Getting a Divorce Brehs...

[PrnzHakeem]

As for the OP, I think dude is pissed that while he's out there making things happen and following his plan, his wife had plans on her own and hustled backwards (Paralegal -> retail -> full time studying)

I'd be pissed too. He probably wants no part of her Law School debt. Especially with this current trend of plenty law school grads being unemployed or under employed.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

As for the OP, I think dude is pissed that while he's out there making things happen and following his plan, his wife had plans on her own and hustled backwards (Paralegal -> retail -> full time studying)

I'd be pissed too. He probably wants no part of her Law School debt. Especially with this current trend of plenty law school grads being unemployed or under employed.

Its not like She is taking random trips to Jamaica breh

 

[havoc]

The story from the Op sound incomplete. His reason for divorce is irrational. Tell us the truth, Op. Did you really love your wife or you just lost the desire to be a marry man ?

 

[Lavish]

So I asked my co worker his opinion on this so I started off as the OP did. Came home from the army and told his wife he wanted to go work for Best buy... And before I could finish the story my co worker cuts me off and asks "why??"



It's clear that the question his wife asked was a logical question as in this economy to hear a 28 wants to work in retail begs the question.. Why?

Shorty was well within her right to ask the question as his decision affects her as well.

 

[Family Man]

It looks like some you nikkas are just looking for a hole to fukk and a woman to "make you feel like man". Whatever the fukk that means.

My wife is my equal partner in everything. Every decision I make has an impact on her and vise versa. Being that my wife is my equal and my partner and I respect and value her as a person if I'm going to make a decision that may affect her security then she has every right to voice her opinion. I wouldn't expect anything less than that from someone I value. If we disagree then we hash it out like adults and partners.

You nikkas with your fragile egos are looking for a fukking cheerleader. Y'all got the marriage and relationship game fukked up. Y'all are in for a rude awakening. No wonder so many of you dudes are so young but are already bitter, pathetic, and jaded. I feel bad for the women coming up that will have to deal with you weak and homotional fukk nikkas.

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

You seem to have WAY more love and passion for Best Buy then you ever did for your wife.
Every time you respond you seem to defend Best Buy and your career there instead of actually going in depth as to what really made you want to leave your wife.

You def made the right decision breh. Some people should not not get married and the quicker they realize it the better
Congrats.

This nikka said fukk wifey, its best buy for life!

Yeah, he definitely needs to get divorced.

 

[Family Man]

I would have been LESS of a man to myself to allow such an individual to remain in such an important and integral position of my life.


fukk NO
#TPC

You're less than a man for abandoning your wife. You did her a favor though. Maybe a real man will come through and scoop her up.

 

[The Mad Titan]

It looks like some you nikkas are just looking for a hole to fukk and a woman to "make you feel like man". Whatever the fukk that means.

My wife is my equal partner in everything. Every decision I make has an impact on her and vise versa. Being that my wife is my equal and partner and I respect and value her as a person if I'm going to make a decision that may affect her security then she has every right to voice her opinion. I wouldn't expect anything less than that from someone I value. If we disagree then we hash it out like adults and partners.

You nikkas with your fragile egos are looking for a fukking cheerleader. Y'all got the marriage and relationship game fukked up. Y'all are in for a rude awakening. No wonder so many of you dudes are so young but are already bitter, pathetic, and jaded. I feel bad for the women coming up that will have to deal with you weak and homotional fukk nikkas.

 

[KenyaDoll]

I agree with OP's decision.

It's great that he is letting her go while she is still in her 20s and (presumably) childless. It just sucks that she wasted so many years on him. Hopefully she will see the bright side and be able to move on.

Good luck and success to you too OP.

 

[Ziggiy]

I agree with OP's decision.

It's great that he is letting her go while she is still in her 20s and (presumably) childless. It just sucks that she wasted so many years on him. Hopefully she will see the bright side and be able to move on.

Good luck and success to you too OP.

LOL she wasted years on ME???

She got a free ride for two years. Only for her to turn around and disrespect me as a man, husband, and provider. It was ME who wasted time attempting to build with HER....

I simply corrected that mistake

 

[DaChampIsHere]

I would have been LESS of a man to myself to allow such an individual to remain in such an important and integral position of my life. An unsupportive woman who is no better than posters on the internet? THAT is with whom I was going to place my faith?

And here in lies the reason why you are a complete fukking dumb ass.

Your definition of manhood = Your wife obeying your every word no matter.

But look at your life bruh. There's nothing MAN-nish about your life. You clearly don't know what the fukk you want out of life. You're hoping from career to career at very big extremes. You clearly made NO useful connects during your whole time in the army so much so that you are back at Best Buy. You are mad because you had to replace the brakes on your wife's car. LIke that's some sort of accomplishment. nikka it's car brakes. You want your bytch to get in a wreck and die or something?

You keep talking about, what you did, etc. But you CHOSE to do that shyt dummie. Why do the shyt if it's not really genuine? You seem mad immature, with a very Cinderella fairy tail idea of marriage. You prob thought you was the shyt and the man for marrying young and having your wife at home while you worked. YOU chose to marry a stay at home wife with no skills. YOU decided to help her. YOU decided to go to the army. If you did not want to do any of that out of the goodness of your heart, you should not have done it. Point blank, asswipe.

