Gen Z woman goes viral floored by 35-year-old man’s text after first date

[King Poetic]

First off , if that is 27 , that’s a outdated 27 year old

Secondly, you know its bad when motherfukkers have some type of feelings over text messages and not face to face conversations…

 

[Spacejam23]

No, a lot of people don't call. It's seen as "too extreme" and for emergencies. I do call. But a phone has to answered for it to be effective. Did that the other day with a friend of a friends girlfriend, long convo, chemistry the whole room acknowledged, made a plan, called her, and no answer.

but yeah, when you do mutually cross that barrier and just call, it clears up almost everything. but people don't like it, because unlike texting you have to be kinda on. You can't wait 10 minutes to reply. You can't craft the perfect meme or whatever. and calls can be really revealing. Texts everyone seems cool and remote. and probably exactly the way they want someone to see them.

I get that i i use to be scared or nervous on how i be pericieved calling. Now fukk that i dont got patience for you take all day to respond to simple text question esp if im trying to make plans. And yeah when i ask them they say im oldschool cause most dudes dont call. Now i treat my approch likes its the 90s i will call her at resonble time and go from there. Im 28 if woman a woman is feeling me she will like you calling not a buggying here of course . Plus at this point idc if looked weried or agressive for calling . If she rocking with you it dont matter.

And your right text you can hide or craft the perfect response. With call its pressure and they cant hide. Which i like it forces to make a descion.

And i agrees it has to becanswered to be effective . But you can say the same about texting. I rather take my chances with a call

 

[re'up]

People don't want to come off too strong or overly aggressive no dude wants to be accused of being a creep or thirsty or whatever

Sure. And I can't speak to app dating, but even in 30 minutes or 15 minutes, meeting me, no one is going to think I am thirsty or a creep, or whatever. so just don't lead with your fears. texts always sound funny in public, because they are meant to be private, but people often are being very performative about it.

don't be generic and don't be too restrained. this is from memory first text from awhile ago, some super bad girl, Bay Area, very educated:

"Hey Marisa, this is --------, really had fun with you last night, loved talking about Aaliyah, lol- let's get sushi this week in Little Italy, if you are free"

I sent one after meeting someone out of town, like "Back home but I'm still thinking about you" that was it.

and yeah you can craft some romantic/sensual, well written text and just no response, and that is probably not even about the text.

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

lol she probably wants him more now than if he had a longer text with emojis and shyt

 

[moorfeus]

Fucc this old clickbait, Sex in the City faced azz biotch! Biotch look my age and I'm 44. Fucc her and her overblown, immature, fake story about her imaginary date with a 35-year-old man. Biotch thirsting for clicks and followers to her dusty Instagram account (that nobody cares about) so bad she paid the NY Post to rant about this fake news. This mf is uninteresting as hell, type of fool that will be going on talking for hours about a bowl of oatmeal.

 

[Biscayne]

Bytch wrote a thesis about a man that isn't into her

Imagine this being your life

I mean, it worked. She went viral for being a femcel.

All press is good press.

 

[NinoBrown]

She's one baby or cheeseburger away....kinda beat to be honest but this insecure, needy, clout chasing personality is an instant turn-off...

 

[Ghost Utmost]

Basically a generation of mental retards.

The text was clear as day. And benign too. Nothing mysterious or controversial about it.

 

[Sonny Bonds]

For the first date, the guy takes a chance and asks a girl out. He might not know if she’s into him or not. This is normal and fine.

For the second date, he should know where he stands. So if they didn’t get physical in any way and she didn’t show any emotion in her text; you can’t blame him if he just moves on. He might have other (better?) options.

Side question: Let’s say he doesn’t respond to her last text, would you guys that to be ghosting?

 

[Neuromancer]

Ya'll think men will start writing OP/ED's about this type of stuff?

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

She looks like Matt Gaetz with long blond hair. Not missing much there....

 

[ReturnOfJudah]

Bruh sent that text like he didn't get past first base. So he's moving on and not wasting time

 

[Nigerianwonder]

Honestly from a WOMAN’S perspective/logic, I can see why she confused. She was probably looking for the reassurance that he would like to see her again.

I get it but his text isn’t WRONG either, i’m just trying to put myself in HER shoes

He was looking for her to show some interest. Women have become ungrateful lazy daters cause dating is free for them.

I'm sure he paid for the date. He said he had a good time. What else does he have to show? He did his part. It's her turn to show something. Show some damn gratitude and interest in him.

Women don't even even say thank you half the time after a date where you pay for everything. Before you get a second date I need to see some enthusiasm.

When dealing with men of a higher a caliber it's not that we can't or don't want to take Women out.. it's that they need to give us a reason cause I aint tricking on a woman if I don't know she really into me like that.

 

[pickles]

Is this the pawgs that coli brehs talk about?

bytch got 3 inch dark ass roots. The confidence of these bytches.

 

[Richard Glidewell]

Its even worse than is thought. Telling that she couldn't reply to a simple straight forward ass text.......fatherless children is about to be even more normalized moving forward I'd that is even possible