HINGE Is The Future Brehs
- Thread starter MaxPain
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I sincerely dont know how men do it. Using these dating apps you are crushing your self esteem without even realizing it. It puts you in a position where you are essentially auditioning for women
The dudes i Know who are truly successful on it are either
a) messing with women I would never entertain due to lack of attraction
b) being very generous with where they take these women and how much they spend
c) are white
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
Care less. Focus on your purpose and it'll happen when you least expect it. For real. Many women are so wishy washy it can be like catching fish sometimes. You could have the most attractive bait on the hook but if you shake the line too much when they are near the hook it'll scare them away.But I’m tryna get married and start a family.
Fixed that for you. This is modern dating culture now it's permeating through age groups otherwise facts.
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
All of this is facts especially the bolded. The best way to win at a rigged game is to simply not play. Dating apps aren't the only way to meet people. They should be a supplement if we're being quite honest to meet people you normally wouldn't come across.I sincerely dont know how men do it. Using these dating apps you are crushing your self esteem without even realizing it. It puts you in a position where you are essentially auditioning for women
The dudes i Know who are truly successful on it are either
a) messing with women I would never entertain due to lack of attraction
b) being very generous with where they take these women and how much they spend
c) are white
If a 6 on the app is not responding to you but you got an 8 at the bar when you go out tryna holla at you then youre probably not sweating it. You'd assume its something with the chick on the app.
On the other hand if you using only the app then you might be like "damn aight maybe i need to swipe on less attractive people" now you swiping 5s and they responding to you cuz you an 8 and way above their attractiveness in real life but they'll never admit you're an 8 and much more attractive than them lol. So now you think you're a 5 cuz thats who responds to you.
Meanwhile the actual 8s on the app have 100s of likes and matches and messages that you might not even get seen and they are tired of responding by like the 5th guy they message and complain about men starting conversations with "hi how are you doing?" You know the normal way you greet and interact with a stranger
shyt is retarded when you think about it
All of this is facts especially the bolded. The best way to win at a rigged game is to simply not play. Dating apps aren't the only way to meet people. They should be a supplement if we're being quite honest to meet people you normally wouldn't come across.
If a 6 on the app is not responding to you but you got an 8 at the bar when you go out tryna holla at you then youre probably not sweating it. You'd assume its something with the chick on the app.
On the other hand if you using only the app then you might be like "damn aight maybe i need to swipe on less attractive people" now you swiping 5s and they responding to you cuz you an 8 and way above their attractiveness in real life but they'll never admit you're an 8 and much more attractive than them lol. So now you think you're a 5 cuz thats who responds to you.
Meanwhile the actual 8s on the app have 100s of likes and matches and messages that you might not even get seen and they are tired of responding by like the 5th guy they message and complain about men starting conversations with "hi how are you doing?" You know the normal way you greet and interact with a stranger
shyt is retarded when you think about it
The apps are not supposed to be the only channel to funnel leads (just using marketing terms
)
Vandelay
Life is absurd. Lean into it.
I'm down to 3. If I can get down to a solid 2, I'm gonna make em duke it out.
I hate meeting women this way because its a paradox of choice; so many people are unbelievably flaky. My problem is, the app is kind of compulsive for me because I get a lot of matches. I get bored or in a meeting at work I don't have to say shyt and my mind starts to drift, swipe, swipe, swipe...like I'm in JBO, and I rather fukk someone than look at porn. And I'm the second dude you talk about who's spending an abnormal amount of money. I'm typically pretty bad with women, but I won't lie if this schooled me on female nature and how to act accordingly. I met 2 or 3 I legit would've wifed up, but when they say people really just be fukking on this app...a lot more than I'm comfortable admitting just want to fukk and I caught feelings. I legit want more than that.
Georgiamuscle
Superstar
Mans got it down to a scienceI'm down to 3. If I can get down to a solid 2, I'm gonna make em duke it out.
