Wear booty shorts and sundresses more often
Have guys stopped approaching women in public?
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@tizabelle maybe it's time for you to take the initiative and approach some dudes in social situations. Maybe not on the tube though because it's not exactly a place for social interaction 
Not true for me. I feel like I'm approaching more often these days. Not having success every time but still trying. Got rejected twice at the mall last week, one straight up and another had a boyfriend. Did get a girls number leaving the gym yesterday so I get success every now and then. I feel it's better than online cuz it's a mess on there. I'm more nicer offline anyways. Online I'd be saying all kinds of ridiculous pickup lines and sexual innuendos. I don't do that in person. I don't know where this new me came from but I never used to approach women before. Where was this version of me five or ten years ago?
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
I went ahead and translated that for you
Yeen shyt
Behind-the-wheel
Living dead
y'all deemed it harassment. no use in potential rejection AND criminal charges approaching you.
Exactly!
No female is worth all that trouble.
Plus...they wanna be all equal and shyt...they can do the approaching.
For all the dudes saying she's a 5, The Coli needs to see what chick you dating henceforth
I've always noticed that dudes are extra tough on chicks they're not dating but then you see their girl and it's
Chick is attractive. Chick is in shape. Chick is looking for a dude. I've seen dudes cape for less on this very board.
But chick lives in London where the
So, maybe it's an issue of black men not approaching her because they're stuck on non-black women. Or maybe she's on that
Either way, thank street harassment and negative imagery of black women by white-owned media
Peace
Are you crazy? Race relations are better in London compared to the US, unless your Arab BlackSuperman
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I hate it when anyone calls it emasculating. Some people actually think that if a woman asks a man out, then she'll be the man for the entire relationship.
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Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
lol I didn't mean it in a mean way, like maybe she has a resting bytch face or something
I've never been good at approaching women in public. Mainly because my success rate is very low if not zero in that setting.
I'm a 5'10" tall mofo on a good day. Women aren't jumping out of their shoes to approach me like that because I'm not that " 6'4 tall " clown they have been brainwashed to lust after and tackle in public
Where I rack up a lot of p*ssy is in social settings like friends parties and such. Basically in smaller crowds.
There I eat good.
For example, among all my different circleS of friends i got one little circle i just became a part of that I'm slowly working my way to fukking all the chicks in there. That's what works for me. They have gotten to know me just enough to like me.
But as far as approaching total strangers in public.... Never worked for me.
This has to be a myth man. I'm shorter than you and I still get looks and shyt. Maybe I might just be funny looking but you gotta get out of your head, breh. While I do prefer the situation you described a closed mouth doesn't get fed. If more women got past the stigma of a woman approaching first then I feel we'd all be better off.
That's not what I'm about. I wouldn't resort to booty shorts to get attention.
If that's the you (the OP) in that quoted flick...
Hard to tell what you look like with the make up & pose.
But you're nice & brown and not fat. Could be a 7 on my scale dependin' on what you look like w/o the make up and how your legs are shaped.
Unless Black London men are not into darker skin women and natural(?) hair, can't call it.
But again, instead of wonderin' why men are not approachin' you, try somethin' different. We all have to take different routes to where we want to be. You may have to be more assertive. Can't be worse than gettin' dolled up and not gettin' the attention you're lookin' for. And you get to pick the men instead of them pickin' you. Try it out.
Hard to tell what you look like with the make up & pose.
But you're nice & brown and not fat. Could be a 7 on my scale dependin' on what you look like w/o the make up and how your legs are shaped.
Unless Black London men are not into darker skin women and natural(?) hair, can't call it.
But again, instead of wonderin' why men are not approachin' you, try somethin' different. We all have to take different routes to where we want to be. You may have to be more assertive. Can't be worse than gettin' dolled up and not gettin' the attention you're lookin' for. And you get to pick the men instead of them pickin' you. Try it out.
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Idk, you resort to stepping right in front of dudes to get their attention. No difference really. Still, even then a lot of them still might not talk to you. Everyone here seems to be telling you to be proactive.