Getting turned down by a chick but she continues the conversation?

[iamduval]

Yall ever been turned down by a girl and then she end up liking you?



I be like

 

[Fredrick Thuglas]

This is a funny thread cause its hitting close to home right now.
I mentioned in another thread I got this black milf in my class, and we seem to be on good terms and everything. So in the class she mentioned to folks that it was her birthday. So a day or two later, I see her again and ask her what's she's doing that coming weekend for her birthday, she said "nothing". So I said basically as simple and plain as possible, "maybe we go out for a drink or something". She gave me the The Roots "Silent Treatment", and since we were standing at the elevator and other folks around there was essentially no response. Had me like I see her in class and she keeps it civil but never brings up that question or anything like that again.

So anyway, flashforward to this week, I'm working on the final paper for this same class, literally almost done, a week ahead of schedule. She hits me with the, "Newworldafro, I need help with my project, can I be with you for this assignment" (no cryin of course, but urgency is the point). I was actually going to make a thread on what the-Coli posters reaction would do......but ........................................................... I went ahead..................................and said sure .........

So I gave her some work to do , although I could have finished it yesterday. So we supposed to meet in a few days and finish the project. I don't know if this was simpery or is this her giving me a better opportunity to get in them milf draws??? or she using me for my sexy mind cause she procrastinated?? Maybe I should just keep it academic and not get thirsty and play it by ear. But we meeting this weekend, so I'll just be cordial and see what happens.....btw she tapped me on the arm and said "thank you" ...........................

I think you like her...I hope it works out for you but honestly, it sounds like she was using you.

Im all for being persistent and all that but once a chick says no, I say "cool, take care" and keep it moving. The only way I would press the issue is if I felt like "she's the one" which I never felt

But in your case...keep it civil, and try to get platonic one on one time. Where you guys are one on one without a real agenda behind it...then feel her out and see where her minds at. It she gives you the cold shoulder or denies the one on one time all together then I would keep it moving.

People always act sincere when they want something from you and then get cold once they get what they want, so always have your antennas up when people in need are extra nice to you. :thinking:

 

[G-Zeus]

lol alot of cats need to get behind closed doors with these females imo
see how they be talking when aint no dudes around

a lot of time their just ego tripping.. turn down potentials just to feel like they got that unlimited choice...some of them stops playing... some of them play long enough to see the roles reverse

 

[cleanface coney]

a lot of time their just ego tripping.. turn down potentials just to feel like they got that unlimited choice...some of them stops playing... some of them play long enough to see the roles reverse

yea i used to listen to my sisters talking about dudes and all that shyt my whole life

the dudes girls usually like are not even paying attention to them

 

[James Carter]

How you handle the rejection is what matters, I've had plenty of females who rejected me at one time try to get back on the team later because I still was cool after the intial rejection and acted like it never happened.

Its like QBs throwing interceptions, you gotta forget about and move on to the next play

My nikka you gon have to charge for this post

 

[newworldafro]

People always act sincere when they want something from you and then get cold once they get what they want, so always have your antennas up when people in need are extra nice to you. :thinking:

That extra nice treatment after destroying my ego weeks earlier in order to make her own gains....... off my hours of work I put in to this project no lesss................























































^^I'm just joking yall. I got several options already. She's a cutie pie though in her late 30s. I'm just perplexed was this a sucker move, is this a way for her to get closer to me, or do I just chalk it up as an academic move. I'm sure she really procrastinated and needed some help, so more than likely she targeted me for taking advantage. of. But with this academic stuff, never know when you going need somebody help in your program, so its best to keep shiit as cordial and cool as possible.

 

[Wild self]

I do this sometimes to make the rejection seem friendly. If I turn someone down I don't like to hurt feelings unless they get disrespectful.

Best not to act up, cause dudes are laying hands on women these days for doing dumb shyt like that.

 

[Captain Crunch]

Yeah it be having me like
That shyt is

 

[PhonZhi]

I wouldn't trip bruh, I've turned a rejection into a one night stand because the chick just kept talking, so did I.

