Get your past "wild years" exposed to your fiance brehettes

[Weaver31]

The problem being there are several participating "witnesses".

Yes but she should hope they will keep quiet. Most of the times....most from ur past u won't see again.

 

[Yinny]

Probably shouldn't have done it then, amirite

I mean, I’m really not into that kind of stuff but sharing it is actually awful. I have friends who I look at sideways for some stuff they’ve talked about but key word being friend and not opp or someone I’m jealous of it’s not my business to talk about it.

It’s wild awkward and seems hating to just blurt out something like that in front of people, most who would def be uncomfortable hearing that about their sig other.

 

[Blackrogue]

That a dope blower, might need to get me one

The lady in the story or the one in the car

 

[Blackrogue]

THE WOMAN OR THE MILWAUKEE?

Bruh how we have the same thought

 

[Spence]

He knows the streets called her to that train station, and they could call her again at a later date to make her a subway stop

 

[Turbulent]

Anyone can do whatever they want, but that doesn't mean that there isn't any duty nor responsibility behind it...

It would be one thing if the guy just met the woman and suddenly decided that he didn't wanna deal with her anymore and it is another thing to be in a relationship with someone for a while and abruptly end it without any explanation.

What harm would it be for dude to have the conversation with his girlfriend about some information he heard about her from someone else? Who is to say that the 3rd party individual didn't have an alterior motives??

At this point, we are all speculating on what went down in their relationship, however I maintain the position that there are rules to this iish when dealing with someone on a romantic level...

Lastly, Idk how you deal with women, but I believe in being fairly transparent with someone. But, I also believe in being allowed to keep certain information private.

Dude should have had the conversation, heard was was told to him and if what he heard wasn't satisfactory for him to stay in the relationship, then move on. At least at that point, closure was given and his conscious was cleared...

The way you are framing "third party info" is like he was told the story in confidence. That's not what happened though. The friend told the story infront of her and she did not dispute the account. Meaning it might as well be facts. There's a difference breh. Why should dude stick around for the juelzing? She even said she wants to talk to him so she can "convince him he's acting crazy". Why give her the opportunity to gaslight you? There is nothing to discuss. She knows why he broke up. All that closure shyt is all good in rom-coms but in real life it's not necessary. She's not trying to get closure, she's trying to make him doubt his own sanity so she can stay with him. She has a demonic spirit.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Anyone can do whatever they want, but that doesn't mean that there isn't any duty nor responsibility behind it...

It would be one thing if the guy just met the woman and suddenly decided that he didn't wanna deal with her anymore and it is another thing to be in a relationship with someone for a while and abruptly end it without any explanation.

What harm would it be for dude to have the conversation with his girlfriend about some information he heard about her from someone else? Who is to say that the 3rd party individual didn't have an alterior motives??

At this point, we are all speculating on what went down in their relationship, however I maintain the position that there are rules to this iish when dealing with someone on a romantic level...

Lastly, Idk how you deal with women, but I believe in being fairly transparent with someone. But, I also believe in being allowed to keep certain information private.

Dude should have had the conversation, heard was was told to him and if what he heard wasn't satisfactory for him to stay in the relationship, then move on. At least at that point, closure was given and his conscious was cleared...

I actually agree with this take, but again we don't know these people or the events that followed prior to the break up. Hell, we don't even know if the story is real. As far as relationships go, we always want the person with the most leverage to "do the right thing", but what is the right thing? Like someone mentioned earlier, your job can fire you for (almost) anything, and we would hope they'd do it in a professional manner, but chances are they won't. Because they have the leverage.
I do believe communication would've lead to a different outcome, but we just don't know.

The bolded pretty much describes me. There are certain things I keep private within reason. If I have something that may effect your life, I'm gonna tell you.

 

[KidJSoul]

A female would have to be a 11/10 and rich for me not to care about her being previously employed by 'amtrak'

Yeah



Some women don't understand how mens minds work and it's weird.

Why would we be okay with a woman who got a train on them? shyt fukks up everything

If im providing and protecting, how can I marry a woman whose been used like that? It makes no sense.

 

[Geek Nasty]

This is guaranteed fake. Probably a reading from another Reddit rage porn breakups forum

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

I mean, I’m really not into that kind of stuff but sharing it is actually awful. I have friends who I look at sideways for some stuff they’ve talked about but key word being friend and not opp or someone I’m jealous of it’s not my business to talk about it.

It’s wild awkward and seems hating to just blurt out something like that in front of people, most who would def be uncomfortable hearing that about their sig other

I'm not gon front you. You speaking facts, homie outta pocket for spilling the beans like that.

 

[Commish]

I actually agree with this take, but again we don't know these people or the events that followed prior to the break up. Hell, we don't even know if the story is real. As far as relationships go, we always want the person with the most leverage to "do the right thing", but what is the right thing? Like someone mentioned earlier, your job can fire you for (almost) anything, and we would hope they'd do it in a professional manner, but chances are they won't. Because they have the leverage.
I do believe communication would've lead to a different outcome, but we just don't know.

The bolded pretty much describes me. There are certain things I keep private within reason. If I have something that may effect your life, I'm gonna tell you.

I agree that we don't know much about the relationship in question, but we can apply the scenario to our individual lives.

The right thing to do, IMO, is to always keep the lines of communication open. Basically, keep it real and treat those how you would like to be treated.

I discussed this topic without my lady today. I told her what I am gonna do with our relationship should there be a change of heart.

I believe that she is owed a conversation, if necessary. She is also owed closure, if necessary. The reason why our relationship is going strong and has consistently been strong is because we laid our foundation from jump.

Glad we could agree on some points. Salute!

 

[GreenGhxst]

Anyone can do whatever they want, but that doesn't mean that there isn't any duty nor responsibility behind it...

It would be one thing if the guy just met the woman and suddenly decided that he didn't wanna deal with her anymore and it is another thing to be in a relationship with someone for a while and abruptly end it without any explanation.

What harm would it be for dude to have the conversation with his girlfriend about some information he heard about her from someone else? Who is to say that the 3rd party individual didn't have an alterior motives??

At this point, we are all speculating on what went down in their relationship, however I maintain the position that there are rules to this iish when dealing with someone on a romantic level...

Lastly, Idk how you deal with women, but I believe in being fairly transparent with someone. But, I also believe in being allowed to keep certain information private.

Dude should have had the conversation, heard was was told to him and if what he heard wasn't satisfactory for him to stay in the relationship, then move on. At least at that point, closure was given and his conscious was cleared...

He should've been mature enough to have a conversation

Outside of that it could've been cut and dry, he has no obligation to stay with her just because it was over a decade ago

 

[Commish]

He should've been mature enough to have a conversation

Outside of that it could've been cut and dry, he has no obligation to stay with her just because it was over a decade ago

Agree with your first statement. Your last statement is arbitrary. Everyone is different & @ the end of the day, ppl gonna deal with relationships differently.

Perhaps for dude, hearing that his ex had a freaky past was a deal breaker. Maybe he would be more open minded had he been older?

Me? I prefer women who are more modest, but that doesn't mean I don't like a lil freakiness Iin a woman either.

Real ones handle conflicts in a real way! *shrugs*

 

[African Peasant]

You coli weirdos love them Fake reedit stories

 

[Tasha And]

Thought this was gonna be about the freaknik documentary that just dropped