seen this post and read thrrough 50 percent of the pages and figured id offer my two cents.
been to brazil three times, rio twice (once just to "go" because i am/was a cornball "work two jobs everday" type of a nicca and never traveled before) and sao paulo once. the workers down there are only out for ya bread. me and my homeboy thought we was at a regular bar and was wonderin why bytchzz was so friendly and i told him she was a worker cuz i saw a tongue ring lol. homegirl confirmed my suspecions and my man was like "yo but i thought u liked me for me?!" and the bytchz laughed and said "cash!" the dude that hooked us up with the apartment is a us born citizen but moved down there and been living there for 20 years. he made it seem as if bagging a regular local girl was damn near impossible. long story short, we ended up baggin two locals who were regular joints. im a pretty modest dude and think im avg at BEST on a good day so i thought we was gettin set up. the chicks picked us up from our crib and brought us to some thing called "lapa" but when we got out the taxi it was super hood. mind you the chicks had paid for our cab fair. in my mind, i thought they was bringing us to their bfs to get robbed so i started spazzin. me and my man dont know an ounce of portuguese besides obrigado (thank you) and (oi). the chicks didnt know english except my girl knew how to say "take it easy." turns out we lucked out and they actually liked us and were bad.
we decided to go back for carnival knowing we had joints already lined up waitin for us. but when i told homeboy that hooked us up with the apartment that we smashed for free, he was shocked as all hell as if it was some impossible task. take it for what its worth as hes been living there for 20 years but he says we "lucked out." i been talkin to shorty ever since and went to her home town sao paulo for new years, and was on avenida paulista.
so its possible to bag but alot of the females are like the black american women that we so hate and see us for a dollar. but there is something diff about some of those hoes. my man smashed a few but they seemed more "women like." i cant explain it, like the chick made up his bed, cooked us breakfast, was telling us about her son. but yet at night she opens her legs.
but was talkin to shortys friend the other day and that divorce rate thing dont surprise me. i asked her about why her and her friend dont date brazilian men and they said because they are "very unfaithful. many beautiful women in brazil, and they all want." she also said that all she wants is to be respected and that if u marry a brazilian man, you have to be willing to accept that he's prolly got 5 other side pieces. Btw, the locals chicks HATE the workers. the local girls got all types of degrees and dont make as much bread as someone who paroles copacabana at night.
everyone has to go out there at least once because it is a great experience. me going there has me traveling all over now, to Ibiza, Switerzland etc.
but I wanted to ask Malta and Ram some stuff because i noticed you guys was down there too. Malta, my situation is similar to the one u had with homegirl. my girl lives with her mother, and two little sisters and takes care of em both. shes so pro brazil that i be wantin to sweet-chin-music her sometimes but she pretty much works to take care of the fam. father left moms which has somehow scarred my girl for life and swears she will never go through the pain her mother went through and continues to go through. but she said similar things about not wanting to leave (and i dont want her to). where was the girl from that u used to talk to? and did u ever run into any problems while down there like dudes tryin to test you/rob you? I had dudes look at me but it was like they respected me i dunno. I met some other people back in Rio telling me that brazilians dont mess with black people they usually only test/rob white americans. didnt know if yall knew this was true or not. and yall ever been to any of the carnivals?
edit: forgot the most important part of this story. so the one shorty (worker chick) my man smashed back in 2011 hit him up a year ago saying she was in the states
. Apparently some [black] nicca age 43 moved her up here in and got her and her daughter living in a raise ranch in NYC. What i thought was funny that she hit my man up as soon as she got here and he live in DC. Whats even funnier is that when we went back to Rio for Carnival, we ran into her friend (who was trying to smash me the first time we went) and she recognized us. She was talkin about how her friend "made it" and how they were all so happy for her. So these bytches is trying to find a way out and make it like her friend hoping some negro snatches em up and moves em out there.
this bytch stay in the flyes clubs all over, 40/40 etc. so yeah, again alot of them joints will prolly play you if you move em out here.
that they couldn't make it work with any of the MILLIONS of women here
The middle class Cariocas in Rio won't really mess with anyone from outside their social circle, especially foreigners, and even if you've known them for years they will still call you a gringo. In Salvador, I was always accepted though, didn't matter if it was white Brazilians or black, they weren't as uptight as the people in Rio.