After talking for about another 30 mins I found out she wasn't looking for a relationship cause she had just gotten out of one that she was in for 3 years and she was just trying to have some fun out here.

Lucky for me, her homegirl was feeling my potna so we went to whataburger and then they came back to the crib and it went down.

How you handle the rejection is what matters, I've had plenty of females who rejected me at one time try to get back on the team later because I still was cool after the intial rejection and acted like it never happened.

Its like QBs throwing interceptions, you gotta forget about and move on to the next play

nice

 

[PhonZhi]

This is a funny thread cause its hitting close to home right now.
I mentioned in another thread I got this black milf in my class, and we seem to be on good terms and everything. So in the class she mentioned to folks that it was her birthday. So a day or two later, I see her again and ask her what's she's doing that coming weekend for her birthday, she said "nothing". So I said basically as simple and plain as possible, "maybe we go out for a drink or something". She gave me the The Roots "Silent Treatment", and since we were standing at the elevator and other folks around there was essentially no response. Had me like I see her in class and she keeps it civil but never brings up that question or anything like that again.

So anyway, flashforward to this week, I'm working on the final paper for this same class, literally almost done, a week ahead of schedule. She hits me with the, "Newworldafro, I need help with my project, can I be with you for this assignment" (no cryin of course, but urgency is the point). I was actually going to make a thread on what the-Coli posters reaction would do......but ........................................................... I went ahead..................................and said sure .........

So I gave her some work to do , although I could have finished it yesterday. So we supposed to meet in a few days and finish the project. I don't know if this was simpery or is this her giving me a better opportunity to get in them milf draws??? or she using me for my sexy mind cause she procrastinated?? Maybe I should just keep it academic and not get thirsty and play it by ear. But we meeting this weekend, so I'll just be cordial and see what happens.....btw she tapped me on the arm and said "thank you" ...........................

make this a thread breh........... should be good

 

[DarlingNikki]

yeah but you still giving the guy hope tho

I don't think it's hope, but just because your not my type doesn't mean that we can't be friends, if not there's no need to be rude.

stick around...:freeman: nah play boy, that aint my style. I was a gentleman with it and walked away and they would stop me. After reading the replies in this thread, them two hoes bet not have been showing pity...cause that's actually disrespectful to a nikka with pride. :thinking:

I hope you aren't calling me a ho for being polite to pathetic dudes..

Best not to act up, cause dudes are laying hands on women these days for doing dumb shyt like that.

I'm not allowing a nikka to hit me and walk away, I keep a weapon concealed when I go out alone.

 

[Cool Dr. Money]

I don't think it's hope, but just because your not my type doesn't mean that we can't be friends, if not there's no need to be rude.



I hope you aren't calling me a ho for being polite to pathetic dudes..



I'm not allowing a nikka to hit me and walk away, I keep a weapon concealed when I go out alone.

yall don't have male friends those are guys who wanna holla but havent told you. their waiting for their chance to holla. or they fukk with one of your girlfriends.

 

[DarlingNikki]

yall don't have male friends those are guys who wanna holla but havent told you. their waiting for their chance to holla. or they fukk with one of your girlfriends.

Of course I do, but as long as they know it won't happen there's no conflict. I've had a friend who's been trying to bone since high school, I addressed that shyt immediately, now he'll joke about it but he knows there's no way it'll ever happen.

 

[Fredrick Thuglas]

I don't think it's hope, but just because your not my type doesn't mean that we can't be friends, if not there's no need to be rude.



I hope you aren't calling me a ho for being polite to pathetic dudes..



I'm not allowing a nikka to hit me and walk away, I keep a weapon concealed when I go out alone.

Nah, I aint calling you a hoe...I told yall I'm a gentleman. I was referring to the chicks that inspired this thread.

 

[Cool Dr. Money]

Of course I do, but as long as they know it won't happen there's no conflict. I've had a friend who's been trying to bone since high school, I addressed that shyt immediately, now he'll joke about it but he knows there's no way it'll ever happen.

you can tell a guy it aint gonna happen but that doesnt mean he'll be like ok i'll stop offering you dikk. he'll just go about it another way while gettin other p*ssy in the mean time