Getting turned down by a chick but she continues the conversation?

[PabloEscobar]

I wouldn't trip bruh, I've turned a rejection into a one night stand because the chick just kept talking, so did I.

After talking for about another 30 mins I found out she wasn't looking for a relationship cause she had just gotten out of one that she was in for 3 years and she was just trying to have some fun out here.

Lucky for me, her homegirl was feeling my potna so we went to whataburger and then they came back to the crib and it went down.

How you handle the rejection is what matters, I've had plenty of females who rejected me at one time try to get back on the team later because I still was cool after the intial rejection and acted like it never happened.

Its like QBs throwing interceptions, you gotta forget about and move on to the next play

cant be afraid to throw that deep ball cause the last 4 got picked off nomsayin.

 

[Chris.B]

women can spot simps.....

Real n!ggas let the b!tch know whats up when they get rejected and keep it moving.
Simps stick around and get used as a backup when the quarterback messes up!

 

[Silkk]

Hit her with that " Oh Ok Then"

 

[#1 pick]

women can spot simps.....

Real n!ggas let the b!tch know whats up when they get rejected and keep it moving.
Simps stick around and get used as a backup when the quarterback messes up!

While this is true, you do not need the be the one delivering the message.

 

[The Jewnited States]

arguably the greatest gif ever made

 

[Fredrick Thuglas]

Only instance I can think of is when I asked out this ethiopian chick, but she mentioned she had a boyfriend and I was like, 'tis cool. She's pregnant and engaged now but when I see her around on the field we still talk and joke as always. It's no biggie. When a chick still carries on conversation at least it shows class and maturity.

they tryna be polite and civil...

good girls

Are you sure she turned you down?

It happened to me twice. In both cases, I was like..."its cool, have a good night" and I was literally walking away in both cases.

If they are being polite, I can respect it, but I don't think it was necessary.

 

[Fredrick Thuglas]

why even stick around if she turns u down? we got shyt left to say to each other...



that shyt right there though? real nikka shyt tho

I do this sometimes to make the rejection seem friendly. If I turn someone down I don't like to hurt feelings unless they get disrespectful.

stick around...:freeman: nah play boy, that aint my style. I was a gentleman with it and walked away and they would stop me. After reading the replies in this thread, them two hoes bet not have been showing pity...cause that's actually disrespectful to a nikka with pride. :thinking:

I wouldn't trip bruh, I've turned a rejection into a one night stand because the chick just kept talking, so did I.

After talking for about another 30 mins I found out she wasn't looking for a relationship cause she had just gotten out of one that she was in for 3 years and she was just trying to have some fun out here.

Lucky for me, her homegirl was feeling my potna so we went to whataburger and then they came back to the crib and it went down.

How you handle the rejection is what matters, I've had plenty of females who rejected me at one time try to get back on the team later because I still was cool after the intial rejection and acted like it never happened.

Its like QBs throwing interceptions, you gotta forget about and move on to the next play

that's what I should have done, in one instance cause Im a good conversationalist. And I was having a good night that night...that's probably why I walked away so easily...but if this happens again Imma ask myself WWSPD...what would souther pimp do?

(Obviously, I'm not planning on chicks rejecting me like this again )

 

[opulence]

Yes I have...because I was kinda intrigued by him but something he said turned me off....

But I can converse with anyone...so just because I don't want you doesn't mean I have to be rude...

 

[G-Zeus]

It happened to me twice. In both cases, I was like..."its cool, have a good night" and I was literally walking away in both cases.

If they are being polite, I can respect it, but I don't think it was necessary.

no no... its not necessarily a bad thing..

it depends how you look and talk.. if your completely not up to her scale...

if you not up to her standard but of some standard and you came off nice


she wont feel the need to chew you out.. either she is taken or think she can do better man if you know the plays.
yeah you might get friend zone'd.. but its ways to get out of FZ to FFZ or a relationship..


1- right attitude (confidence.. coolness etc)
2- look like you have a future ahead of yourself..

if she said no because she though she could do better... then you can be that better.

but if she said no because you like


then

 

[Black Magisterialness]

Only instance I can think of is when I asked out this ethiopian chick, but she mentioned she had a boyfriend and I was like, 'tis cool. She's pregnant and engaged now but when I see her around on the field we still talk and joke as always. It's no biggie. When a chick still carries on conversation at least it shows class and maturity.

this.

