Former NBA star Gilbert Arenas says why date women when you can spend $250 dollars and get right to it.

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So you're saying if you didn't have a wife, you'd be alone?

But I'm actually happy you're saying this cause I know this is a man's real motivation for having girlfriends and wives.

Scarcity mindset.
If I could assure a man he'd never be alone. He'd always have access to sex.
Then He'd never get married.
Attaching yourself to a woman isn't important.... it's just The fear of not having a woman/sex is too great for men

My only counter against this is if you intend to raise a family attaching yourself to one woman is the way to go…outside of that I agree 100%

Most guys don’t have this mindset though…afraid to be alone ass ninjas
 

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So you're saying if you didn't have a wife, you'd be alone?

But I'm actually happy you're saying this cause I know this is a man's real motivation for having girlfriends and wives.

Scarcity mindset.
If I could assure a man he'd never be alone. He'd always have access to sex.
Then He'd never get married.
Attaching yourself to a woman isn't important.... it's just The fear of not having a woman/sex is too great for men
No I just believe a woman should be a helper to a man. Man not here to be alone. If you a man on your purpose making good money living well you need a woman to level you out. If I put in 12 hours working I don’t wanna have to come home cook, clean, and raise the kids that’s a woman’s job. A man is a protector and provider he gotta go get it he needs a wife to hold it down.
 

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No I just believe a woman should be a helper to a man. Man not here to be alone. If you a man on your purpose making good money living well you need a woman to level you out. If I put in 12 hours working I don’t wanna have to come home cook, clean, and raise the kids that’s a woman’s job. A man is a protector and provider he gotta go get it he needs a wife to hold it down.
What the wife cooking tonight?
 

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My only counter against this is if you intend to raise a family attaching yourself to one woman is the way to go…outside of that I agree 100%

Most guys don’t have this mindset though…afraid to be alone ass ninjas
Yes... If you see value in making more people (having kids). Then it is more likely to raise better human beings in a 2 parent household
 

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My only counter against this is if you intend to raise a family attaching yourself to one woman is the way to go…outside of that I agree 100%

Most guys don’t have this mindset though…afraid to be alone ass ninjas
Lol, nothing wrong with being 60 and having somebody that knows the signs of a stroke

I've seen the alone nikka growing old...it ain't pretty.
 

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No I just believe a woman should be a helper to a man. Man not here to be alone. If you a man on your purpose making good money living well you need a woman to level you out. If I put in 12 hours working I don’t wanna have to come home cook, clean, and raise the kids that’s a woman’s job. A man is a protector and provider he gotta go get it he needs a wife to hold it down.
The bolded is the problem.
If you need a women to level you out.
Or keep you from fukking bytches.
Or help you become a better man etc.

Then you are NOT by my definition a real man.
Those traits are something that needs to be dealt with before a real man even thinks about attaching himself to a woman.

And I guarantee if he does that.... He is going to look at being married wayyy different.
He won't see a reason for it
 

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Lol, nothing wrong with being 60 and having somebody that knows the signs of a stroke

I've seen the alone nikka growing old...it ain't pretty.

I can understand this perspective, personally I just believe when it’s my time it’s my time and I’m not really concerned about having someone with me for the “hard times” :manny:

In fact, it motivates me more to stay in shape, watch my health, and plan for the future. No one is guaranteed to be by your side when that time comes
 

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The bolded is the problem.
If you need a women to level you out.
Or keep you from fukking bytches.
Or help you become a better man etc.

Then you are NOT by my definition a real man.
Those traits are something that needs to be dealt with before a real man even thinks about attaching himself to a woman.

And I guarantee if he does that.... He is going to look at being married wayyy different.
He won't see a reason for it
Well when I say level you out I mean you need a woman is who traditional in values and know her role.
 
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