I hate meeting women this way because its a paradox of choice; so many people are unbelievably flaky. My problem is, the app is kind of compulsive for me because I get a lot of matches. I get bored or in a meeting at work I don't have to say shyt and my mind starts to drift, swipe, swipe, swipe...like I'm in JBO, and I rather fukk someone than look at porn. And I'm the second dude you talk about who's spending an abnormal amount of money. I'm typically pretty bad with women, but I won't lie if this schooled me on female nature and how to act accordingly. I met 2 or 3 I legit would've wifed up, but when they say people really just be fukking on this app...a lot more than I'm comfortable admitting just want to fukk and I caught feelings. I legit want more than that.
Nokids
Promise if I have a seed imma guide him right
Been off the apps for a while at first it’s nice to have 100+ matches like some of the other homies in the thread can co sign. But it gets tiring after the 10th “hey handsome” in a day. shyt after a while I stopped responding even to baddies.
There was one girl I kept in contact for almost a year but we didn’t link because she travels overseas for work(bunch of them Kim Possible hoes on there lol) so we’re finally able to hang out and she was a nice slim bytch from her pics and the ft we had last year.
She came thru and when I got off the elevator she was standing right there and hit the
. She was literally 30-50 pounds heavier than her pics. Instantly I said I am never meeting an OLD chick again lol. I mean yea I got my Majiik Montana on caught the neck and fukked 
but I rather now meet 1 bytch a week shyt, that’s still 52 in a year.
There was one girl I kept in contact for almost a year but we didn’t link because she travels overseas for work(bunch of them Kim Possible hoes on there lol) so we’re finally able to hang out and she was a nice slim bytch from her pics and the ft we had last year.
She came thru and when I got off the elevator she was standing right there and hit the
. She was literally 30-50 pounds heavier than her pics. Instantly I said I am never meeting an OLD chick again lol. I mean yea I got my Majiik Montana on caught the neck and fukked but I rather now meet 1 bytch a week shyt, that’s still 52 in a year.lol share the pics on your profile...cover your faceI'm down to 3. If I can get down to a solid 2, I'm gonna make em duke it out.
I hate meeting women this way because its a paradox of choice; so many people are unbelievably flaky. My problem is, the app is kind of compulsive for me because I get a lot of matches. I get bored or in a meeting at work I don't have to say shyt and my mind starts to drift, swipe, swipe, swipe...like I'm in JBO, and I rather fukk someone than look at porn. And I'm the second dude you talk about who's spending an abnormal amount of money. I'm typically pretty bad with women, but I won't lie if this schooled me on female nature and how to act accordingly. I met 2 or 3 I legit would've wifed up, but when they say people really just be fukking on this app...a lot more than I'm comfortable admitting just want to fukk and I caught feelings. I legit want more than that.
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
I'm down to 3. If I can get down to a solid 2, I'm gonna make em duke it out.
I hate meeting women this way because its a paradox of choice; so many people are unbelievably flaky. My problem is, the app is kind of compulsive for me because I get a lot of matches. I get bored or in a meeting at work I don't have to say shyt and my mind starts to drift, swipe, swipe, swipe...like I'm in JBO, and I rather fukk someone than look at porn. And I'm the second dude you talk about who's spending an abnormal amount of money. I'm typically pretty bad with women, but I won't lie if this schooled me on female nature and how to act accordingly. I met 2 or 3 I legit would've wifed up, but when they say people really just be fukking on this app...a lot more than I'm comfortable admitting just want to fukk and I caught feelings. I legit want more than that.
Tell us your ways. You just be on the app a lot or did you figure out a good method?
Vandelay
Life is absurd. Lean into it.
It's the pics man...I'm a decent looking dude in relatively good shape, but I'm 40, short, and bald...It's the pics and looking like you got some kind of lifestyle other than randomly taking them shyts in a bathroom.
LOL, I'll post it...but I got one kinda thirst-trappy photo with my shirt off I gotta blur out. Can't have that on a site full of dudes...
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
That shyt gonna be all over tiktok watch. Them content creators steal from here all the time
