HINGE Is The Future Brehs

[Vandelay]

Breh I deleted my shyt lol. These women are not serious. I've used this app for 2 months. I've noticed a few things: the attractive women will often match and not reply. The okay looking and ugly women will constantly try to punch above their weight class. Women will agree to a date then ghost you frequently. The ones you do meet up with will look much worse than their pics. A lot of women on there expect you to entertain them and carry the conversation on your back. Then they'll eventually just let the conversation die or you ask them out and/or ask for their number and they stop responding but dont unmatch.

It became obvious there's an inherent uneven playing field on this app that caters towards the man being a simp and trying to constantly qualify himself to women he matches with for a chance at a date. Sorry but I can't get with that chasing a woman shyt. shyt just ain't in my DNA. Gotta be mutual otherwise what is the point?

Dating has and always will be a numbers game

This.

My experience is different. Once I learned to actually take photos and put some halfway decent content on my profile, my match rate be like the women. However, I noticed I'm running into mostly 3 types of women:

1. 8, 9, 10's who match but are flaky as fukk. You need to basically hound them, get the number set up a date within the first 2-3 interactions or else what I'm assuming, they're getting other matches and forget about you. I'm assuming this because when I match with 5's or 6's, I do the same shyt to them.
2. 7's and 8's, who are responsive, will meet up, and dtf, but they have a kid or kids.
3. 5's and 6's who talk, friendly, dtf, but I'm just not interested unless they jump out the window and say they're dtf out the gate. I don't feel like putting any effort in with these women and really only entertain when my rotation starts to thin out.

It's pics, lifestyle, and a numbers game. Really nothing else.

 

[Jazzy B.]

This is true in real life yes meeting people in real world scenarios is a clear cut game of probability.
On an app with an optional subscription? Not so much. It is designed to engage women with an overabundance of options and keep them glued to the dopamine release of getting new matches and encourages burnout moving from person to person. For men it is designed to dangle the carrot and continually present women to you who are burnt out from all the matches and convos and frustrate you into paying and/or keep you paying by ensuring you never find a relationship. It is algorithmically is designed to make the most money possible. So no in the context of the app itself it is absolutely a numbers game but one that is rigged against you like the machines in Vegas.

I agree online dating is skewered but it's still a numbers game.

You could match with 500 women and 450 of them could be on some bullshyt.

You could match with another 500 and only 200 of them could be on some bullshyt.

 

[Illuminatos]

Lol I'm scrolling through Tinder today and I come across this profile and as I'm swiping through the pics I see it's a treh (), now get this, one of the pics on their profile is a screenshot of their likes page with 9,999+ likes. I don't know if this is a legit pic or if it was taken off the internet but yeah, this online dating stuff is really a mix of timing and luck, cause you could be the perfect match for a chick and she'll never see your profile because 100+ dudes liked her and pushed your profile to the bottom by the time she logs on.

 

[cyndaquil]

Lol I'm scrolling through Tinder today and I come across this profile and as I'm swiping through the pics I see it's a treh (), now get this, one of the pics on their profile is a screenshot of their likes page with 9,999+ likes. I don't know if this is a legit pic or if it was taken off the internet but yeah, this online dating stuff is really a mix of timing and luck, cause you could be the perfect match for a chick and she'll never see your profile because 100+ dudes liked her and pushed your profile to the bottom by the time she logs on.

Lol watch this video it basically explains the dynamic and why it is.

 

[Brolic]

I download upward last night and I got 32 likes in a day. I paid $20 for the hell of it just to see the likes. It looks like only 4 of 32 were bots.
This confirms that Hinge is burying/hiding my profile.

 

[Voice of Reason]

This.

My experience is different. Once I learned to actually take photos and put some halfway decent content on my profile, my match rate be like the women. However, I noticed I'm running into mostly 3 types of women:

1. 8, 9, 10's who match but are flaky as fukk. You need to basically hound them, get the number set up a date within the first 2-3 interactions or else what I'm assuming, they're getting other matches and forget about you. I'm assuming this because when I match with 5's or 6's, I do the same shyt to them.
2. 7's and 8's, who are responsive, will meet up, and dtf, but they have a kid or kids.
3. 5's and 6's who talk, friendly, dtf, but I'm just not interested unless they jump out the window and say they're dtf out the gate. I don't feel like putting any effort in with these women and really only entertain when my rotation starts to thin out.

It's pics, lifestyle, and a numbers game. Really nothing else.

What age range are you and what age range do you date?

 

[Voice of Reason]

I did the hinge plus thing for 2 months then got apple to give me a refund

 

[Vandelay]

What age range are you and what age range do you date?

I'm 40. 27-45.

I've made some exceptions here and there.

 

[Crashwd5]

I've been on hinge for about 2 months now, shyt is mostly frustrating.

