How Akon Got NINE Wives, With Other Women Asking To Be His Tenth!

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Dire straits =/= not invested in one's education. A girl might be two yrs in at a state school, but prettier than she is smart.

Your whole side dikk scenario is cool or whatever, but, speaking as a woman who is supported by a man, it's not reality. In fact, for some, the inherent power imbalance only adds to the experience (for both, or in this case, all participants).

Further, I would imagine that Akon chose his women with some understanding of this dynamic. He simply wouldn't have chosen a woman who thought like you. (I mean no offense, ijs.) These women know exactly what they signed up for and the consequences of non compliance.

Right! For women in impoverished circumstances, education provides an avenue for them to attend to their survival needs without having a share a man for his resources. It isn’t that education changes a woman’s nature as much as it merely provides alternatives to the starve or share a dikk dichotomy.

As for the side dikk, I won’t say too much more about that. Just suffice it to say research has actually revealed that a lot of these kids daddies ain’t actually they daddies. And some foreign chicks have told me that’s a major issue kept on the low in a lot of 3rd world communities, especially those without resources to do DNA testing.
To be really real, side dudes themselves can tell u the most about this dynamic but that’s another story. Regardless, if a woman has better options (and hell sometimes just gets interested in different options) sharing one dude won’t be the move especially when faced with the prospect of giving up male attention and interactions with other men for a fraction of one.

People try to equate side chick culture to polygamy but those women have multiple men in many cases in addition to their baby daddies. Totally different dynamic.

Also totally no offense sis!I already know I couldn’t jive with Akon. Hell part of the reason WHY I work so hard is so that I don’t have to devolve into sharing community dikk for rent and bags.

May a chick never have to eat a dikk to pay rent.(Unless she likes it...in that case let ur freak flag fly.)

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

for a man more women can lead to more heirs to distribute & grow wealth

for a woman more men just leads to a fukked pH a sore tired pumz

@Booksnrain

It leads to familial and societal instability. When Jason Mamoa comes thru on his Mr. Steal Yo Girl steez, and Regular Reggie can’t get ANY play from anybody...u have a situation where unchecked male foolishness eroded quality of life resulting in degradation of living conditions that maximize survival of the species.

This is why men and women balance each other out. Men only care as far as busting a nut and will even fukk over their other brethren on some “dats his problem, I don’t care if the world burns as long as I nut” type shyt.

Women through culturalization have to create and cultivate environments where offspring can not only thrive but also survive in contrast to male sexual impetus which just says fukk everything, accountability be damned.

 

[Neuromancer]

He's African.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Women with money and education don't behave any different. In fact they have even worse relationship results when they realize men don't care about a woman's money or education.

All women want a man who is of high status. Women with money are no different. They're not like men who go after looks alone. A rich woman is not typically gonna marry a guy who works at McDonalds. She'll be trying to marry a guy richer than her.

Money and education isn’t about impressing men. It’s about survival and being able to do so without having to gargle the nasty balls of some ugly dude’s wack dikk to pay rent.

If you can live a good life without having to endure the presence of someone u ain’t feeling, what’s the incentive?

Polygamy is a 360 deal for women. Get some shyt you could get on your own merits while getting fukked over.
Some women, much like music artists, fall for it out of desperation or the glitz and glam but ultimately most chicks ain’t on that shyt.

 

[010101]

It leads to familial and societal instability. When Jason Mamoa comes thru on his Mr. Steal Yo Girl steez, and Regular Reggie can’t get ANY play from anybody...u have a situation where unchecked male foolishness eroded quality of life resulting in degradation of living conditions that maximize survival of the species.

This is why men and women balance each other out. Men only care as far as busting a nut and will even fukk over their other brethren on some “dats his problem, I don’t care if the world burns as long as I nut” type shyt.

Women through culturalization have to create and cultivate environments where offspring can not only thrive but also survive in contrast to male sexual impetus which just says fukk everything, accountability be damned.

you talk like women don't initiate divorce the majority of the time & out there trying to pass off outside children on their significant other

for as many irresponsible men are out there the few righteous men are the ones keeping all this shyte together

in this era ain't no way you can present women as examples of high morals & quality of character

ha

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[Swagnificent]

Money and education isn’t about impressing men. It’s about survival and being able to do so without having to gargle the nasty balls of some ugly dude’s wack dikk to pay rent.

If you can live a good life without having to endure the presence of someone u ain’t feeling, what’s the incentive?

