractive woman has guys waiting in the wings....as soon as she gives the sign those cats step up to the plate....

its always been this way
 

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There is nothing wrong with a woman being single. But if she is single for like 5 years it does raise concerns. And there is definitely a problem with people who jump from relationship to relationship with no breaks in between.
I've been single my whole life, maybe I should kill myself:ld:
 

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I've been single my whole life, maybe I should kill myself:ld:
I said it raises a concern. The vast majority of women don't reach their late teens or early 20s not having been in a relationship before. And it does raise a concern that you are this late in the game and have never been in a relationship. Questions like "why haven't you had a boyfriend yet?" is a plausible one.

Different women have different reasons of course. I've also been single for pretty much my entire life also so :yeshrug::manny:
 

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This is not a woman bashing thread, I am genuinely curious how woman (and some men) can jump from relationship to relationship. Always having a backup dude waiting in the cut until she fully leaves her current dude.

How do they not enjoy being alone? Or is it that the change from spending a lot of time with someone to no longer spending any time with said person is too great and fast a change?

Is it to fill a void that the previous person left? Is it a sign of low self-esteem, low self-confidence, low sense of self-value?

What kind of emotions must one be going through to jump from partner to partner with no breaks in between? People say that women mentally and emotionally break up with a man often times before leaving physically. But it still isn't the same. He's still there and you guys are still spending time with each other.

I'm assuming they don't really like any of these guys, so it's easy for them to move onto the next without batting an eye.

Because women are Emotional Vampires???:ld:
 

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This is not a woman bashing thread, I am genuinely curious how woman (and some men) can jump from relationship to relationship. Always having a backup dude waiting in the cut until she fully leaves her current dude.

How do they not enjoy being alone? Or is it that the change from spending a lot of time with someone to no longer spending any time with said person is too great and fast a change?

Is it to fill a void that the previous person left? Is it a sign of low self-esteem, low self-confidence, low sense of self-value?

What kind of emotions must one be going through to jump from partner to partner with no breaks in between? People say that women mentally and emotionally break up with a man often times before leaving physically. But it still isn't the same. He's still there and you guys are still spending time with each other.

I'm assuming they don't really like any of these guys, so it's easy for them to move onto the next without batting an eye.
nature
nurture
nowing

na

its

horny
looks
not making it work
the finding next dude

no

its being unsatified in a relationship and thinking that sleeping with 6 to 500 men over a lifespan and thinking that will fix that void

maybe a vibrator will do
 

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There is nothing wrong with a woman being single. But if she is single for like 5 years it does raise concerns. And there is definitely a problem with people who jump from relationship to relationship with no breaks in between.

Why does it raise concern? Maybe she's focused on school, maybe she's just shy, maybe she's just asexual. And for people that go from relationship to relationship maybe they just meet people they really like and don't see a reason to wait. Just because someone doesn't do something in the timeframe that you think is acceptable doesn't mean there's something wrong with them.
 
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