Gen Z woman goes viral floored by 35-year-old man’s text after first date

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Darth Nubian said:
The fact that he texted should be considered a win. 40+ gang not even bothering texting people we don't like :laugh:
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Ain’t that the fukking truth, I was dead when they made the term “ghosting” when I been cutting folks off without ever talking to them again since the 90’s lol
 
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re'up said:
The text is pretty lacking, but that's a lot of people. She does the same thing by closing the convo with a weak statement. Texting has to open up the convo, or state a clear purpose. All that shyt is weak, with the "nice to meet you", "hows your day", "have a good day". Not sure where culturally we started talking to everyone like we are in customer service. esp. people you sleep with.

Like a year ago I went out with a 26 year old, I was like 36 at the time, and we had a lot of chemistry, a great date, and we kept in touch, but when she hit me up like take me to the movies, I want to see the Whitney movie, (sounded like a terrible second date) I responded, flirting, and in Spanish, she's Mexican,

me: "but we can't talk during a movie", lol

Her: ok

and that was where we left it.

but people try to play their cards so close that they lose all human behavior. A lot of that is all performative. If they know me even for an hour, they'll know I'm never desperate or thirsty, so that's not a concern. The "worst" scenario is someone will think i like them and I am sexually attracted, so what's the real issue?
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Nobody wants to show a HINT of vulnerability.

Had a girl tell me how on our first date she did everything she could to NOT show how much she liked me.

I'm like :wtf:

I already knew she did because she didn't mind me holding her close and getting physical. I don't blame dudes for tossing in the towel.
I'm hard headed though, I want some live-in p*ssy damnit :mjlol:
 
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Afro said:
Nobody wants to show a HINT of vulnerability.

Had a girl tell me how on our first date she did everything she could to NOT show how much she liked me.

I'm like :wtf:

I already knew she did because she didn't mind me holding her close and getting physical. I don't blame dudes for tossing in the towel.
I'm hard headed though, I want some live-in p*ssy damnit :mjlol:
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Right. Exactly. and it's easy for me to "stand out". because that kind of vulnerability doesn't bother me. I told someone once, a little dramatically, that there was some of my heart in every text I send. lol -and that's why I hate getting ghoted- But in a sense, it's true, because you can always tell I like someone. I never say "hey" or "what's up" or WYD or hows your day going.

I'm always trying to shortcut to where we are telling each other how much we want each other. Not that formal shyt.

and that is the performance of not appearing vulnerable, even though we all "catch feelings" and are attracted to people. it's very defensive and people come off very guarded for no real reason, like what do they accomplish with all that?
 
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Nigerianwonder said:
He was looking for her to show some interest. Women have become ungrateful lazy daters cause dating is free for them.

I'm sure he paid for the date. He said he had a good time. What else does he have to show? He did his part. It's her turn to show something. Show some damn gratitude and interest in him.

Women don't even even say thank you half the time after a date where you pay for everything. Before you get a second date I need to see some enthusiasm.

When dealing with men of a higher a caliber it's not that we can't or don't want to take Women out.. it's that they need to give us a reason cause I aint tricking on a woman if I don't know she really into me like that.
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I hear you and cosign, but you and i can see it logically.

Again, i’m not caping for her at all, i’m just saying I’m tryna see it from her perspective since SOME women absolutely forget that it’s ok to actually take some initiative too.

All in all, he dodged a bullet
 
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