This is a funny thread cause its hitting close to home right now.
I mentioned in another thread I got this black milf in my class, and we seem to be on good terms and everything. So in the class she mentioned to folks that it was her birthday. So a day or two later, I see her again and ask her what's she's doing that coming weekend for her birthday, she said "nothing". So I said basically as simple and plain as possible, "maybe we go out for a drink or something". She gave me the The Roots "Silent Treatment", and since we were standing at the elevator and other folks around there was essentially no response. Had me likeI see her in class and she keeps it civil but never brings up that question or anything like that again.
So anyway, flashforward to this week, I'm working on the final paper for this same class, literally almost done, a week ahead of schedule. She hits me with the, "Newworldafro, I need help with my project, can I be with you for this assignment"(no cryin of course, but urgency is the point). I was actually going to make a thread on what the-Coli posters reaction would do......but ........................................................... I went ahead..................................and said sure
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So I gave her some work to do, although I could have finished it yesterday. So we supposed to meet in a few days and finish the project. I don't know if this was simpery or is this her giving me a better opportunity to get in them milf draws??? or she using me for my sexy mind
cause she procrastinated?? Maybe I should just keep it academic and not get thirsty and play it by ear. But we meeting this weekend, so I'll just be cordial and see what happens.....btw she tapped me on the arm and said "thank you"
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lol alot of cats need to get behind closed doors with these females imo
see how they be talking when aint no dudes around
a lot of time their just ego tripping.. turn down potentials just to feel like they got that unlimited choice...some of them stops playing... some of them play long enough to see the roles reverse
How you handle the rejection is what matters, I've had plenty of females who rejected me at one time try to get back on the team later because I still was cool after the intial rejection and acted like it never happened.
Its like QBs throwing interceptions, you gotta forget about and move on to the next play![]()
People always act sincere when they want something from you and then get cold once they get what they want, so always have your antennas up when people in need are extra nice to you. :thinking:
I do this sometimes to make the rejection seem friendly. If I turn someone down I don't like to hurt feelings unless they get disrespectful.
I wouldn't trip bruh, I've turned a rejection into a one night stand because the chick just kept talking, so did I.
After talking for about another 30 mins I found out she wasn't looking for a relationship cause she had just gotten out of one that she was in for 3 years and she was just trying to have some fun out here.
Lucky for me, her homegirl was feeling my potna so we went to whataburger and then they came back to the crib and it went down.
How you handle the rejection is what matters, I've had plenty of females who rejected me at one time try to get back on the team later because I still was cool after the intial rejection and acted like it never happened.
Its like QBs throwing interceptions, you gotta forget about and move on to the next play![]()
make this a thread breh..........This is a funny thread cause its hitting close to home right now.
I mentioned in another thread I got this black milf in my class, and we seem to be on good terms and everything. So in the class she mentioned to folks that it was her birthday. So a day or two later, I see her again and ask her what's she's doing that coming weekend for her birthday, she said "nothing". So I said basically as simple and plain as possible, "maybe we go out for a drink or something". She gave me the The Roots "Silent Treatment", and since we were standing at the elevator and other folks around there was essentially no response. Had me likeI see her in class and she keeps it civil but never brings up that question or anything like that again.
So anyway, flashforward to this week, I'm working on the final paper for this same class, literally almost done, a week ahead of schedule. She hits me with the, "Newworldafro, I need help with my project, can I be with you for this assignment"(no cryin of course, but urgency is the point). I was actually going to make a thread on what the-Coli posters reaction would do......but ........................................................... I went ahead..................................and said sure
.........
So I gave her some work to do, although I could have finished it yesterday. So we supposed to meet in a few days and finish the project. I don't know if this was simpery or is this her giving me a better opportunity to get in them milf draws??? or she using me for my sexy mind
cause she procrastinated?? Maybe I should just keep it academic and not get thirsty and play it by ear. But we meeting this weekend, so I'll just be cordial and see what happens.....btw she tapped me on the arm and said "thank you"
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yeah but you still giving the guy hope tho
stick around...:freeman: nah play boy, that aint my style. I was a gentleman with it and walked away and they would stop me. After reading the replies in this thread, them two hoes bet not have been showing pity...cause that's actually disrespectful to a nikka with pride. :thinking:
Best not to act up, cause dudes are laying hands on women these days for doing dumb shyt like that.![]()
I don't think it's hope, but just because your not my type doesn't mean that we can't be friends, if not there's no need to be rude.
I hope you aren't calling me a ho for being polite to pathetic dudes..
I'm not allowing a nikka to hit me and walk away, I keep a weapon concealed when I go out alone.
yall don't have male friends those are guys who wanna holla but havent told you. their waiting for their chance to holla. or they fukk with one of your girlfriends.
I don't think it's hope, but just because your not my type doesn't mean that we can't be friends, if not there's no need to be rude.
I hope you aren't calling me a ho for being polite to pathetic dudes..
I'm not allowing a nikka to hit me and walk away, I keep a weapon concealed when I go out alone.
Of course I do, but as long as they know it won't happen there's no conflict. I've had a friend who's been trying to bone since high school, I addressed that shyt immediately, now he'll joke about it but he knows there's no way it'll ever happen.