How do nikkas have sex with women without mutual desire/attraction?
By seeing them as talking sex dolls.
See the thread with nggas talking about how they think it's normal to get a woman so drunk she's barely active in bed while you've got a good buzz going but aren't as faded as them.
If women's value to you in your life is "something to nut on/in" then all of this makes perfect sense to you.
If women's value in your life is for someone to understand who will then show mutual understanding to you, then you find this kind of behavior bizarre and fukked up. The way some people here talk about women, you can imagine them talking about your daughter, mother or sister that way and it makes you angry(as it should).
I think if a man just wants sex he shouldn't be shamed or made fun of for paying a sex worker to do the shyt he wants instead of lying to a woman about wanting a relationship when really he's just trying to nut and go. It's psychopath shyt and hurts both you and the woman to keep lying about what you want. It's not normal and a lot of women out there are cool with something casual if you tell them that's what you want from the jump and that you'll dip if either of you start feeling different.
Marriage and relationships are seen as inconvenient by men whose only goal with these women is to use them for sex and to tell them what to do all the time. Relationships become a means to an end, and something he had to 'tolerate' so he can get his nut.
If your goal is to have someone in your life who is similar to you that you want to take care of and who will give you back that same energy, then your criteria goes beyond "look good and tell me I'm always right"