I have some hard lines that I draw on past behavior; I don't want to know her number, certain acts, or who all she been with. That being said, I generally don't want to know and will mostly judge on how she treats me.
She gotta be a freak for me. If she's not; first of all I wouldn't be with her, but 2, if I found she did all kinds of shyt and then put on a chastity belt for me, I'm gonna resent her and tell her to kick rocks.
I get the ladies perspective in that when they find "the one" or a "good dude" that want them to value them for more than just sex, but then don't have a track record of fukking certain type of dudes on the the first date because they're "fukk boys". That's the dumbest fukking logic ever. Be consistent.
And keeping it 100...yes, I speak from experience on that. Ironically, I been on both sides of that coin though. Especially as I get older.