Gentlemen, compliment women: you have more power than you realise: UPDATED

[Ms.CuriousCat]

where they make these at?

I don't have insta and I am pretty sure none of the girls I know do. It is not unheard of.



That said it's about what she does when she goes on. If you're a photographer (not model ) or artist (painting/drawing/graphic)....you see where I'm going with this. I don't get the point of insta but that's not to say every girl on it is doing it to show off her assets for likes. They may be networking no but seriously, they could be using it to display their talent (pun unintentional but unavoidable)

 

[flea]

Compliments only matter if dude is attractive

But if he is short and ugly...then it's eww that's creepy

Yup. It's like if some random ugly short dude gave a girl flowers, she's gonna think he's a creepy ass serial killer

 

[Dwolf]

Noooooo


That girl that you run into, that girl that goes to the same class, that girl you see every time you're in the supermarket or your local café. A girl that you say at least 2 words to during random or regular meetings.

Compliment that girl. You may or may not know her name, you may or may not fancy her. Especially if she's melanated, it is your responsibility as the men of the community

Thats called street harassment remember
Post your pic so I can compliment you.

 

[Remote]

Ride along the feminist agenda and still require facetious compliments to soothe your egos, brehettes.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Yup. It's like if some random ugly short dude gave a girl flowers, she's gonna think he's a creepy ass serial killer

They want the compliement and the attention at the same time





Ugly dude compliements her


Her to co workers: ewww brad from finance dept just said I looked pretty ...Ashley I'm going to vomit be thinks I'm cute

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

From experience that's not true.
How you look determines how she's going to take it.

Pick a smilie. How would you compliment? I need to see it so I can give feedback

In my experience as a female, it doesn't matter what the guy looks like. What matters are his intentions and how he looks at you (i.e. how genuine and how respectful)

You are equating complimenting with hitting on. She doesn't have to give you her number just because you gave her a compliment same way you don't necessarily want her number just because you complimented her. So looks and attraction are irrelevant (assuming you are being genuine and respectful and not ). In which case it's not about hot or not (objectively speaking) , it's about attracted or not (subjective) i.e. is she also thinking .

 

[MikelArteta]

I don't have insta and I am pretty sure none of the girls I know do. It is not unheard of.



That said it's about what she does when she goes on. If you're a photographer (not model ) or artist (painting/drawing/graphic)....you see where I'm going with this. I don't get the point of insta but that's not to say every girl on it is doing it to show off her assets for likes. They may be networking no but seriously, they could be using it to display their talent (pun unintentional but unavoidable)

what foreign land are you from/

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

IDK from what Ive seen overcomplementing is a way bigger problem than undercomplementing.

http://www.complex.com/pop-culture/2012/09/100-thirstiest-comments-on-instagram/you-said-what

To be fair though we only overcomplement physical attributes.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

what foreign land are you from/

My first phone (technically mother's) was a Nokia 3310. The idea of communicating via pictures only is weird. I never got Instagram for personal use. Still don't tbh



@malcolmxxx_45 @flea @Raul @Dwolf

Please for the love of all that is good and beautiful.

I know that the male brain is wired differently. You are probably thinking about girls you like or very attractive girls or what you could get from them by being nice to them. This is not about that.

I am saying be nice to females (the non-uptight, the casual ones, not the I wore this outfit with these shoes and bright red lipstick to get your attention ones). You can still approach those ones in your own time (could be the casual girl dresses up from time to time) but this outside the scope of this thread. Be nice to regular females when they are dressed regularly without expecting anything in return, just to be nice because you really can make a difference to how those no make-up wearing, probably thinking she's having the worst skin or hair day ever girls. You can shift her mood and if you guys collectively make a habit of it, possibly even how she feels about herself. Genuinely.

So take that power and use it to add positive energy to the world.


ps

If you have daughters, then it is not an option. That's your job

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

IDK from what Ive seen overcomplementing is a way bigger problem than undercomplementing.

http://www.complex.com/pop-culture/2012/09/100-thirstiest-comments-on-instagram/you-said-what

To be fair though we only overcomplement physical attributes.

If I have to make the same point again

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

When a girl doesn't look like she's expecting it.

When she's not wearing much make-up if at all and when she's not stuck up. It is her God given right to be complimented by you.


It is good for you, as you are a man who holds the power to make that woman's day and she will bestow upon you genuine, heartfelt goodwill positivity that will make you successful in life


So compliment these girls


Especially your mahogany sistren.

 

[Remote]

My first phone (technically mother's) was a Nokia 3310. The idea of communicating via pictures only is weird. I never got Instagram for personal use. Still don't tbh



@malcolmxxx_45 @flea @Raul @Dwolf

Please for the love of all that is good and beautiful.

I know that the male brain is wired differently. You are probably thinking about girls you like or very attractive girls or what you could get from them by being nice to them. This is not about that.

I am saying be nice to females (the non-uptight, the casual ones, not the I wore this outfit with these shoes and bright red lipstick to get your attention ones). You can still approach those ones in your own time (could be the casual girl dresses up from time to time) but this outside the scope of this thread. Be nice to regular females when they are dressed regularly without expecting anything in return, just to be nice because you really can make a difference to how those no make-up wearing, probably thinking she's having the worst skin or hair day ever girls. You can shift her mood and if you guys collectively make a habit of it, possibly even how she feels about herself. Genuinely.

So take that power and use it to add positive energy to the world.


ps

If you have daughters, then it is not an option. That's your job

Be nice to be nice.

But I'm not giving out random compliments just to boost people's ego because it wouldn't be genuine.

 

[Turbulent]

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Pick a smilie. How would you compliment? I need to see it so I can give feedback

In my experience as a female, it doesn't matter what the guy looks like. What matters are his intentions and how he looks at you (i.e. how genuine and how respectful)

You are equating complimenting with hitting on. She doesn't have to give you her number just because you gave her a compliment same way you don't necessarily want her number just because you complimented her. So looks and attraction are irrelevant (assuming you are being genuine and respectful and not ). In which case it's not about hot or not (objectively speaking) , it's about attracted or not (subjective) i.e. is she also thinking .

I've had women start a conversation with me just to drop that "well my BOYFRIEND says...."
I'm like bytch you started talking to me, I ain't tryna hit on you.
I can't help but feel like that's solely based on my appearance.

Ill put it like this, ill only compliment a woman I've known for a while....

 

[2stainz]

nah, Im good. not giving anything out for free