africngiant
All Star
i noticed bytches don’t like that either. they associate swag and masculinity with short sentences and broken grammarman this bytch is crazy.. over some fukking capitalization, a comma and a period.
beats me
Gen Z woman goes viral floored by 35-year-old man’s text after first date
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beats me
feelosofer
#ninergang
That's just code for 'I like you and want to see you again' but trying not to be too thirsty about it.
buzzkill
All Star
but if you text too many words.... you are simping and making yourself too available
Text rule # 15 - Text less words than the woman
i see why men are done dating
Yinny
Sweet and Sour Patch Mom
lol at expecting a super grown ass man to use a bunch of smilies and !!!!! and lols grow up
Secure Da Bag
Veteran
I thought she was 35. 
The text is pretty lacking, but that's a lot of people. She does the same thing by closing the convo with a weak statement. Texting has to open up the convo, or state a clear purpose. All that shyt is weak, with the "nice to meet you", "hows your day", "have a good day". Not sure where culturally we started talking to everyone like we are in customer service. esp. people you sleep with.
Like a year ago I went out with a 26 year old, I was like 36 at the time, and we had a lot of chemistry, a great date, and we kept in touch, but when she hit me up like take me to the movies, I want to see the Whitney movie, (sounded like a terrible second date) I responded, flirting, and in Spanish, she's Mexican,
me: "but we can't talk during a movie", lol
Her: ok
and that was where we left it.
but people try to play their cards so close that they lose all human behavior. A lot of that is all performative. If they know me even for an hour, they'll know I'm never desperate or thirsty, so that's not a concern. The "worst" scenario is someone will think i like them and I am sexually attracted, so what's the real issue?
Like a year ago I went out with a 26 year old, I was like 36 at the time, and we had a lot of chemistry, a great date, and we kept in touch, but when she hit me up like take me to the movies, I want to see the Whitney movie, (sounded like a terrible second date) I responded, flirting, and in Spanish, she's Mexican,
me: "but we can't talk during a movie", lol
Her: ok
and that was where we left it.
but people try to play their cards so close that they lose all human behavior. A lot of that is all performative. If they know me even for an hour, they'll know I'm never desperate or thirsty, so that's not a concern. The "worst" scenario is someone will think i like them and I am sexually attracted, so what's the real issue?
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I read a fukking book on texting, and it still is some of the more annoying features of modern life.
www.drwinsberg.com
Speaking in Thumbs — Dr. Mimi Winsberg
A Psychiatrist Decodes Your Relationship Texts So You Don't Have To by Mimi Winsberg, M.D.
www.drwinsberg.com
UWasntThere
Superstar
Exactly.Why this bytch acting like she not old? You 27 not 22
Instead of just flat out asking him to clarify she goes straight to the internet.
I would have asked "Was that sarcastic?"
And they claim we're not good at conversation
Spacejam23
Rookie
Do people not call or talk on the phone anymore .? Most of this miscommincation . Can be solved with a phone call.I read a fukking book on texting, and it still is some of the more annoying features of modern life.
Speaking in Thumbs — Dr. Mimi Winsberg
A Psychiatrist Decodes Your Relationship Texts So You Don't Have To by Mimi Winsberg, M.D.
I make it a point now to call woman rather than text . There not use to dudes calling
NYChase718
Veteran
Theres alot special ed people that are followed by masses on social media
No, a lot of people don't call. It's seen as "too extreme" and for emergencies. I do call. But a phone has to answered for it to be effective. Did that the other day with a friend of a friends girlfriend, long convo, chemistry the whole room acknowledged, made a plan, called her, and no answer.
but yeah, when you do mutually cross that barrier and just call, it clears up almost everything. but people don't like it, because unlike texting you have to be kinda on. You can't wait 10 minutes to reply. You can't craft the perfect meme or whatever. and calls can be really revealing. Texts everyone seems cool and remote. and probably exactly the way they want someone to see them.
People don't want to come off too strong or overly aggressive
no dude wants to be accused of being a creep or thirsty or whatever
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
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