Honestly, Swirling Is Overblown And A Myth

[Yeet Infection]

no it aint, im rican, but im white as shyt skin tone wise, like this, and my pale balls stay deep in chocolate. i love em.

fukk off cric

 

[BigMan]

The answer to which you guys seek is kind of complex. It's partially been explained but I'll try to be as thorough as possible.

LA is a vast place. There's about 13-15 million in the direct metro, and it's all spread out. Since the great recession, the black community has been hit hard by gentrification, in areas that used to be a stronghold for blacks. They're are now overrun by hipsters or hispanics. Contrary to belief most people black out here, still fukk with each other; at least get married / have kids with one another.

One thing that is constantly overlooked, revolves around LA being a transplant city. Most people come here from somewhere else; usually after hs, college, or some type of advancement in career.

With that said, you have a good number of black women only seek ballers, rappers, and athletes, trappers, nikkas with swag, etc. Then you have black women with a rotation of men, that they're "dating" and playing games on. This evidently leaves a lot of regular square type cats out in the dusk, because they can't compete. But now there's becky. And becky is everywhere. Even if you shoot with bad aim, you can't miss. Becky doesn't usually run game and have a rotation of men, like a lot of attractive / in demand black women do.

Now the same is true, for square / educated black women. A lot of black women are tired of competing other women for the same type of desirable men, they feel they deserve. They aren't really coming in to contact with regular black dudes, because they're off doing square shyt or in square circles. Now black women can seek out ways to attract Todd. Todd like becky, is everywhere, if you shoot you can't miss. And Todd is percieved to night be playing any games....

The real problem is regular black people who aren't in the entertainment business or aren't with playing games; struggle to attractive each other or cross paths, meanwhile becky's and todd's are everywhere.

Hope this generalization helps.....

Why isn't this phenomenon the same in the NYC

 

[#1 pick]

Im in sandy springs, Atlanta, so many damn bedwenches

My best friend wanted to move there. I see why now, it's a swirl haven. I always should think about why he mentions these places. I think about Black hubs with great school, he thinks about mixed race hubs. Makes sense when you look at his situation and you look at mines.

 

[Serious]

Why isn't this phenomenon the same in the NYC

Pretty sure there's more black people in NYC. Not to mention the city isn't as spread out, basically you date / fukk what your neighborhood / environment is composed of. I doubt chicks from Crenshaw and Inglewood are getting their wench in astronomical numbers, but a chick from West LA, that went to school where there were less than 50 blacks, is more susceptible to dating out, because most of her peers and friends growing up, are comprised of ethnicities.

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

I honestly feel if a black woman desires to be married, the quickest way to get there is to be open to dating other races. Right or wrong, good or bad. That's just what it is. With that said I understand why some black men have aversions to marriage and are slow to move forward with it.

3/10

troll better

 

[Poitier]

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[Yeet Infection]

Pretty sure there's more black people in NYC. Not to mention the city isn't as spread out, basically you date / fukk what your neighborhood / environment is composed of. I doubt chicks from Crenshaw and Inglewood are getting their wench in astronomical numbers, but a chick from West LA, that went to school where there were less than 50 blacks, is more susceptible to dating out, because most of her peers and friends growing up, are comprised of ethnicities.

This is something people don't factor in. ucla has 30k people and only 1100 of thek are black. it's inevitable minorities racially mix with the dominant population.

 

[Poitier]

I feel this is bs

Black women's options for dating out are white men. But due to sheer numbers and antiblackness most white men do not want to marry blacks

Latin men will smash but not wife a morena
Asian men LOL
Arabs/Indian LMAOOOO not in this country

So y'all best options are us nikkas


Sorry

Logic doesn't work with these types, breh.

She is older, scorned and made a bunch of bad decision making in regards to men but more than likely takes no accountability. Her truth is her truth.

 

[MollyGalaga]

They really have a seminar for this shyt...


