Going Undercover At Homeless Shelter Reveals Abuses and Exploitation

[88m3]

Too late to turn back now. You should have strung me along a few more posts, at least.

I'll quote you for future reference.

 

[OH SOHH TRILL]

The author also called it "preying" and "scary"
Let's go over the dialogue again:


He said, "Okay, well here is my number. Call me and we can hook up later tonight." (not a question) Most people say "here's my number, call me"

I answered, "Nah (no), man, I just need some food and some sleep." Most women say, no I got a man. Na, I'm just chillin. That doesn't stop guys from further pursuing

"You don't want to sleep in there. It's dangerous. You can come sleep at my place. We can stop at McDonald's." (not a question) Most men say, "We can go do X..."

He said, "It's not safe in there for women. You are better off coming home with me. I get off at 11:45. Just meet me in that parking lot over there." (not a question) "you ain't never meet a guy like me, split from your girls and meet me over there."

I wanted him to leave me alone so I told him I would go with him later. oh wait, reciprocation. perhaps he thought see was in fact feeling him

He asked me to be discreet and don't tell anyone I was going. (Do you ask your dates to keep things quiet over and over again too?) if i don't want people to know, yes. but again, you're assuming his reason for not wanting people to know is nefarious. maybe he just doesn't want people to know he was simping a homeless chick

The man came back to remind me I was leaving with him at 11:45 and to be discreet.

As the women were told to come back in, the staff member that kept asking me for sex told me to "Wait here." In. The. Cage...Alone. perhaps to furthur discuss the trip to mcdonalds?

I immediately put my foot in the door just before he shut it. doors are made to be closed. notice she doesn't say he forced her to wait. also notice the "asking" I bolded above.


Anytime a man wants to shut me alone in a cage and wants to make sure I dont tell anyone about plans I didn't really consent to, I don't think it is a "reasonable offer". you're not homeless

is the guy a scumbag and a loser. likely, I mean, he was trying to smash a homeless person

is he a predator, abuser or rapist. i don't think there's enough information to make that judgment.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I aint fukkin w/ @OH SO TRILL ... you ol

azz nikka

"yea so he cornered her, threatened her, told her to keep quiet, so what... thats how 'everybody' 'propositions' women. you nikkas never had to pull the blade on a bytch who wasnt cooperatin????"

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

"nikka I keeps the blade cause you know these bytches be forgetful"

 

[OH SOHH TRILL]

I aint fukkin w/ @OH SO TRILL ... you ol

azz nikka

"yea so he cornered her, threatened her, told her to keep quiet, so what... thats how 'everybody' 'propositions' women. you nikkas never had to pull the blade on a bytch who wasnt cooperatin????"

but seriously, i didn't read a threat. please quote the threat.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

There wasnt an explicit threat but there was an escalating pattern of intimidation

Not to mention the whole underlying issue of this chick being homeless (in the eyes of this dude, whether she really was or wasn't is irrelevant). You can play coy... "he was just looking to help her out " "he was just being persistent with his game " But the reality is the whole thing is inappropriate and scummy. Stand up dudes don't prey on people in compromised positions like this.

 

[Serious]

But that's the thing, the lady disguised herself to look poorly groomed and blend in with the homeless.He didn't just kindly offer her his place for the night, he insisted multiple times, blocked other avenues and also kept on telling her to be quiet about it. He had no interest in her consent or desire. She tried to refuse him and just use the facility that night, and he wouldn't let her.

What does that have to do with my post.

I was "rationalizing" it as seeing a completely attractive female, damn near dyme status, checking into a homeless center. I guarantee 9.9/10 heterosexual males would make some sort of pass.



For the record, once again I never disagreed with this guy being a slimeball for "propositioning" chicks in need.

 

[illadope]

I used to live close to a homeless shelter in Seattle and everyone looked how this lady described things....I wonder if the same type of stuff happened there...

 

[HoustonHeat]

is the guy a scumbag and a loser. likely, I mean, he was trying to smash a homeless person

is he a predator, abuser or rapist. i don't think there's enough information to make that judgment.

Your answers in red are the responses of a creepster, sir. If girl seems not into it at the first approach, you're the type that thinks she just needs a little coaxing? You don't want to be desired by the girl?

I don't know if he can be judged as a rapist, but because he is in a position of power there and put in effort to both isolate and cut off other options for shelter/food, as a female, I consider him predatory.

If a male supervisor did the same to me (or a client) at work, you can bet that a sexual harassment suit threat would be taken very seriously. His approach wouldn't be deemed reasonable at all.