GMB brehs, Are you cool with dying alone?

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There's being alone, and then feeling alone.

You can be cohabiting with many people, and even married yet still feel alone.

A friend told me the quicker you surrender to solitude and realize you only have yourself in the end, the more you'll try add people that actually add value to your life and won't feel crestfallen if don't live up to your expectations.

I disagree with that outlook on life tbh. And it ain't because I'm some naive 20 year old. I'm in my mid 30's and I can tell the difference between realism and a depressive outlook.
 

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I disagree with that outlook on life tbh. And it ain't because I'm some naive 20 year old. I'm in my mid 30's and I can tell the difference between realism and a depressive outlook.
Why do you feel it's depressive?

EDIT: I just want to clarify, I don't agree with any of the "GMB" rhetoric that's usually parroted around here
 
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Why do you feel it's depressive?

'you only have yourself ', nah if I only had myself I wouldn't have made it past infancy :pachaha:

Self-reliance is good, even commendable. But we're interdependent by nature. We rely on other ppl for all kinds of things. And other ppl rely on us.
 

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That might be true for you, but a lot of brehs are against any kind of commitment.

That's not as true as it's made out to be on here..

nikkas simply can't grasp that there are other roads than the one they went down...which includes women

The bigger issue is outdated advice and lectures that's given by people who stopped dating when Steve Kerr was taking corner 3s..
 

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'you only have yourself ', nah if I only had myself I wouldn't have made it past infancy :pachaha:

Self-reliance is good, even commendable. But we're interdependent by nature. We rely on other ppl for all kinds of things. And other ppl rely on us.
Yes I agree on a societal level we need each other, but that doesn't really apply to your original post
 

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You're absolutely correct, men are the first line of defense. When we go astray, the women are easy pickings for all kinds of swindlers that convince them to go against their own best interests.

Truth is, it's men we peddle these toxic modern ideologies to women for financial gain. Marketing men, politicians, academics etc.. Trace these genealogy of these ideas that are popularized and you'll find it's men behind it.

Mainly the white male capitalist and their feminist cohorts who act as a destabilizing force

The Achilles heel of a lot of brothas has always been choosing individuality at the wrong times

This is what we need to be worried about 👇



2050 gonna hit black men & women like a brick if we don’t wake up and build together
 

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Marriage is whatever. I’m married but if somebody said they don’t wanna do it then ok cool. But at least be with someone, being alone in your 40-50s sounds like the most depressing shyt. My wife’s brother is like 35 and never had anyone. He thinks he’s on some bachelor shyt but it’s honestly just sad.

And I don’t see how you could say you don’t want kids. It’s literally our main purpose on this earth….reproduce and leave behind our legacy.
 

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We still need each other to for societies to function, but that doesn't have to apply interpersonal relationships. Marriage etc..
Why not? If human interdependence promotes a healthy and vibrant society, why can't the same be true for families? In fact, I'm pretty sure that's how humans have thrived up until the modern age.
 
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