My question was in very good faith. You seem like a good dude overall. And yes it’s strange that you follow Black American women in media but have such a scornful and negative opinion that seems mainly based on social media and not day to day interactions. Breh, I didn’t even finish watching Harlem.The arguement is in bad faith but I'll answer it. I had a Girlffriend that I had to soft bush she's Black.
there's a Coli Breh on here that seen her.
I'll even give the reason for the bushing she rage quit her job because they gave her an assignment that she didn't want to do. And the problem with that is she was trying to buy a house, get her masters, Go work in america, and get a Tourist Visa so she could work a little longer illegally. She also wanted to cop shoes and bullshyt. I could check her but she has a different view of money than me, So I realized in the long run if she fukks up I'd have to step in an provide.
One other thing she did was she was a little too comfortable around my wierd ass friends The Tinder swiper tried to make a run at her and I looked at her wierd because I told her the dude was wierd. It's a long ass story and if you gave a fukk I'd tell you but again no matter whether I deal with Black girls you'd use the fact that I'm over here as an excuse that I never can say anything about FBA women (even though I'll be back in the states later this year for several months). But again it's never the same energy for even successful swirlers. Nobody tells Melody Hobson she can't say nothing.
I'll even keep it more of a buck with the marriage laws until I know them throughly I'm not getting married overseas or in the states. Georgia says that even if your wife bushes you if she gets pregnant the child is considered the husbands until the Divorce is finalized.
I plan to have a family but again the laws are somewhat weird in the DR if you yell at a woman three times you're going to jail. If a woman lives with you for 3 months you can't kick her out.
If i were to get married it'd likely be to a Haitian woman with something going on for herself because Haitians to the 3rd generation low key don't have the same rights as a Dominican so if she kicks me out of my house or tries to send me to jail we can see if she might get deported herself.
You Got to Protect yourself at all times.
I say all this to say that it sounds like you have the same type of gender issues that you would have here which are compounded by cultural issues. It’s not too late to come on home. I see a nice Southern Black woman as your future wife. You’ll be surprised that a lot of this internet stuff is a non factor in day to day living. American women are also more likely to be gainfully employed.