GMB brehs, Are you cool with dying alone?

[360dagod]

But having a nice wholesome family to take care of you will

Knowing that your kids will carry on your legacy. Take care of each other etc. Compare that to being surrounded by strangers

The modern marriage Is done breh..

What baffles me is nikkas will pull out stats if a nba player takes a mid range shot, but will go against those same stats when it comes to something they don't agree with

The fukking baby boomers are checking out of marriage...let that sink in..

More and more boomers are gonna die with a woman who wasn't their wife and some replacement who was just there at the time..

 

[MikelArteta]

I got a huge family and I plan to have alot of kids.

Imagine having a heart attack in the kitchen and your decomposed corpse is only discovered due to the scent travelling into the neighborhood.

Police break in & maggots eating you like thanksgiving dinner.

who cares because your dead

 

[Dave24]

The modern marriage Is done breh..

What baffles me is nikkas will pull out stats if a nba player takes a mid range shot, but will go against those same stats when it comes to something they don't agree with

The fukking baby boomers are checking out of marriage...let that sink in..

More and more boomers are gonna die with a woman who wasn't their wife and some replacement who was just there at the time..

Do you have a link of those stats you are referring to?

 

[Canada Goose]

Marriage is whatever. I’m married but if somebody said they don’t wanna do it then ok cool. But at least be with someone, being alone in your 40-50s sounds like the most depressing shyt. My wife’s brother is like 35 and never had anyone. He thinks he’s on some bachelor shyt but it’s honestly just sad.

And I don’t see how you could say you don’t want kids. It’s literally our main purpose on this earth….reproduce and leave behind our legacy.

I don't want kids cause my 30 years on this earth have been miserable and I wouldn't want my kids to suffer like I do.


Also my genetics are trash.

 

[CopiousX]

@Dave24 , like i said earlier im a realist. Im not sentimental. I look for statistics, not silver linings.


You are NOT guaranteed any of the things that were mentioned in this thread in 2022. Its wishful thinking to beleive you are in the successful 50% of marraiges, when men far better than you or me have been served divorce papers and been subsequently alienated from their offspring. Most of these people thought long and hard about their marraiges and thought they found the right one too. Its a game of roulette with your life. I'm sorry, but my life ain't a casino.






As for kids, i have no issue going the surrogate route so i'll have plenty. I am also no stranger to women so they will still be present as well. With legal matters, i will do the responsible thing and give the matter to actual lawyers instead of my offspring (or wife). Similarly, i prefer having legitimate health professionals dealing with medical matters instead of burdening my children(or wife). I have seen countless adult children literally die inside as they wiped the diarrhea covered azz of the adult they once respected.



And as a final note, with all due respect; nursing homes always seemed like a poor people problem to me. Folks had 65yrs to plan their life and ended up on fixed income stuck in one of those places. When it's my time, I'll be in kicking it on a beach in the maldives or on an antarctica cruise like grandmaPawg over here....

 

[semicko82]

If you think these women will take care of you when your sick and dyeing your in for a rude awakening

 

[get these nets]

Perhaps, if so many of us weren’t living in so many different households, with our children also living in different households, we could build, maintain, own more homes instead of living in rented apartments, and pass something down to our children, we’d be better off

This part is (conveniently) ducked when lip service is paid to wealth gaps here.

 

[semicko82]

Life ain't fair

 

[315]

But having a nice wholesome family to take care of you will

I shrugged when my pops clocked out so it's still not a guarantee

 

[Amare's Right Hook]

Go down with the ship, breh.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

I came home to help my folks who are in their 70s now. Moms and Unc.

I will not let them end up in a home and I guess I will have the hardest job on Earth soon enough once they start really needing help.

And I have no kids. Divorcee. Currently working on a helluva dry spell cause I done got picky. Women my age aren't grabbing my attention and the ones I do want have parent my age. Literally.

I know almost for sure that I am just gonna be going for self from now on and when I cant do it myself I'm prolly fukced.

But it ain't over yet. I'm 47. I can possibly enter a new phase of life.

 

[Dave24]

@CopiousX if you end up with cancer and/or Alzheimer's in your old age how will you deal with it with no family around?

 

[KBtheKey]

I just got engaged, but I found a diamond in the rough so I'm still GMB (funny that that auto capitalizes). Dying alone must be miserable tho unless you kept a stable all the way to your death bed. And that's more than likely cap if a breh say that

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Tom Cruise is 60 and single

He’s been married twice.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

It seems many people never had a coming to the lord meeting in here
There are absolutely no guarantees in life and this is coming from a married man x2
You could find your life partner tomorrow and he or she could be taken from you in an instant
There is no guarantee that your child(ren) will take care of you even if you were the greatest parent in the world
So this argument and concept of dying alone is just that
We all are going to die alone unless you go out in a tragedy
When people ask this question it seems you’ve never really been in your lonely
And when I say that yucky dark, void of solitude
Where everybody you loved turned their back on you
Where people got their own problems to sort out
Where you are facing your own mortality with no comfort and pure reality of not being in existence tomorrow
That type of real raw emotion
Is when you truly understand that all of this is a sham/house built on sand
The only thing in this life you can do is enjoy it for what it is
Cherish the moments no matter how high they are/how low they are
Take care of the people you love the most and understand we all lose our way
Make peace with that
Humans are creatures of habit and comfort
This question shows that
It’s like the old adage of doing everything right in life to get to this all happy place of Heaven
Nothing will ever go as you planned
People FEAR being that old muthafukka that’s found alone with the question of
Man nobody cared about this person
What you should FEAR is a bunch of muthafukkas at your funeral showing fake love
Happiness and peace comes in all different forms to people and not every path will bear fruit
Again I love my wife, love my ex, love my daughter but deep down I could never be mad if they left or chose to live their lives over taking care of me
I’m at peace with death and how the world works
Sooner some of y’all learn this