People in general act brand new randomly. Know the difference between your friends and acquaintances, people, it makes life a lot easier
Girls can be so cruel was she Black or White?
That shyt hurts. Luckily I've only seen bust downs with other guys since I've been an adult. In high school though it used to shock me how soon a bish can move on to the next guy when you're really fukking with her like that. I was fukking with a bish when I was in the 9th grade and I caught the bish in the park with the next nikka. I couldn't eat for 24 hourswhite
i guess if i cared about her, was attracted to her and wanted more i would have been
but when you see a broad you actually care about with a new dude
That shyt hurts. Luckily I've only seen bust downs with other guys since I've been an adult. In high school though it used to shock me how soon a bish can move on to the next guy when you're really fukking with her like that. I was fukking with a bish when I was in the 9th grade and I caught the bish in the park with the next nikka. I couldn't eat for 24 hours
Dude, nobody reasonable ITT is saying that being treated like a sidepiece isn't a reason to dip out like that. In fact, the center of OP's post isn't really griping about why it happened IMHO, but just asking about how it happened. Nobody is saying that she's at fault somehow for leaving. What we're saying is that there was reason for the sudden and drastic change in the behavioral pattern that likely involves more than the fact she was treated like a sidepiece.
blah blah blah
if shes REALLY feelin you, all that means is that she wants some attention/the dikk...
if ur dikking her down good, then all you gotta do is say "babe, you want it?" out of no where and catch her off guard
guaranteed to work
if ur handling ur business u should be able to use that as a goto move whenever she acts up like that
thank me later
New dude in the mix...plain and simple.
Here's the thing, women don't stop dealing with a dude unless there's a new dude in the mix ready to take his spot. Even if the relationship is very casual. Sitcoms and movies like to play it that women break up with men and "take time for themselves." That's a bold-faced lie. No woman, in real life, leaves a man to have no man. Women, in general, hate being single and hate the dating scene. So, even if the guy they're with has nothing to show for himself, they will wait until they find someone new before they bounce.
Women treat men like monkey bars, they swing from one to the next.
The onyl real way to combat this is to have options...to be in demand among other women. If you're serious with the chick that doesn't mean that you need to be cheating on her, but she needs to know that there are other women who want you. This can be done by always staying fly, always maintaining your look, keeping a busy schedule and being social.
This reverses the dynamic that I delineated above where you're one of the monkey bars. When you have options, at that point, she becomes worried about being one of the monkey bars herself and then she works hard to keep your attention. Once she's so busy keeping your attention, she doesn't have time to try to get/maintain someone else's.
Peace
The bish knew I had a bish the first day we met. She pursued me.
Yeah, but thats unreasonable to expect that someone will want to maintain that arraignment. Obviously she was feeling you, so she was willing to excuse it, just to be next to you, but over time she definitely started to resent you. Only mistresses/side pieces that stick around are the ones being chipped off, or treated like they the real main ones.
I remember in junior high school I was talking to this chic and she was on my dikk. Then all of a sudden the bish started acting like she couldn't stand me one day on the phone. It happened later about 5 years ago, I was fukking this bish as a sidepiece then she just started acting hella standoffish. The bish recently got at me on Facebook on some kick it shyt then when I hit the bish up she goes back to the funny shyt.
I don't know if another nikka got in their ear or what but I always wondered what it was that made bishes do that funny style shyt. Thank goodness my lady has a consistent personality.