I'll agree to disagree with you. If someone supports you in numerous endeavors that may or may not panel out. But you can't support them in one, then you probably don't respect or have faith in them. That is a very big issue.
As i said, it depends. Just because you let someone do what they want to do or you are funding them doesn't mean you love them or are looking out for them.
She was a military wife. He went away when she needed him so wtf was she supposed to do. Sit down and wait for him. He gave her free time. Some of these dudes are unrealistic and take their so for granted. I honestly don't think that he's telling the full story and is making her seem worse than she is.
Dude seems immature as hell. He probably thinks it's all about himself and what he thinks his woman should be doing for him which is boosting his ego and kissing his ass. Guys like him are bound to never settle because they have a flawed mentality.