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I was coming out of the Army, deciding what I wanted to do. Decided I wanted to go back to work for Best Buy. She looked me right in my face and said "So your going to be 35 years old making $12.50:stopitslime:".

That was literally the moment where I completely and utterly fell out of love with her. NO woman in the history of my existence has ever been allowed to disrespect me, my work ethic, nor my decision making to such a disgusting level. Especially a woman whose hand I took in marriage...

So I did exactly what I had to do. Started back at the bottom part time and worked myself back to Manager in 5 months. Three promotions, three pay raises (plus bonuses). And after that time period I didn't feel as if she deserved to be a part of my success as she wasn't supportive during my hustle and struggle. Once I made manager she wanted to talk about how proud of me she was and all that shyt but I told her straight up I didn't make it because of her. I made it DESPITE of her and I didn't want her nor the marriage any longer. I actually told her all of this two months ago but she begged and pleaded for another chance talking about how sorry she was and she always believed in me and she was just frustrated during that time period. She wanted to go to counseling and I tried it but nah....the damage had been done. Once you disrespect a man.... TRULY disrespect him, he will never forgive you
Breh it's #TPC all day and I don't want to give you any unwanted advice.. But as someone who's been married awhile, that scenario you described is just a slight bump in the road.. Not some permanent relationship altering event..

If you don't love her, then you don't love her

:manny:

But it seems like you were just looking for an excuse to bounce..

:lolbron:
 

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Best Buy has not closed ANY stores whatsoever. All of you throwing shade at the job itself could at the very LEAST quote something accurate:snoop:

And scared of her earning potential? That's almost comical...mom the one who supported her efforts to go to law school. Paid for her LSAT classes and books, the thought of her earning potential never crosse my mind as a negative....


And some of you are completely failing to see the deeper point. Divorcing her because she hurt my feelings? Absolutely not. Divorcing her because she proved with ONE comment that after almost ten years of knowing me, my personality, my drive, ambition, and commitment to success that she was ready to shyt on my goals and aspirations? In a fukking heartbeat.

The people closest to you should NEVER doubt certain things about you. Internet posters making jokes on a forum is one thing. We all crack on each other, troll each other, and such every day. We will never meet nor interact outside of this virtual canvas. However the actual PEOPLE in my life know how hard I work and how much I am willing to sacrifice for a goal. She witnessed it first hand for years before we were married. My entire adult life from the age of 19 until today has been dedicated to forging a future that I could look back and be proud of. I am PROUD of the work I put into Best Buy. That might mean little to all of you from the outside in, but it had better DAMN sure mean something to her, the woman I married, the woman supposedly CLOSEST to me.

I absolutely REFUSE to allow an individual to doubt me in such a disrespectful manner as to suggest I'll be 35 years old making 12.50. It is the equivalent of telling me that I haven't proved nor stood for a goddamn thing in the all the years you've known me.
Breh you're making a big mistake. You need to let go of that anger and check your ego.
 

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:mjlol:



my nikka ya wife divorcing you


u got pics of u skeeting on that fat hoe all on the net:mjlol:
right next to pics of your son:mjlol:
that are next to pics of u eating out a fat white bytch:scust:




now u dating a midly retarded 19 rican hoe:mjlol:





your life is done


This that same nicca who put his baby mom in the net?:mjlol:

Yea op. That that niccas advice for sure. He makes great decisions:russ:
 

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Best Buy has not closed ANY stores whatsoever. All of you throwing shade at the job itself could at the very LEAST quote something accurate:snoop:

And scared of her earning potential? That's almost comical...mom the one who supported her efforts to go to law school. Paid for her LSAT classes and books, the thought of her earning potential never crosse my mind as a negative....


And some of you are completely failing to see the deeper point. Divorcing her because she hurt my feelings? Absolutely not. Divorcing her because she proved with ONE comment that after almost ten years of knowing me, my personality, my drive, ambition, and commitment to success that she was ready to shyt on my goals and aspirations? In a fukking heartbeat.

The people closest to you should NEVER doubt certain things about you. Internet posters making jokes on a forum is one thing. We all crack on each other, troll each other, and such every day. We will never meet nor interact outside of this virtual canvas. However the actual PEOPLE in my life know how hard I work and how much I am willing to sacrifice for a goal. She witnessed it first hand for years before we were married. My entire adult life from the age of 19 until today has been dedicated to forging a future that I could look back and be proud of. I am PROUD of the work I put into Best Buy. That might mean little to all of you from the outside in, but it had better DAMN sure mean something to her, the woman I married, the woman supposedly CLOSEST to me.

I absolutely REFUSE to allow an individual to doubt me in such a disrespectful manner as to suggest I'll be 35 years old making 12.50. It is the equivalent of telling me that I haven't proved nor stood for a goddamn thing in the all the years you've known me.

The thing is, if you consider what she did a major fukk up, and it happened after ten years of knowing you, how long will it take before the next chick fukks up? You don't get 10 years for every woman in your life. I just think your threshold for error is too low, and could land you in the "old man at the club" category.
 
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I was coming out of the Army, deciding what I wanted to do. Decided I wanted to go back to work for Best Buy. She looked me right in my face and said "So your going to be 35 years old making $12.50:stopitslime:".

