Getting a Divorce Brehs...

[Chief]

i've witnessed a 37 almost 38 year marriage..what about you? yall dont know anything about this man's marriage but ya'll in here judging so you need to fall back...if you cant see that both spouses should have each others full support then thats on you...you can question your spouse and have discussions about it but straight up dismissing them ?...that wont work in a functional household....eventually he would resent here anyway

My parents have beed married for 35 years but let's leave that alone. What I want to know fully is what happened after that statement. There has to much more to it than that.

 

[FukyourFort]

My parents have beed married for 35 years but let's leave that alone. What I want to know fully is what happened after that statement. There has to much more to it than that.

There is a lot we don't know but we should ease up on trying to clown em at least...no matter the opinion he still going through something serious...offer some advice instead of belittling the dude but hey its the coli....

 

[Chief]

There is a lot we don't know but we should ease up on trying to clown em at least...no matter the opinion he still going through something serious...offer some advice instead of belittling the dude but hey its the coli....

Dude does not want advise he is resolute and there is no changing him

 

[Family Man]

He can have her. When it's a wrap its a WRAP breh.


I wish happiness for her. I even told her that the best advice I could give her for her next relationship was to always respect her man until such a time that he didn't deserve it. That life wasn't all about her wants and wishes and that she should attempt to be appreciative and supportive rather than judgemental and dismissive.

This nikka got some nerve trying to give advice.

 

[4North1Side2]

why are you guys telling him to stay with an unsupportive woman? coli full of fatherless simps who have no back bone...stay with people who dont believe in you brehs

Powerful post, a lot of folks mad with this post.

 

[Ziggiy]

This nikka got some nerve trying to give advice.

You sound bitter breh. Like YOUR the one who got divorced....

 

[Real N Quotes]

What other questions? There were no other questions. She made that comment and the conversation was FINISHED as soon as she said that shyt. I went out for a walk to calm down and to wrap my head around the fact that my WIFE could disrespect in such a revolting fashion. That's when I relaized that I wouldn't allow myself to be disrepected in such a manner. That I was the one who deserved better and that this marriage was over.

Just for clarifications sake, the next day we talked again and I broke down to her my plan regarding best buy, the history between us,make how I'd NEVER before failed or this marriage. THAT was the first time I ever went through a "tally" of exactly what I'd done to support, appreciate, and respect her over the course of our marriage. She was just like the typical Coli poster. Judgemental, dismissive, doubtful. She didn't start to see the light until I completely withdrew from her. I slept on the couch, went to work, and kept my eyes on my goal. After the first promotion happened pretty quickly she started to "try" to turn things around. I was already done with her bullshyt. the second promotion happened a month after the first and I she was like "I fukked up by not supporting you" and I told her no shyt.

I didn't even tell her about the management promotion that happened a few months later. I just came home, sat her down, told her "I'm making more than 12.50 and I've still got seven years to go" I made it DESPITE you not because of you, I'm worth more as a man and a husband and I don't feel that I am in love with you any longer.

You are a cold dude breh
Divorce you wife for being a woman brehs

 

[ElectroMan]

"We talkin' bout Best Buy...... NOT A CERT"

 

[ElectroMan]

It's obvious that nikka wasn't built for marriage.
Watch this nikka get married again in the next couple years and then divorce his next wife cause she questioned what kind of pizza toppings he ordered

Breh be arguing with his wife while calling Papa John's like "I ORDER ITALIAN SAUSAGE! YOU DON'T RESPECT MY CHOICE IN TOPPINGS""

 

[ElectroMan]

There's nothing to "walk" back. We are over and done with. My head and heart are clear. I wish her all the best. Me and her talked the other day and she said she was ready to sign the paperwork and get this done as quick and bloodless as possible. She said that just as I no longer loved her that she no longer loved me, so we are in agreeance on this. She actually thanked me and said that she would use this experience as a lesson to be more supportive and appreciative of her whoever she's with in the future. At the end of the day we wish each other no ill will. I have my life ahead of me to live as I see fit and so does she.



Honestly it feels good to know that I never allowed myself to take disrespect or allow another person to feel they have a right to put me in my "place" (still can't respect a MAN for actually saying that )


Life Is Good

Good luck finding a woman that will never make you feel disrespected breh

 

[LimitedEdition]

We weren't married all 12 years and we weren't TOGETHER all 12 years. We KNEW each other for 12 years. Reading is fundamental guy.

Not one of those "changes"'affected her lifestyle negatively. She directly benefited from all three "changes" so save your



Again, your attitude regarding the career is as ignorant and judgemental as hers was.
Why would I stay married to a woman who thought no better of me than an anonymous poster on an Internet forum? Does THAT make any sense??!!??

1. I didn't say you were together for 12 years but more implied that youve known her for basically HALF your life and during that whole time was loyal enough for you to marry her.
2. Saying those changes never affected her negatively is only for her to say. You can't speak for her. I'm not caping for ya bytch. Chill.
3. My attitude regarding your career isn't ignorant. I stated FACTS. You admitted that an hourly position at a retail store is at the center of your divorce. A retail electronics store that has major competition and by your own statements is going under some major infrastructure changes.
4. I said congrats. Why ??? Reading is fundamental guy.

 

[NvrCMyNut]

You're a lucky one, wasn't even married to my ex & she took damn near everything i had now im going to the air force

 

[Road20]

At nikkas in here talkin about " Naw fam you petty, take that disrespect its what married couples do."

 

[CrimsonTider]

You sound bitter breh. Like YOUR the one who got divorced....

And you sound stupid

 

[Steve Piffler]

anybody else notice the best buy ads at the top and bottom of this thread....