Harsh Realities For You Women: Men Are Not Going To Want You,Once You Have Another Man's Kids

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My brother has a good set up though.


He is engaged to our sisters, bedtfriends, lil sister...

They both have boys the exact same age. Are very close to each other.

We all kinds grew up together. She has a nice job, her house is paid off. (No mortgage) and her baby father is married.


I say he did pretty good. Best girlfriend he's had, and he been through it.

It's not always that bad,
Ummmm, did you read my post.

Men who date women who have kids, while the man has No kids, is bad. Doesnt have the temperment required to raise kids. AND, he could be a damn freak.
 
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I agree with this 100%...

A woman that has a kid or multiple kids with dudes shows me that she's a shytty decision maker... The type a dude don't need on his team

But...

I just think the older you get the odds of finding a female without kids gets smaller and smaller



One of my friends from HS is very smart, hard working. And very ambitious...


But she had three sons, by three men.


She had a horrible attitude though. She never could keep a good friend let alone a man. Lol
 

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As long as I don't have children, I can not and will not take a woman who does have kids seriously.
Maybe they had a string of bad luck but life isn't fair.
On the flip side, he may not be your first choice but there's always a guy wiling to overlook it.
My ex has a kid and recently got married but she's heavy on gender roles.
I don't think her guy even touches a dish unless there's food on it. Her friends on Facebook may throw shade for "submitting" but they're single mothers and still don't have a ring.
It's definitely a numbers game, though.
The younger you can locked down if you have a kid, the better. A lot of single mom's never find that guy.
 

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You nikkas not living in real life, no situation is the same

I would prefer a chick with no kids, but if I meet someone I like that has kids I would have to assess the situation real closely

Like if the child's father is not in the picture due to death, then I won't hold it against her
 

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i maybe in the minority but i actually dont mind if she has a kid to be honest
actually met quite a few who were real coo and down to earth that i dated before i had kids

granted now I'm with someone who had a kid from a previous relationship
and i had 2 from a previous one also

we a blended family so to each their own i will say but just depends on who u run across, the maturity on her and urself, do u like kids, how u feel bout the father being in the picture if he is in it

i wont and will not knock a single mom ever due to me having lots of positive experiences with them

but if u dont want too nothing wrong with that also
 

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i came across good women with a kid or 2, but they came from when they was married and got a divorce.

NOW.. IF ANY MAN HAS A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP OR MARRY A CHICK WHO HAS MORE THAN 1 KID FROM 2 DIFFERENT DADDIES HE NEED TO BE SHOT PERIOD.....

IF ANY WOMAN GET INVOLVED WITH A nikka WITH 3,4,5, ETC KIDS FROM ALL KIND OF WOMEN, SHE'S A fukkING PIECE shyt GUTTA RAT PERIOD...

GOOD NIGHT, GOD BLESS
 

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Lemme add on to the WHY NOT

1.) no matter what these bytches say the baby daddy is ALWAYS STILL IN THE PICTURE... ALWAYS.. Relationships are hard enough but now u gotta deal with a bytch who HAS TO deal with her ex... Fuk that

2.) these singles mothers are some of the biggest woe is me/ complaining ass bytches I've known..

:francis:
 

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Just be glad you not living in the Lion kingdom, the males that come along after the original male dies off or is pushed out, they kill off all the cubs, so that their seeds can come about.......:francis:

I have a stepdad
 
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