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Will you dap him when he divorces this one too?

I would dap him if she sh#tted on him the way he portrayed his first wife to :yeshrug:

If the situation were reversed, I don't know if the woman would be called a "selfish" person to divorce a husband whom she supported financially and emotionally for years on end without a second thought only to have him sh#t on her when she asked him to believe in her once....when she had a track record of being able to perform the task well.

Dude was the breadwinner and seemed to go extra hard to make her life comfortable. Taking public transportation, so she could use the car. Subsidizing her when she wanted to try this and try that....all of which cost money and understanding. While what he wanted to do would basically cost her nothing but some patience.

Being married doesn't give someone the right to mistreat and/or diminish their partner under the guise of "being married and making the marriage work." I would say the same if it were a woman as I intimated above, especially when considering the circumstances. Disrespect is disrespect.

I applaud the homie for doing what he said he would do. You gotta respect someone who acts with complete conviction :ehh:

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I got the call today....



I got the JOB!

I am now the youngest Assistant Store Manager in the state of Georgia!


This is a culmination of all of the hard work and dedication that I have put into my career for the past two years. From starting back with the company as a seasonal employee, walking home at midnight, taking the bus and train at 5am in the morning. There were days when people told me it wasn't worth it. Days when people told me I was going backward. But I've been overcoming challenges every since the day I drew my first breath and the doctor told my parents I was 4 months premature and might not live. So I'm writing this with extreme joy in my heart and telling all of you this one simple fact. Your vision is your reality. Never allow ANYONE to cloud your vision... Now we just have one more to go before the dream is realized. General Store Manager here I come!


The feeling when I got that call brehs







#TPC


Don't Know U But I'm Proud Of You Breh :ehh:

Hopefully This Inspires Some Of The Young Lazy fukks On Here Who Do Nothing But bytch About How Unfair Life Is
 

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Looking at this thread. OP, don't know if you read back at your posts and etc but you were immature as fukk. Don't know about her but the problem was you. You wanted to handle adult responsibilities with a child's mind. An adult wouldn't have ran the fukk off the way you did especially over a petty ass comment.


Sadly, there are many grown ass men and women with your way of thinking. Always blaming other people for their issues instead of working on that shyt. You're blaming your ex for your immaturity. Hope you took the time to do some growing up before you shack up with someone else especially now that you have a kid.

I think it's wild annoying to hear all these so called adults thinking like children trying to talk down on other people who expose who they really are upstairs instead of just owning up to their shyt. Quit fukking blaming people for your lack of maturity. Grow up first before you try to get your ass into grown up shyt because it looks stupid on your part. You most definitely aren't going to get any credit for that shyt.


Aren't You A Virgin Pushing 30 That Lives W Your Parents?

It's Always The Weak People Who Come Out Their Face Cause It Angers You To See Someone Be What You Know U Never Will Be

People Like You Are The Bottom Of a the Barrell
 

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I got the call today....



I got the JOB!

I am now the youngest Assistant Store Manager in the state of Georgia!


This is a culmination of all of the hard work and dedication that I have put into my career for the past two years. From starting back with the company as a seasonal employee, walking home at midnight, taking the bus and train at 5am in the morning. There were days when people told me it wasn't worth it. Days when people told me I was going backward. But I've been overcoming challenges every since the day I drew my first breath and the doctor told my parents I was 4 months premature and might not live. So I'm writing this with extreme joy in my heart and telling all of you this one simple fact. Your vision is your reality. Never allow ANYONE to cloud your vision... Now we just have one more to go before the dream is realized. General Store Manager here I come!


The feeling when I got that call brehs







#TPC
im happy for you yo keep up the good work
 

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Aren't You A Virgin Pushing 30 That Lives W Your Parents?

It's Always The Weak People Who Come Out Their Face Cause It Angers You To See Someone Be What You Know U Never Will Be

People Like You Are The Bottom Of a the Barrell


You're so desperate to try to discredit me that youre pulling up outdated info.

All that because I'm not cosigning the guy on behaving like a kid? You are a disgrace. You would love to see me at the bottom of the barrel because that's what people who are unhappy and insecure with themselves do.


Why would I be jealous of this guy or want to be him? I'm quite fine with the way my life is. Thank you. His job goals have nothing to do with how he completely fukked the marriage to his wife. As I said, it's clear that it was something more than just that. He's leaving certain parts out and honestly wouldn't be surprised if he was cheating on her or messing with the woman he is with now while he was married as to why he ditched her the way he did. Many people have been through much worse and they don't use that as an excuse to leave someone. They just own up to it. I don't buy his story.

People like him never own up to anything and will try to paint other people as the problems to their shyt. As I said, I wouldn't be surprised if he got divorced again as dude has issues. This thread is basically some narcissistic shyt.
 
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Looking back on this thread it's shocking how easy it is for other black folks to not believe in a fellow black man. Lot of nikkas eating crow now.

I believe in dude and wish him the best but no way in hell am I cosigning this type of shyt. This reeks of insecurity. This dude basically made a thread about being unable to handle a responsibility, blaming his ex and trying so hard to flip it into a win to basically get back at her like he made it. No. How about he man's up and becomes a wiser man where he actually uses the time to grow up instead of making a bigger mistake. Honestly, someone doesn't need to be having kids or getting into relationships until he works on his own insecurities and ego. Just imagine what he will do the moment him and his girlfriend have a disagreement on something since he says they rarely argue and they agree too much.
 
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Oh it's 100% NO DOUBT for the mother brehs. I'm just speaking from a man's perspective, especially a first time dad experiencing it. That shyt was insane. It was the most beautiful/horrible thing I'd ever seen. And I'm yelling and freaking out while I see the baby coming out, plus she was a breached natural birth so she came out butt-first it was fukking WILD brehs. I'll tell the whole story in a Coli exclusive later on when I'm not so damn tired. Thankfully no C-Secrion that was the one thing we fought to make sure we didn't have to do.
:salute: thats how i came out too
 

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I believe in dude and wish him the best but no way in hell am I cosigning this type of shyt. This reeks of insecurity.

nikka I wasn't referring to your incessant ranting. I was speaking in general. But since you quoted me I guess I can address you directly. Being a faq you should definitely understand people not agreeing with the lifestyle choices/decisions you make. Would you stop being gay if someone you loved was :scust: about it or would you just give them the :camby: and do what makes you happy? You're still gay soooooooooooo with that being said I don't see why you're going so hard on a dude who obviously made the right decision. I thought coming out of the closet freed up a lot of that malcontent energy you had floating around but I see you're back to your old ways. Or you're the chick's relative. You're taking this way too personally.
 
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