Former NBA star Gilbert Arenas says why date women when you can spend $250 dollars and get right to it.

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If you're dating ol girl to smash, they want he says makes sense. If you're looking for a companion and partner, then you shouldn't be spending anyway just to get to know her.

Either way, he's right.
 

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If someone doesn't want companionship, it makes sense. No need to fake a relationship/play games. As long as he's upfront with what he wants or doesn't want, it's a fair exchange
This, and that's exactly what Gil was saying. Dude just wants sex, and not a relationship. At that point it makes sense just to buy an escort.
 

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some of those women will end up liking you...
its not that much different than relationships.

does your wife/girlfriend give it up with passion every single time?
of course not

Does a prostitute look out for you, cook for you, nurture you because she loves you?

Y'all are absolutely crazy if you think your 2 seconds of "passion" with a prostitute is the same as being in a loving relationship.

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Supreme trick babble right here :mjlol:
That's because you think surface level. I'm not even advocating tricking. And you value money over your time.

Which tells me 2 things. How old you are and how you spend your time.

If you texting/calling women...dating...to eventually smash supposedly for free. How much time and money has that cost you?

It takes away from you working or running your business which costs money AND time. Time you can never get back.

But hey you smashed for free right?
Atleast I'm your mind you did.
 

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Does a prostitute look out for you, cook for you, nurture you because she loves you?

Y'all are absolutely crazy if you think your 2 seconds of "passion" with a prostitute is the same as being in a loving relationship.

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I know what youre saying...
but what im talking about are regular ass women that work jobs.

not talking about pro's

some of these women catch feelings/attachment and just want to hang out

its hard to explain on a forum unless you know what im talking about.

with that said...
the type of man thats going that route isnt looking for a super square relationship.

thing is...
if youre a man that has money all of your relationships end up like that...
even with family

so it is what it is
 

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How do nikkas have sex with women without mutual desire/attraction?
By seeing them as talking sex dolls.

See the thread with nggas talking about how they think it's normal to get a woman so drunk she's barely active in bed while you've got a good buzz going but aren't as faded as them.

If women's value to you in your life is "something to nut on/in" then all of this makes perfect sense to you.

If women's value in your life is for someone to understand who will then show mutual understanding to you, then you find this kind of behavior bizarre and fukked up. The way some people here talk about women, you can imagine them talking about your daughter, mother or sister that way and it makes you angry(as it should).

I think if a man just wants sex he shouldn't be shamed or made fun of for paying a sex worker to do the shyt he wants instead of lying to a woman about wanting a relationship when really he's just trying to nut and go. It's psychopath shyt and hurts both you and the woman to keep lying about what you want. It's not normal and a lot of women out there are cool with something casual if you tell them that's what you want from the jump and that you'll dip if either of you start feeling different.

Marriage and relationships are seen as inconvenient by men whose only goal with these women is to use them for sex and to tell them what to do all the time. Relationships become a means to an end, and something he had to 'tolerate' so he can get his nut.

If your goal is to have someone in your life who is similar to you that you want to take care of and who will give you back that same energy, then your criteria goes beyond "look good and tell me I'm always right"
 

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I just can't live the "trick" life. :hubie:

I'm biased because I'm engaged but, even before my current relationship, I preferred raw desire or compatibility over transactional relationships. It feels better to actually be desired for your attributes than to pay women to f*ck you.
 

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I just can't live the "trick" life. :hubie:

I'm biased because I'm engaged but, even before my current relationship, I preferred raw desire or compatibility over transactional relationships. It feels better to actually be desired for your attributes than to pay women to f*ck you.
That assumes they want to be desired for attributes. Clearly it’s a physical means to an end :manny:
 
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