Gentlemen, compliment women: you have more power than you realise: UPDATED

[Ms.CuriousCat]

I've had women start a conversation with me to just to drop that "well my BOYFRIEND says...."
I'm like bytch you started talking to me, I ain't tryna hit on you.
I can't help but feel like that's solely based on my appearance.

Ill put it like this, ill only compliment a woman I've known for a while....

That is perfectly okay

Kinda what I meant anyway. To at the very least know of each other or know each other well. Especially if you've gotten to know her personality so you know she's not stuck up.

So it's offensive for a girl to talk about another guy when talking to a guy? What if she really did have something relevant to say about her boyfriend in the conversation....

 

[acri1]

Nah, complimenting random women is for simps. What do I look like inflating a chick's ego for no reason?

If I'm feeling a chick I'd be more likely to say something like "eh you look aight" just to her and get her attention.

 

[Scuti]

fukk i look like? town simp?

 

[Dwolf]

My first phone (technically mother's) was a Nokia 3310. The idea of communicating via pictures only is weird. I never got Instagram for personal use. Still don't tbh



@malcolmxxx_45 @flea @Raul @Dwolf

Please for the love of all that is good and beautiful.

I know that the male brain is wired differently. You are probably thinking about girls you like or very attractive girls or what you could get from them by being nice to them. This is not about that.

I am saying be nice to females (the non-uptight, the casual ones, not the I wore this outfit with these shoes and bright red lipstick to get your attention ones). You can still approach those ones in your own time (could be the casual girl dresses up from time to time) but this outside the scope of this thread. Be nice to regular females when they are dressed regularly without expecting anything in return, just to be nice because you really can make a difference to how those no make-up wearing, probably thinking she's having the worst skin or hair day ever girls. You can shift her mood and if you guys collectively make a habit of it, possibly even how she feels about herself. Genuinely.

So take that power and use it to add positive energy to the world.


ps

If you have daughters, then it is not an option. That's your job

tldr. Can I summary of that titangraph?

 

[flea]

My first phone (technically mother's) was a Nokia 3310. The idea of communicating via pictures only is weird. I never got Instagram for personal use. Still don't tbh



@malcolmxxx_45 @flea @Raul @Dwolf

Please for the love of all that is good and beautiful.

I know that the male brain is wired differently. You are probably thinking about girls you like or very attractive girls or what you could get from them by being nice to them. This is not about that.

I am saying be nice to females (the non-uptight, the casual ones, not the I wore this outfit with these shoes and bright red lipstick to get your attention ones). You can still approach those ones in your own time (could be the casual girl dresses up from time to time) but this outside the scope of this thread. Be nice to regular females when they are dressed regularly without expecting anything in return, just to be nice because you really can make a difference to how those no make-up wearing, probably thinking she's having the worst skin or hair day ever girls. You can shift her mood and if you guys collectively make a habit of it, possibly even how she feels about herself. Genuinely.

So take that power and use it to add positive energy to the world.


ps

If you have daughters, then it is not an option. That's your job

i actually do compliment women often regardless of looks and they always appreciate it, I think its just polite and a good way to break the ice but Im speaking for the @ThugLife 's in the world who more than likely creep women the fukk out

 

[kevm3]

women should start popping up on deck with a sandwich out of nowhere just to make a man feel appreciated, because that really makes her powerful

sometimes a man just gets hungry you know what I mean?

 

[Still Benefited]

I don't know about this one bruh...I done complimented women because I meant it and was trying to hit....Just jokingly or because they was flirting with me and I thought we was just playing...Ive done it when chicks was obviously fishing and I wanted to end the awkwardness.

Her-"I know im kinda fat right now

Me-"

Her-"Like real fat".

Me-

Her-"Really Really fat"

Me-"Nah you not that fat"

Long story short ol girl got fired but a year later bytch ended up at my front door....Tracked me down through somebody she knew who worked at a collection agency....You never know how seriously some people will take the SMALLEST compliment,goes for women too..

Lowkey I woulda piped since she went through all that trouble if my ex hadn't been in the crib...She mighta been as fat as she said she was,but not ugly

 

[BoogieDown23]

women should start popping up on deck with a sandwich out of nowhere just to make a man feel appreciated, because that really makes her powerful

sometimes a man just gets hungry you know what I mean?

/thread

 

[Mandarin Duck]

That is perfectly okay

Kinda what I meant anyway. To at the very least know of each other or know each other well. Especially if you've gotten to know her personality so you know she's not stuck up.

So it's offensive for a girl to talk about another guy when talking to a guy? What if she really did have something relevant to say about her boyfriend in the conversation....

Same way a girl gets hit on so much she doesn't know when a person is being genuinely nice to her
Well I been rejected so much I don't know if you just tryna talk or preemptively tell me I don't have a chance with you

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

tldr. Can I summary of that titangraph?

mysriywtuwsittty

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

Same way a girl gets hit on so much she doesn't know when a person is being genuinely nice to her
Well I been rejected so much I don't know if you just tryna talk or preemptively tell me I don't have a chance with you

Awww that's not always the case could just be the convo went in that direction

 

[Dwolf]

mysriywtuwsittty

No idea what that says.

 

[Suicide King]

My boss would always be talking sexually to the women there...and they would laugh.....and he would always ask me why I wouldn't
I told him "yea a joke you say on Monday is funny, but by Wednesday that same joke gunna have you in a meeting with HR"
And that's exactly what happen to him.... I tried to tell em

That fickle shyt is why I be on that indifference steez towards co-workers.

And @ complimenting women.

 

[Doobie Doo]

I cannot compliment females nowadays. Its negative reinforcement for me. I had my simp period in my early to mid 20's where compliments would flow like water. Now my ego refuses to allow me to compliment a chick unless I REALLY REALLY MEAN it. I can't even bark out a fake or bullshyt compliments anymore. I just leave them hanging and say nothing when they expect one. I've gotten more p*ssy in the past 5 years dissing bytches than I have complimenting them. I mean that lets you know the bytches I fukk with ain't shyt but it works, I'm 33 no kids no wife mo money.

 

[Amerikan Melanin]

Women dont want your compliments! thats harassment!! they arent here for your pleasure!

Street Harassment is a serious thing fellas.