Polygamy is a 360 deal for women. Get some shyt you could get on your own merits while getting fukked over.
Some women, much like music artists, fall for it out of desperation or the glitz and glam but ultimately most chicks ain’t on that shyt.

At the end of the day people want companionship and sexual intimacy. Women who are educated and have their own money find themselves to be among the most unhappy women because they find it hard to find that companionship because men don't value what they have achieved. The men they desire who have as much education and money as them go for younger prettier less educated women than the women who sacrificed their youth gaining those diplomas and moving up the corporate ladder.

I don't need to explain this in depth cause I know most women on here know this to be true. Especially black women because the dating pool of black men who have achieved as much as these high achieving women is extremely small. And those men most of the time don't have interest in these high achieving black women because as men we don't care about social status or money when it comes to looking for companionship or sexual intimacy with the opposite sex. We only look for raw sexual attraction. A girl could work at McDonalds and a high-earning corporate executive will date her. The opposite simply doesn't hold true for women. A high-earning corporate executive female will not date a guy who works at McDonalds who happens to look good. Women even when they achieve a lot are still trapped by their biological need to mate with a man who is of high status.

 

[010101]

At the end of the day people want companionship and sexual intimacy. Women who are educated and have their own money find themselves to be among the most unhappy women because they find it hard to find that companionship because men don't value what they have achieved. The men they desire who have as much education and money as them go for younger prettier less educated women than the women who sacrificed their youth gaining those diplomas and moving up the corporate ladder.

I don't need to explain this in depth cause I know most women on here know this to be true. Especially black women because the dating pool of black men who have achieved as much as these high achieving women is extremely small. And those men most of the time don't have interest in these high achieving black women because as men we don't care about social status or money when it comes to looking for companionship or sexual intimacy with the opposite sex. We only look for raw sexual attraction. A girl could work at McDonalds and a high-earning corporate executive will date her. The opposite simply doesn't hold true for women. A high-earning corporate executive female will not date a guy who works at McDonalds who happens to look good. Women even when they achieve a lot are still trapped by their biological need to mate with a man who is of high status.

speak for yourself.........you out there loving them bum bytches huh¿*

 

[Prodyson]

it's not semantics. if you just listened to the man he ain't creepin or lying to women.

People like you ruin conversations. You know what the nikka means. You just being difficult.

He’s just saying that women would rather share a rich man even if they aren’t completely satisfied than be with a regular dude and enjoy exclusivity.

just say whether you agree or disagree and move on.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I don't agree tho

I come from a polygamous background too

most people I grew up with were maybe 1 generation removed from that family dynamic

People like you ruin conversations. You know what the nikka means. You just being difficult.

He’s just saying that women would rather share a rich man even if they aren’t completely satisfied than be with a regular dude and enjoy exclusivity.

just say whether you agree or disagree and move on.

 

[Swagnificent]

speak for yourself.........you out there loving them bum bytches huh¿*

If she's bad that's all I care about. The dumber the better.

 

[010101]

If she's bad that's all I care about. The dumber the better.

you on some bobo shyte*

 

[HarlemHottie]

If she's bad that's all I care about. The dumber the better.

Purposefully have stupid kids, brehs.

 

[The Fade]

nikkas want that Kingdom of Dahomey shyt back


Most of y’all would die childless

 

[Gunz&Butta]

this back and forth is pointless. It is like a Chinese man and French man trying to have a conversation without speaking a common language.

In Africa, polygamy works just fine because women place lineage above dikk.
As a woman, if you place dikk, attention and affection above your children's paternity, polygamy makes no sense at all.

In polygamous societies, women are fine sleeping alone at night and not getting all that love and affection as long as they can get a worthy father for their children.

Even here in America, a lot of women would happily be Barack Obama's 8th wife as long as they can tell the kids that Barack Obama is their daddy. The reasoning here is that dikk is temporary but lineage is forever.

 

[010101]

this back and forth is pointless. It is like a Chinese man and French man trying to have a conversation without speaking a common language.

In Africa, polygamy works just fine because women place lineage above dikk.
As a woman, if you place dikk, attention and affection above your children's paternity, polygamy makes no sense at all.

In polygamous societies, women are fine sleeping alone at night and not getting all that love and affection as long as they can get a worthy father for their children.

Even here in America, a lot of women would happily be Barack Obama's 8th wife as long as they can tell the kids that Barack Obama is their daddy. The reasoning here is that dikk is temporary but lineage is forever.

natural sense*