But they are common. You and people like you are the ones trying to make it seem uncommon. This is actually what I was talking about. The very rappers that you speak of make up a small portion of black music as a whole. Compared to the entirety of black music, there are a smaller number of these more toxic kind of rappers yet you pay more attention to them and many black woman go out of their way to pay more attention and fund more of these rappers than other artists, especially more positive ones. Then you turn around and complain. In reality, you're mad that those toxic rappers aren't catering to you specifically. That's weird.
By that logic, black women are loud angry weave-wearing attitude-having welfare queens and such an image is right to exist, no amount of "not every black woman behaves/is like that" will change the optics of their group. This is why I keep comparing you guys to white supremacists. You utilize the same logic they use, which is "stereotypes exist for a reason" mentality but then cry foul when it used against you.
No, there isn't actually. This is something you've conjured up yourself. The idea of a black man with a black woman would be shocking but it is not. The idea of the militant black man is something that is not based in self-hatred. The idea of the regular degular black male is not one based in self-hatred, yet it seems like people like you continue to push it.
But it's not true, the same way not every black guy is good at basketball. Literal fukking stats show this to be false. Then again, if we subscribe to your idea of stereotypes existing for a reason, the question then becomes, why did he leave? Why do you assume it is self hate? If there is truth in stereotypes and black women have a stereotype of being difficult and having attitude, and so on, maybe he got tired of all of that and the dysfunction that goes with it. Again, this is why stereotypes are dangerous because it almost always blows up in your face.
Because black men have such full control over all media. It has nothing to do with many other groups working against them. Goodness gracious.
So I keep finding that I have to explain the issues of racism and how this can cause problems for black people, and overall history lessons on the black community, especially in regards to black men on this website. I ask anyone to look through my post history where I have had to do this and check the race and gender of the person I am talking to and arguing with in each instance. You will notice a trend that keeps occurring over and over and over and over again and quite frankly, it is fukking telling. Holy shyt.
I'm not mad. It is still a stupid idea and tactic because it is still judging a majority by a minority that is far from how that actual majority actually thinks and acts. It becomes even stupider when taking other black men from other countries into account as well. Lil Wayne is no different than Okwonko in the middle of Nigeria according to you. That's stupid. Lil Wayne, a whole street dude, is the same as a regular square. Again, that's stupid. No amount of juelzing will undo that but again, if we can judge black men by that metric, the metric in which we judge black women is even less flattering. This is what you are trying to do to yourself.
Ah, so if it is a negative narrative on black women, then it is pushed by someone else? It has nothing to do with something you and your group created or did to yourselves? Goodness gracious. It feels like I'm talking to sociopath. Nothing is ever black women's fault. It's all black men's fault.
The funny part is, you and women like you are doing the most to ensure these narratives endure. Pushing this idea that it is right and okay to judge a group by a small number is one that most don't subscribe to and why even the most ardent racists get flustered by this idea and have to talk in circles to even make the idea sort of palatable to people and here you are trying to normalize just so you can attack black men and make it easier for others to do so unfairly.
I want everyone to notice something: Look throughout
@Lemons posts in this thread and check how many times she blames either white people, white supremacy, white men, or any other non-black group and then compare that to how many times she blames black men for all of this.
In any case, I called it earlier:
Still haven't seen any of these people comment on white supremacy. Rappers = black men, without exception according to a black woman.
shyt sounds like something an alt right musk fan boy would say 
