Ummmm, did you read my post.My brother has a good set up though.
He is engaged to our sisters, bedtfriends, lil sister...
They both have boys the exact same age. Are very close to each other.
We all kinds grew up together. She has a nice job, her house is paid off. (No mortgage) and her baby father is married.
I say he did pretty good. Best girlfriend he's had, and he been through it.
It's not always that bad,
Men who date women who have kids, while the man has No kids, is bad. Doesnt have the temperment required to raise kids. AND, he could be a damn freak.