Harsh Realities For You Women: Men Are Not Going To Want You,Once You Have Another Man's Kids

Big D Bangston

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Some guys always will, i won't

Its just easier not to get involved b/c imagine this scenario of the chick's son/daughter at age 16/17

and the kid is a ho in training/goon in training. you try to regulate when/if they step out of line.

She hits you with the "DONT TOUCH MY BABY:damn:". Then you getting punked around the house cause its not YOUR kid:mjcry:.

I heard of it happening, not always, but it happens. its admirable to step up :salute:, but its a gamble:francis:.
 

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True...

Lemme add on to the WHY NOT

1.) no matter what these bytches say the baby daddy is ALWAYS STILL IN THE PICTURE... ALWAYS.. Relationships are hard enough but now u gotta deal with a bytch who HAS TO deal with her ex... Fuk that

2.) these singles mothers are some of the biggest woe is me/ complaining ass bytches I've known..

A lot of dumbass assumptions in by inexperienced dudes in this thread.

I was with my ex wife for 10 years and we have 2 boys.

The only time I'm in the picture is when I call to ask to speak to my sons, pick them up or drop them off. We do not hang out, talk, or even as much ask how are you doing.

Our conversations are purely about our sons and they're more like reports of how they are doing.

I take care of my side of business so you never hear my ex wife complaining.

There is a growing group of predatory men out there who specifically prey on single mothers and have no problem being there white knights.
 

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Really?


Because I am in my mid 20s, and whenever I tell s man I don't have kids he treats me like there is something wrong with me, or acts confused. :ld:
I had a dude once wish me happy mother's day and when I told him I didn't have kids he was a bit surprised and said something about how I should or some shyt.
 

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I'm 28, and decided to stop messing with single mothers. I was dealing with this woman that had a daughter for close to a year. Had a pregnancy scare and I realized that I wouldn't be alright mentally, raising a child with a woman who already had one with someone else. I had to pull the plug on that situation. Ever since then I just don't mess with them. No hate, no animosity, I just leave them alone.

I don't really see my stance changing though. If I was in my mid thirties and still single, no kids, I would still avoid women with children. At that point I would just date younger or start sifting through haystacks looking for needles.
 

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I can understand this mindset for guys with no kids. For those that already have their own though, that'd fall under the standard hypocritical masculinity of the coli...

True...

Lemme add on to the WHY NOT

1.) no matter what these bytches say the baby daddy is ALWAYS STILL IN THE PICTURE... ALWAYS.. Relationships are hard enough but now u gotta deal with a bytch who HAS TO deal with her ex... Fuk that

2.) these singles mothers are some of the biggest woe is me/ complaining ass bytches I've known..

shyt you probably would complain too after a nikka u thought had changed or spit some game in ya ear fukked around and left you holding the hot potato...nikkas do that shyt way too much and I believe single mothers should actually be commended..cause at least most of them ATTEMPT to raise their b*stard...
 
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