Got fired from my job for being drunk on the clock

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I would tell you to seek refuge in God but from what I understand you left the church. My great grandmother before she passed would always say "religion has its place", especially for times like this. Not sure where atheist find hope when they're in dark places but I hope somewhere in there you find the light.
Don't to listen this fool OP, Jesus was a known drunk his blood tasted like wine :scust:
 

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I am currently tapering off from a lifelong drinking habit.

Currently stepped down to 6 beers a day... on days off I usually have an extra couple during the day.

I am addicted and I get withdrawal symptoms so I am trying to ease out the back door of this thing.

Definitely don't drink at work or even get drunk enough the night before to be hung over.

And. You don't wanna keep this up long term like I did cause it's really been tough trying to escape.
 
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he a man; thats his job .... get the ole Cindy Lauper girls just wanna have fun shyt TF outta here :dahell:

clearly YOU are thinking life is supposed to be nothing but a twirl for the gworls if you think his wife can't/shouldn't hold her own shyt down for her and the kids and let the man get well. what good is a dead man to his family :skip:
 

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clearly YOU are thinking life is supposed to be nothing but a twirl for the gworls if you think his wife can't/shouldn't hold her own shyt down for her and the kids and let the man get well. what good is a dead man to his family :skip:


He terminally ill or something?

if not you being extra talking suicide and all that. he didn't even say anything like that.

but yea if he mentioned suicide that changes things. he needs to check in somewhere.

he going thru it right now and seeking guidance.

he's posted his story on here a million times; and from what he's put out there it seems like they don't have a support system and are not well off financially.

maybe u know more than I do or gonna take care of them or something :hubie:
 
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He terminally ill or something?

if not you being extra talking suicide and all that. he didn't even say anything like that.

but yea if he mentioned suicide that changes things. he needs to check in somewhere.

he going thru it right now and seeking guidance.

he's posted his story on here a million times; and from what he's put out there it seems like they don't have a support system and are not well off financially.

maybe u more than I do or gonna take care of them or something :hubie:

maybe you should know wtf you are talking about before talking spicy. this man has posted all his suicide stories and you know damn well you be on here everyday to see em :stopitslime:
 

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I can't joke because I was on a downward spiral as heads knew around these parts. Still struggle with the aftereffects of a struggle and so forth, so all I have to say about this thread and OP to find peace in your season.

I'm not going to give the cliche answers to the problems, but vices influence your stance on not moving forward. Ills like alcohol, drugs, and etc tends to devalue self worth and demote your spirits.

In this case, you lost your gig because of the effects of the bottle, along with the feelings that are personal to you. Trust, we are all enduring hell and back, but the important thing is accepting that you need the support and help. As much as folks shyt on the idea of airing grievances online, it's a step in the right direction.

So just please realize that we got your back, that you are going to make it, and that you got to see this thing through with all of your might. I know like half of The Coli is atheists, but as a spiritual soul, we faced that divine moment of Job.

It's all a test and once you come out of it, you will be stronger and realize your self worth, the values that surrounds you, and gain better understanding of life.

You will make it breh..
 

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you literally jus responded to one a few days ago.... r u drunk rn? :what:

not yet :mjlit:

I aint ever responded to any suicidal cries for help from dawg. he posts how he's going thru it and "depressed" more or less.

my responses would be a lot different if he said that. that shyt hits close 2 home for me. I would not be giving him tough man talk if that was the case. trust.
 

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I got a family to support. It's not my first time drinking at work. I don't do it often. Only on days where I can't get certain thoughts out my head. It impedes my productivity at work. Alchohol helps me feel nothing. Helps my mind be somewhat blank. I over indulged and had too much. Assistant GM had to drive me home in the middle of my shift. Owner and GM had to let me go. I'm drinking as I write this. I don't drink often. I don't heavy drink I mean unless it's a dark day. I can't predict my emotions. A man who can't control his emotions is no man at all. Alchohol helps me control my emotions. Everyone thinks I'm crazy. They all pity me

Im not sure how to move forward without alchohol. It really helps me. I'm trapped and my life is so fukked up. I'm back to square one. I'm gonna have to take a shyt job somewhere so I can get back on my feet. My wife no longer trusts me. She can't depend on me anymore. She has one foot outside the door. I'm losing my mind and in the process, I'm losing my family.

You fell off the wagon off that thunderbird huh :mjgrin:
 

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he a man; thats his job .... get the ole Cindy Lauper girls just wanna have fun shyt TF outta here :dahell:


He needs to get the issues that cause him to drink under control

He can get a new job and get fired again in a few months for the same thing

He can find a new job and go to therapy. Until he gets to the root he'll keep spiraling and losing jobs
 

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He needs to get the issues that cause him to drink under control

He can get a new job and get fired again in a few months for the same thing

He can find a new job and go to therapy. Until he gets to the root he'll keep spiraling and losing jobs


not disagreeing. IDK why people jumping out the window twisting my words.

All I said was priority #1 should be keep the paper coming in.

Not sure why people are disagreeing with it.

You can get help and work at the same time.

Treatment is not free; very expensive. AA or NA is the only forms of free treatment.

OP is jobless; I'm assuming uninsured right now. Thats a heavy ticket.

Big doe rehab work to ghostface kill.

Rehabs also don't have the highest success rates. its a life-long thing.

Point being life don't stop; bills don't stop; treatment aint free. He need 2 get that paper.


Also if you know his story his problems are a lot deeper than substance abuse.

Life is hard and complicated.

I'm not a professional therapist; but like OP I had kids young and am the head of house hold. I don't have any financial support. I have to hustle 2 keep the family afloat. I'm also a nut job. I know what its like 2 walk in the shoes.

If ya'll think I'm tripping whatever; maybe I am.
 
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