I get a bunch of matches, but it's a chore to get a conversation out of 80% of the women on there. I have no patience for that. I unmatch quickly if they don't put in any type of effort. The other 10% of women on there will actually put in some type of effort with the conversation....but after we set up and agree to a date....they either ghost or flake with some bs excuse. I had a fine Brazilian broad message me 1 hour before our date telling me that she couldn't make it because she forgot it was her grandmothers birthday lol. I unmatched asap after that. I had this other girl tell me that she wanted to chat a bit longer before we met because she was new to dating apps. I told her that it was no problem, she told me that she happy that I was cool about it....the next morning she unmatched.

The other day I got some ass on the app for the first time. The girl was a legit pawg. She was fine af. We went out on 3 dates. The first one was smooth. Went mini golfing, it was fun, we got to know each other.... but she didn't really give me any signs that she was super interested. The second date we went to a restaurant. Same thing, it went well, but she didn't give me a lot of signals that she was interested like that.... Then I said fuk it, I sat next to her, I put my hand on her back, I turned the charm up a bit, and she was cooperating like crazy. We ended up making out for like 15 minutes (she had work in the morning so she didn't want to hook up). The third date we went to an escape room, had a good time, and then I took her back to my spot and I smashed. This chick was a super freak

 

[WaveGang]

Breh I deleted my shyt lol. These women are not serious. I've used this app for 2 months. I've noticed a few things: the attractive women will often match and not reply. The okay looking and ugly women will constantly try to punch above their weight class. Women will agree to a date then ghost you frequently. The ones you do meet up with will look much worse than their pics. A lot of women on there expect you to entertain them and carry the conversation on your back. Then they'll eventually just let the conversation die or you ask them out and/or ask for their number and they stop responding but dont unmatch.

It became obvious there's an inherent uneven playing field on this app that caters towards the man being a simp and trying to constantly qualify himself to women he matches with for a chance at a date. Sorry but I can't get with that chasing a woman shyt. shyt just ain't in my DNA. Gotta be mutual otherwise what is the point?

Here's me response:

The juice definitely ain’t worth the squeeze tho. Unless you’re cruising in life, achieving all your goals effortlessly and own valuable assets I wouldn’t even bother.

Focus on yourself and levelling up for next year.

Or

I eat damn good from there and my ratio and matches to smashes is bad. It's a numbers game, play the game and go have fun.

I'd go with the former. Protect your peace and find an avenue for new leads. Go back to it when you're spirit is up and you're in a great place mentally. Vibes conquer all.

It's a picture,lifestyle and numbers game fr. Tryna live life through the app will never work.

 

[International Playa]

I was on Hinge for 1 year & half. I had 3 first date sex, 1 FWB & got 1 serious relationship that Im currently in.

It took a lot of swiping & many conversations with close to 100s of women. This shyt is a numbers game

 

[Illuminatos]

Saw some chick I smashed late last year on one of these apps talking about she’s a born again virgin and waiting for marriage.

 

[Brolic]

HuhSaw some chick I smashed late last year on one of these apps talking about she’s a born again virgin and waiting for marriage.

I was on Upward and I saw a single mother of 2 kids who were under 3 years old saying the same thing.
I saw another one with 2 kids who said she didn’t want more, but was looking to get married. It’s crazy how delusional/out of touch some women are.

 

[cyndaquil]

Saw some chick I smashed late last year on one of these apps talking about she’s a born again virgin and waiting for marriage.

I was on Upward and I saw a single mother of 2 kids who were under 3 years old saying the same thing.
I saw another one with 2 kids who said she didn’t want more, but was looking to get married. It’s crazy how delusional/out of touch some women are.

shyt is crazy lol Ain't no man in his right mind gonna marry without trying out the p*ssy first unless for religious reasons but most those wanted religious men get married in their early 20s. The rest of the dudes playing along with this shyt either desperate themselves (the woman not gonna respect him) or sociopaths/players who gonna pretend then get her to give up the p*ssy and dip.

They think their only power to keep a man is sex. Once they give it up they don't have any more chips left to play.
If they did some introspection and reflection they'd see it isn't the sex. It's who they are choosing to fukk and other things within themselves that isn't keeping the men around. Let's keep it a buck, there are whores with 100+ bodies getting wifed up everyday. If it was the sex that was the issue that wouldn't happen.
Hoes get used up then turn to religion to help them make better decisions. In hopes of finding a husband "Born again virgin" with 2 kids and a patient history at the doctors office featuring chlamydia on and off every 6 months

 

[Brolic]

The algorithm finally kicked in last weekend, I’m out the Hinge bushes.
I matched with three 7/10s and an 8/10 on Hinge, and I’m talking to an 7/10 on Upward.