And didn't halley berrys white knight take her to the cleaners for 20k a month support.....

Nah the biggest L now is the c00nette Aisha Tyler
The Talk's Aisha Tyler to Pay Ex-Husband $2 Million in Spousal Support: Court Documents

Dry cleaned

 

[Poitier]

Pretty sure there's more black people in NYC. Not to mention the city isn't as spread out, basically you date / fukk what your neighborhood / environment is composed of. I doubt chicks from Crenshaw and Inglewood are getting their wench in astronomical numbers, but a chick from West LA, that went to school where there were less than 50 blacks, is more susceptible to dating out, because most of her peers and friends growing up, are comprised of ethnicities.

This doesn't make sense.

For the rate to be 30 percent, it means that this isn't just Black people raised around White people marrying out. That happens everywhere. At that rate, it is folks from Crenshaw and Inglewood, too.

 

[MollyGalaga]

What about the brehs who palette is already swirled up

Should i do what Beyonce has done

 

[Serious]

This doesn't make sense.

For the rate to be 30 percent, it means that this isn't just Black people raised around White people marrying out. That happens everywhere. At that rate, it is folks from Crenshaw and Inglewood, too.

Not even

 

[Cadillac]

The answer to which you guys seek is kind of complex. It's partially been explained but I'll try to be as thorough as possible.

LA is a vast place. There's about 13-15 million in the direct metro, and it's all spread out. Since the great recession, the black community has been hit hard by gentrification, in areas that used to be a stronghold for blacks. They're are now overrun by hipsters or hispanics. Contrary to belief most people black out here, still fukk with each other; at least get married / have kids with one another.

One thing that is constantly overlooked, revolves around LA being a transplant city. Most people come here from somewhere else; usually after hs, college, or some type of advancement in career.

With that said, you have a good number of black women only seek ballers, rappers, and athletes, trappers, nikkas with swag, etc. Then you have black women with a rotation of men, that they're "dating" and playing games on. This evidently leaves a lot of regular square type cats out in the dusk, because they can't compete. But now there's becky. And becky is everywhere. Even if you shoot with bad aim, you can't miss. Becky doesn't usually run game and have a rotation of men, like a lot of attractive / in demand black women do.

Now the same is true, for square / educated black women. A lot of black women are tired of competing other women for the same type of desirable men, they feel they deserve. They aren't really coming in to contact with regular black dudes, because they're off doing square shyt or in square circles. Now black women can seek out ways to attract Todd. Todd like becky, is everywhere, if you shoot you can't miss. And Todd is percieved to night be playing any games....

The real problem is regular black people who aren't in the entertainment business or aren't with playing games; struggle to attractive each other or cross paths, meanwhile becky's and todd's are everywhere.

Hope this generalization helps.....

Props for answering and not dodging.

But this explaination does not help put a better light on u guys At all.

La black folks lost.

And they Lawst

 

[Thanos]

In Atlanta, I don't really see it as much. Hell, I see more women that are single. In CA, I can see why some women are complaining. Got rates that pretty close asian levels.

 

[Serious]

Props for answering and not dodging.

But this explaination does not help put a better light on u guys At all.

La black folks r lost.

And they Lawst

I mean its a complex and loaded question. The simpliest explanation is that men and women have more options, so waiting for that unicorn from someone from the same background ain't happening. People mate with what their direct environment is composed.

For example its statistically easier to shoot your shot 10 pawgs then 10 black women you're attracted too.

But the real which you guys are looking for is, there's a lot of self and stereotyping of the other gender. Black women view a lot of bm as thugs from the jump, and black men think a lot bw are classless and ghetto.

A lot of educated black people suffer from inclusion, while working with non black's and think they're different. Blacks in LA who are educated or a bit more successful try to distance themselves from negative black stereotypes.

A non black partner can be seen as a social status symbol. That one is educated and successful because someone from another race wants to date them. Truth be told brothers with their shyt together get chased down by beckies.