Have any of you ladies ever cheated on the dude u were in a relationship with?

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That's actually a really good question. The only thing I can think of is having a conversation with an ex about whether we were truly finished/still had feelings for each other. I wouldn't necessarily call that cheating because it truly was random, we rarely talked, and I didn't want him back (although feelings were still there); however, that stuff should be left in the past when you trying to build something with someone new. I would feel some type of way if my s/o was entertaining those conversations with his ex, but I wouldn't call him a cheater.

IMO, thats worse than cheating. You with ya dude, thinking about another nikka and shyt.
 

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My bf knew we had a conversation. He did not know all the detail, but I don't tell anyone my business like that. My boyfriend was at the wedding with me, knew it was my ex's family, etc. You are worse than a police officer trying to find a reason to give you a ticket when he pulled you over for nothing.

Deception :mjpls:

So he knows you two had a conversation but he doesn't know about what was really going on. If you're willing to hide details from him, i'm sure you are more than willing to hide them from us too. :ohhh:
 

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My bf knew we had a conversation. He did not know all the detail

Wow.

That's pretty horrible.

You weren't comfortable enough in your relationship to tell your boyfriend that your ex tried to hook up with you and that you denied him?

As a matter of fact......DID you even flat-out deny him?

You said you had a conversation. Unless the conversation went like this...

Him: "You ever wonder if things were ever really finished between us?"

You: "Nope. We've BEEN over, and I've moved on. You need to do the same." *walks away*


....then I'd say something is wrong
 

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Wow.

That's pretty horrible.

You weren't comfortable enough in your relationship to tell your boyfriend that your ex tried to hook up with you and that you denied him?

As a matter of fact......DID you even flat-out deny him?

You said you had a conversation. Unless the conversation went like this...

Him: "You ever wonder if things were ever really finished between us?"

You: "Nope. We've BEEN over, and I've moved on. You need to do the same." *walks away*


....then I'd say something is wrong

You don't know what I told him. I simply said that I didn't share all of the details because it's my business. You don't know what I shared or didn't share and you don't know what was said with the ex. At the end of the day my ex knew that I didn't want to get with him and I was leaving the wedding with the man that I came with. Calm down dude.
 

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nikka you said u feelings for that other nikka, that means u thinking about him. Lyingass heffer

We were together for 4.5 years. Although we have been broken up for 4 years, I will ALWAYS have feeling for him. He was my first everything, but that doesn't mean I want to be with him or that I am thinking about him, a$$hole.
 

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You don't know what I told him. I simply said that I didn't share all of the details because it's my business. You don't know what I shared or didn't share and you don't know what was said with the ex. At the end of the day my ex knew that I didn't want to get with him and I was leaving the wedding with the man that I came with. Calm down dude.


I'm calm (I don't think I gave the impression that I was upset or anything), and I never claimed that I knew what you told your boyfriend or ex.

That's why I'm ASKING about what the details were, and I'm asking if the case was that you didn't tell him that your ex tried to hook up with you. You don't have to share those details if you don't want to.

But if I was your boyfriend, I would find it unusual that you feel okay with telling me that you talked with your ex, but didn't mention all of the details. As I said earlier, the only details that conversation SHOULD have had is him trying to talk about your old relationship/old feelings, and you shutting him down; nothing else. But then again, you said that those details (whatever they may be) are 'your business'.....something in itself that would cause worry to any normal person in a relationship.

You also said that the conversation gave you 'closure'. I would find that worrisome if I was your boyfriend (assuming you even told him that). The word 'closure' implies that you had unresolved feelings for this ex of yours, which no boyfriend should have to learn about in a legitimate relationship.
 

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you're a dikk dude. calm down.

i've cheated. twice.

:leon:

Care to share?

nikka wasnt given you enough attention? drunk and/or spur of the moment type thing? Im just curious cause they say when a woman cheats its bad because its a "premeditated" cheating so to speak. They dont cheat just cause but for particular emotional reasons.:ehh:
 
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