Hol up Lucy liu CHOSE to be a single mother?

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most donors are white because that's what most women who go that route want.
In one of my previous positions I worked with a small group of studs and all of them had biracial kids. Even the few who were in relationships with other black women had mixed kids. Back then I couldn't believe they all chose white sperm donors. I was like :dwillhuh:
 

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Looks like the study was done in a European country with the use of the word "mum". I don't know how the gender roles are over there, but I believe american men are doing more household chores more than ever.

Plus we take care of landscaping around the house, fix things that need to be fixed etc.

edit: done in australia.
:patrice:Nah the results were discussed in other countries but the survey was done in the U.S.
Therefore, it is not strange that a survey conducted in the United States with more than 7,000 mothers revealed that husbands generate 10 times more stress to them than children. 46% of women surveyed said that their partners were contributing more of their children to increase the stress.
:huhldup: Husbands stress out their wives more than sons
 

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Why? do you want to hear babble?

Or course they're gonna say yes but then if you ask them the literally Typer Perry Question Why did they get married? Is because they know like you know that women NEED a Man.
Just the idea that a grown person’s honest opinion about how THEY feel about their own marriage being insulted is stressful.:wow:

So now a chick can’t even be honest about the circumstances she going thru herself without it being babble. That attitude contributes to the stress.
Nobody said men weren’t needed. But ignoring the reasons why some women don’t want to deal with a lotta men will only continue to alienate women. Men can’t ever complain about female accountability because they suck just as badly at it.:picard:
 

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Then why do the keep opting out of y’all to have kids on their own?
Also consider that the situation can be worse for women who make a lot of money because a lotta dudes are threatened if women make even close to over half of the income in the household and cheat if she is the breadwinner.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/phys.org/news/2019-11-husbands-stress-wives-cent-household.amp
:hubie:Men with breadwinning wives more likely to cheat, study says - CNN

So in those cases, I can understand women with reproductive impulses choosing to have children but wishing to avoid the potential stress of relationships.

I personally think there isn’t a replacement for great fathers, but being a single parent is better than being in a relationship with a shytty partner and/or parent.
 

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Also consider that the situation can be worse for women who make a lot of money because a lotta dudes are threatened if women make even close to over half of the income in the household and cheat if she is the breadwinner.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/phys.org/news/2019-11-husbands-stress-wives-cent-household.amp
:hubie:Men with breadwinning wives more likely to cheat, study says - CNN

So in those cases, I can understand women with reproductive impulses choosing to have children but wishing to avoid the potential stress of relationships.

I personally think there isn’t a replacement for great fathers, but being a single parent is better than being in a relationship with a shytty partner and/or parent.

I don't think there is a replacement for great fathers either, but some of these dudes just aren't good fathers or husbands for that matter. Some could be better fathers if they weren't husbands to be perfectly honest.

I'm not against marriage or the nuclear family AT ALL. My thing is you can't be sexually reckless with the opposite sex and somehow still hold on to the value that children should be conceived in wedlock. Conduct yourself that way then!!

If you choose not to, which a good number are choosing, commit to the situation your actions got you into. Not abandon it fully because it wasn't ideal and goes against the values that you weren't upholding your damn self.
 

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I don't think there is a replacement for great fathers either, but some of these dudes just aren't good fathers or husbands for that matter. Some could be better fathers if they weren't husbands to be perfectly honest.

I'm not against marriage or the nuclear family AT ALL. My thing is you can't be sexually reckless with the opposite sex and somehow still hold on to the value that children should be conceived in wedlock. Conduct yourself that way then!!

If you choose not to, which a good number are choosing, commit to the situation your actions got you into. Not abandon it fully because it wasn't ideal and goes against the values that you weren't upholding your damn self.
All of this.
:wow:Yeah I also think a LOT of women are finally listening to what too many men have been telling them. That they think they are inferior. That they don’t want to be your friend. That they believe women are incapable of doing anything on their own. The whore/Madonna complexes. The double standards.

Women have listened and are now accepting who men say they are. But you can accept something and still refuse to deal with them. This is a real-time embodiment of a lot of women saying the juice ain’t worth the squeeze.:yeshrug:The next few decades are gonna be some interesting times. That’s for sure. Alright sis! I gotta get back to this work. Hope you been well! I might be back on tomorrow if I get this stuff done.:deadmanny:
 

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All of this.
:wow:Yeah I also think a LOT of women are finally listening to what too many men have been telling them. That they think they are inferior. That they don’t want to be your friend. That they believe women are incapable of doing anything on their own. The whore/Madonna complexes. The double standards.

Women have listened and are now accepting who men say they are. But you can accept something and still refuse to deal with them. This is a real-time embodiment of a lot of women saying the juice ain’t worth the squeeze.:yeshrug:The next few decades are gonna be some interesting times. That’s for sure. Alright sis! I gotta get back to this work. Hope you been well! I might be back on tomorrow if I get this stuff done.:deadmanny:
Why buy the tree when you can get the wood for free or however it goes.
 

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In one of my previous positions I worked with a small group of studs and all of them had biracial kids. Even the few who were in relationships with other black women had mixed kids. Back then I couldn't believe they all chose white sperm donors. I was like :dwillhuh:


To keep it real if the vast majority of super high value Black Men agreed to donate their sperm wouldn't get picked.
 

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Then why do the keep opting out of y’all to have kids on their own?


Because they have the state to back them up. If they didn't complain then dude should be "worried" Outside of child support issues no fathers are complaining about their BM's
 
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I work in showbiz. Mainly PA and CA work. Maybe I'll transition into producing... Its a busy fukking day for everyone. Average days are 12 - 16 hours, five days a week. The job leaves little time for relationships, let alone new relationships, or family. If she has support good for her. But yeah, it might be hard for her to hold a family if she is constantly busy. People think its super glamorous. It's tiring, long and frustrating hours... The stars/actors often have even longer days.


Damn,

This is low-key fascinating. Id love to know more about that realm. Wanna drop some more info? :ohhh:
 

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Just the idea that a grown person’s honest opinion about how THEY feel about their own marriage being insulted is stressful.:wow:

So now a chick can’t even be honest about the circumstances she going thru herself without it being babble. That attitude contributes to the stress.
Nobody said men weren’t needed. But ignoring the reasons why some women don’t want to deal with a lotta men will only continue to alienate women. Men can’t ever complain about female accountability because they suck just as badly at it.:picard:


Yes Babble.

Babble meaning saying things that the speaker and the listener both know is untrue. You ask women about marriage and for the most part they're gonna talk about the negative aspects of it. Only older women will clean up the negatives and say something like Despite all of that that Man has been my Rock or something like that. Hence the Why did I get Married reference.


Yes I say wild super "red pilled" shyt on here one thing you never heard me or almost no breh on her say is that dealing with women is not worth it. Women say this about Men all the time. You said the main issue with some dudes in the bunz department is that generally women just don't think it's worth it to deal with them. The most inceliest coli Incel never said that the effort isn't worth deal with women.

It's not that modern urban women need Men to sustain life it's just that women have an aversion to doing anything difficult dirty or dangerous When there's a Man around who can do it for them. Things that are generally considered "female shyt" Men don't look to random women to wash their dishes for them.

This song kinda explains it:




And she doesn't say that she couldn't do those things It's that she rather the Man do them. She acknowledges the one thing that she can't do ONLY YOU CAN TEACH HIM TO BE A MAN!!!! No dude on earth ever said that they can teach a girl how to be a woman.

Lucy Liu didn't say the babble but if she suggested that she could teach her son to be a Man that would be babble.
 

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