So stop fukking blaming everyone else for the fact that YOU hate your decision making. Hate you fake good nikkas. You really only do shyt for the fukking applause. Not because you are really a good person. All your niceness went away once your feelings got hurt over the pettiest, and if your story is true, you've been holding in some petty feelings for a while and letting them blow and plotting your own wife's demise, like a female. Your woman needs a man. Not the idea of manhood that you have. Find your life purpose, quick nikka.

If you can seriously say BEST BUY is your dream job and that's why you want to work there, nikkas will understand that. We will think you are retarded as fukk. But that would be your DREAM. The thing is, Best Buy is NO ONE'S dream. Just a fallback. So what's really up nikka?

There's no way you seriously believe your life goal is to ensure that the Geek Squad bug makes it back to the parking garage. It may pay good, sure. But that CAN'T be your life goal. If your woman wanted to stick with you after you told her that's the shyt you are serious as fukk about doing, you had a good one.

 

[KenyaDoll]

LOL she wasted years on ME???

She got a free ride for two years. Only to turn around and disrespect me as a man, husband, and provider. It was ME who wasted time attempting to build with HER....

I simply corrected that mistake

2 out of 12 years doesn't make up your whole relationship. Spending 12 years with a man who leaves you over a very legitimate question (maybe not the best delivery) is a huge waste of time. She could have been with someone else who was more committed to a relationship with her.

You don't love her so I agree that you guys should not be married.

Again, best of luck to you and most importantly her (who was probably blindsided).

 

[-DMP-]

I have no opinion on the whole marriage/divorce thing, because I don't believe in getting married before 30 anyway (im just here to read the opinions of others), but I will say homie was working pretty hard during the iphone launch. Seemed like he was an asset to his employees/ co workers from what I saw.

-DMP-

 

[CHILLL]

LOL she wasted years on ME???

She got a free ride for two years. Only for her to turn around and disrespect me as a man, husband, and provider. It was ME who wasted time attempting to build with HER....

I simply corrected that mistake

bro u said she was different when she moved in
what happened that was so different?

 

[Ziggiy]

And here in lies the reason why you are a complete fukking dumb ass.

Your definition of manhood = Your wife obeying your every word no matter.

But look at your life bruh. There's nothing MAN-nish about your life. You clearly don't know what the fukk you want out of life. You're hoping from career to career at very big extremes. You clearly made NO useful connects during your whole time in the army so much so that you are back at Best Buy. You are mad because you had to replace the brakes on your wife's car.

You keep talking about, what you did, etc. But you CHOSE to do that shyt dummie. Why do the shyt if it's not really genuine? You seem mad immature, with a very Cinderella fairy tail idea of marriage. You prob thought you was the shyt and the man for marrying young and having your wife at home while you worked. YOU chose to marry a stay at home wife with no skills. YOU decided to help her. YOU decided to go to the army. If you did not want to do any of that out of the goodness of your heart, you should not have done it. Point blank, asswipe.

So stop fukking blaming everyone else for the fact that YOU hate your decision making. Hate you fake good nikkas. You really only do shyt for the fukking applause. Not because you are really a good person. All your niceness went away once your feelings got hurt over the pettiest, and if your story is true, you've been holding in some petty feelings for a while and letting them blow and plotting your own wife's demise, like a female. Your woman needs a man. Not the idea of manhood that you have. Find your life purpose, quick nikka.

If you can seriously say BEST BUY is your dream job and that's why you want to work there, nikkas will understand that. We will think you are retarded as fukk. But that would be your DREAM. The thing is, Best Buy is NO ONE'S dream. Just a fallback. So what's really up nikka?

There's no way you seriously believe your life goal is to ensure that the Geek Squad bug makes it back to the parking garage. It may pay good, sure. But that CAN'T be your life goal. If your woman wanted to stick with you after you told her that's the shyt you are serious as fukk about doing, you had a good one.

you obviously cherry picked through this thread and all I said in order to make your "point".

Where did I say, imply, or implicate that my wife had to "obey my word"? YOU said that not me. What I said is that I do not tolerate disrespect, especially from someone whose supposed to be so close to me. What she said was the epitome of disrespect, and undermined all that I had worked for up until this point. If you would tolerate such behavior from your SPOUSE then it is YOU who is the dumbass. But that's entirely on you breh...

Who am I "blaming" for anything? Who the fukk is "everyone"? You sounding real sensitive about this. I didn't place blame on anything or anyone. I simply made the decision that living with, and being married to an unsupportive woman who thought the very worst of me was something I will not tolerate. Hence the divorce.

And your getting the story wrong, hence your ignorance to the heart of the subject. She wasn't my wife when I paid for the brakes to get fixed. We were dating. The point was that while I was working for Best Buy PREVIOUS to joining the Army and getting married, I was able to live comfortably and also provide for the things she needed. This wasn't a "working at Mcdonalds" situation that many of you incorrectly draw parallels to.

As for my goals, I already stated what my primary goals were regarding the company. They do not END with being the Geek Squad Manager. The reason I am proud of making it to Manager in 5 months was because I worked my ass for that, it took me 3 years previously (pre-army) I have a clear vision of Short and Longterm goals regarding the company and how best to achieve that.