First off a lot of the bruhs on that "yall need to step your shyt up" HAVE stepped their shyt up and ARE doing somethign about it. What do you do? Yall cry about women being materialistic and shallow, but what do YOU bring to the table? Dudes who dont have to scrape the bottom don't complain about whats at the bottom, thats what it comes down to
There are like 8 women for every eligible black man... if women are giving you ANY kind of grief its because you arent up to par, period
I don't know those guys personal situations or anything, but just because a woman isn't a hoodrat, doesn't make her not fukked up.
I mean, look at Halle Berry, Oprah, Madonna, and a ton of "strong", "intelligent" women in our culture.
A lot of time the "intelligent" "strong" and rich ones are the most crazy.
What I was getting from this discussion wasnt that guys were saying that all American women are hood rats, just that Amerikkkan culture has poisoned the relationships between men and women.
Yes, there's tons of eligible men and women in the country, but how many of them aren't complete narcissists, materialistic, arrogant, or just out and out batshyt crazy?
My stance has never been that everybody's bad or that I've had bad relationships with women, just that we're in a dysfunctional society, that even with all of it's money and opportunities creates fukked up, childish, immature, and materialistic people of ALL economic backgrounds.
A lot of people like to blame it on the poor (Bill Cosby), but like I said, rich White folks are some of the most miserable people on earth.
So, like I said, if you can find a way out of the midset that creates so much of the bullshyt you see around us, I'm not gonna hate on you, I'm going to congratulate you.
You're talking about NYC Rebel, right?
He mentioned in another thread that his wife likes designer bags and made a comment about needing/wanting to get better control of his finances (or something to that affect). I could be wrong but I'm pretty sure I'm right. Anywho, that doesn't make her a bad wife or make him contradictory as MOST people in the USA could probably stand to gain better control of their finances.
Which is exactly what I'm saying.
We're a dysfunctional, materialistic culture, with our priorities in the absolute wrong place.
Just because we're the richest country (on paper, not individual incomes anymore), doesn't mean that we have our heads screwed on right. We don't.