That was literally the moment where I completely and utterly fell out of love with her. NO woman in the history of my existence has ever been allowed to disrespect me, my work ethic, nor my decision making to such a disgusting level. Especially a woman whose hand I took in marriage...

So I did exactly what I had to do. Started back at the bottom part time and worked myself back to Manager in 5 months. Three promotions, three pay raises (plus bonuses). And after that time period I didn't feel as if she deserved to be a part of my success as she wasn't supportive during my hustle and struggle. Once I made manager she wanted to talk about how proud of me she was and all that shyt but I told her straight up I didn't make it because of her. I made it DESPITE of her and I didn't want her nor the marriage any longer. I actually told her all of this two months ago but she begged and pleaded for another chance talking about how sorry she was and she always believed in me and she was just frustrated during that time period. She wanted to go to counseling and I tried it but nah....the damage had been done. Once you disrespect a man.... TRULY disrespect him, he will never forgive you
You're divorcing your wife just because of that:what: You didn't take any vows seriously. What are you a child that when someone says something you don't like you wont play with them anymore?

Seriously:what:


That's some ole break up with my girl type of shyt not divorce someone over. You've been married for 2 yrs. breh.

You're the reason why the divorce rate is so high.



You stopped loving her that quick:what:



Damn she loss by marrying you:to:
 
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I was coming out of the Army, deciding what I wanted to do. Decided I wanted to go back to work for Best Buy. She looked me right in my face and said "So your going to be 35 years old making $12.50:stopitslime:".

That was literally the moment where I completely and utterly fell out of love with her. NO woman in the history of my existence has ever been allowed to disrespect me, my work ethic, nor my decision making to such a disgusting level. Especially a woman whose hand I took in marriage...

So I did exactly what I had to do. Started back at the bottom part time and worked myself back to Manager in 5 months. Three promotions, three pay raises (plus bonuses). And after that time period I didn't feel as if she deserved to be a part of my success as she wasn't supportive during my hustle and struggle. Once I made manager she wanted to talk about how proud of me she was and all that shyt but I told her straight up I didn't make it because of her. I made it DESPITE of her and I didn't want her nor the marriage any longer. I actually told her all of this two months ago but she begged and pleaded for another chance talking about how sorry she was and she always believed in me and she was just frustrated during that time period. She wanted to go to counseling and I tried it but nah....the damage had been done. Once you disrespect a man.... TRULY disrespect him, he will never forgive you
Why don't you tell her the truth, you been fukking her your whole sexual life and you wanted new p*ssy.

What she said wasn't disrespectful breh, you answer that like "no, I'm gonna move up and the company and make manager" y'all argue about it and get it out your system, talk it through y'all get through it. Your foundation seems extra shaky to break up with a woman you at one point thought you would be with forever over some shyt like that...anyway I didn't get to read the whole thread, I'll try to later, but this shyt just bugged me the fukk out yo :laff:
 

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And who comes out of the army wanting to be a best buy manager? What did you even go to the army for? You could have been a best buy manager without it.

It sounds like this nikka has never had any real direction in his life and when he finally believes he is making a great decision he got his feelings hurt.

Breh, I doubt this nicca is a manager. Of course he's going to exaggerate the story
 

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fukk out of here with these retarded ass assumptions. Ok lets say Best Buy does go the way of Circuit City, with OP's experience and skills at being a manager at Best Buy and also having been honorable discharged from the US ARMY, he is pretty much set at acquiring mid level jobs quite easily. Your whole spill of him being scared to be a leader in the household is nothing more than a sorry ass attempt at shaming.
I was an assistant manager at circuit city. His story strikes me as odd. I know managers at circuit city that end up moving to lower-end positions at wawa and lowes. Then again, circuit city did of out of business.
 

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I was coming out of the Army, deciding what I wanted to do. Decided I wanted to go back to work for Best Buy. She looked me right in my face and said "So your going to be 35 years old making $12.50:stopitslime:".

That was literally the moment where I completely and utterly fell out of love with her. NO woman in the history of my existence has ever been allowed to disrespect me, my work ethic, nor my decision making to such a disgusting level. Especially a woman whose hand I took in marriage...

So I did exactly what I had to do. Started back at the bottom part time and worked myself back to Manager in 5 months. Three promotions, three pay raises (plus bonuses). And after that time period I didn't feel as if she deserved to be a part of my success as she wasn't supportive during my hustle and struggle. Once I made manager she wanted to talk about how proud of me she was and all that shyt but I told her straight up I didn't make it because of her. I made it DESPITE of her and I didn't want her nor the marriage any longer. I actually told her all of this two months ago but she begged and pleaded for another chance talking about how sorry she was and she always believed in me and she was just frustrated during that time period. She wanted to go to counseling and I tried it but nah....the damage had been done. Once you disrespect a man.... TRULY disrespect him, he will never forgive you

You gave her a divorce for telling you the truth lmao your a sensitive mangina breh

Just be honest and tell us she got fat and your not sexually attracted to her anymore
 

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Lol would you want all the "perks" of being a manager but not get a managers salary?
Last time I checked, you had to have some sort of qualification or experience to be a manager :sas2:

Let me find out getting fired from a management position wipes out half your savings, bans your from your own home, and only allows you to see your kids on the weekends :sas1:
 
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