 

[Fredrick Thuglas]

no no... its not necessarily a bad thing..

it depends how you look and talk.. if your completely not up to her scale...

if you not up to her standard but of some standard and you came off nice


she wont feel the need to chew you out.. either she is taken or think she can do better man if you know the plays.
yeah you might get friend zone'd.. but its ways to get out of FZ to FFZ or a relationship..


1- right attitude (confidence.. coolness etc)
2- look like you have a future ahead of yourself..

if she said no because she though she could do better... then you can be that better.

but if she said no because you like


then

I can't disagree with you cause I was in the clubs on my side hustle when this happened in both cases so they probably thought I ain't have no bread. :thinking:

one time, I ran into a bytch I went to school with and she thought that this club shyt was my full time gig...

...I have a full time career (not job but career) this club shyt is for extra money...

 

[G-Zeus]

I can't disagree with you cause I was in the clubs on my side hustle when this happened in both cases so they probably thought I ain't have no bread. :thinking:

one time, I ran into a bytch I went to school with and she thought that this club shyt was my full time gig...

...I have a full time career (not job but career) this club shyt is for extra money...

A career + a hustle is the best way to go..

i used to tell them.. one for security.. one for extra though for the fun stuff.

 

[newworldafro]

This is a funny thread cause its hitting close to home right now.
I mentioned in another thread I got this black milf in my class, and we seem to be on good terms and everything. So in the class she mentioned to folks that it was her birthday. So a day or two later, I see her again and ask her what's she's doing that coming weekend for her birthday, she said "nothing". So I said basically as simple and plain as possible, "maybe we go out for a drink or something". She gave me the The Roots "Silent Treatment", and since we were standing at the elevator and other folks around there was essentially no response. Had me like I see her in class and she keeps it civil but never brings up that question or anything like that again.

So anyway, flashforward to this week, I'm working on the final paper for this same class, literally almost done, a week ahead of schedule. She hits me with the, "Newworldafro, I need help with my project, can I be with you for this assignment" (no cryin of course, but urgency is the point). I was actually going to make a thread on what the-Coli posters reaction would do......but ........................................................... I went ahead..................................and said sure .........

So I gave her some work to do , although I could have finished it yesterday. So we supposed to meet in a few days and finish the project. I don't know if this was simpery or is this her giving me a better opportunity to get in them milf draws??? or she using me for my sexy mind cause she procrastinated?? Maybe I should just keep it academic and not get thirsty and play it by ear. But we meeting this weekend, so I'll just be cordial and see what happens.....btw she tapped me on the arm and said "thank you" ...........................

 

[G-Zeus]

This is a funny thread cause its hitting close to home right now.
I mentioned in another thread I got this black milf in my class, and we seem to be on good terms and everything. So in the class she mentioned to folks that it was her birthday. So a day or two later, I see her again and ask her what's she's doing that coming weekend for her birthday, she said nothing. So I said basically as simple and plain as possible, "maybe we go out for a drink or something". She gave me the The Roots "Silent Treatment", and since we were standing at the elevator and other folks around there was essentially no response. Had me like I see her in class and she keeps it civil but never brings up that question or anything like that again.

So anyway, flashforward to this week, I'm working on the final paper for this same class, literally almost done, a week ahead of schedule. She hits me with the, "Newworldafro, I need help with my project, can I be with you for this assignment" (no cryin of course, but urgency is the point). I was actually going to make a thread on what the-Coli posters reaction would do......but ........................................................... I went ahead..................................and said sure .........

So I gave her some work to do , although I could have finished it yesterday. So we supposed to meet in a few days and finish the project. I don't know if this was simpery or is this her giving me a better opportunity to get in them milf draws??? or she using me for my sexy mind?? Maybe I should just keep it academic and not get thirsty and play it by ear. But we meeting this weekend, so I'll just be cordial and see what happens.....btw she tapped me on the arm and said "thank you" ...........................

my reaction would be to expect nothing and fish for nothing... until i hear that ''what's wrong, you look distant''

''nah.. but hey lets get to work, i got plans after ''

let HER fish for information...

obviously if you can set something up for real, even bettr then looking like a liar.

 

[cleanface coney]

women can spot simps.....

Real n!ggas let the b!tch know whats up when they get rejected and keep it moving.
Simps stick around and get used as a backup when the quarterback messes up!

lol alot of cats need to get behind closed doors with these females imo
see how they be talking when aint no dudes around