fellas would yall let your wife go out on a dinner with co-worker

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Seriously, you dudes sound insecure as fukk. If she gonna fukk the nikka , she gonan fukk him. Putting all these dumb rules in place ain't going to curtail none of it. You keep bringing up respect, but how is her having males friends that she makes you aware of disrespectful?

Its true, if shes gonna fukk him shes gonna fukk him

But at the same time, theres a diff between her doing it behind your back, and her essentially doing it with your blessing

You cant stop people from doing what theyre gonna do, but at the same time in a situation like this I dont think its smart to not be asking questions + looking at things critically

Really if she feels thats even appropriate I think there are issues, if she is going to private dinners w/other dudes alone its probably already too late. It would be clear at that point she has zero respect for you

 

[Earnings]

Yea I definitely feel what yall sayin and its true... U cant control shyt a woman do... But as a man/playa/boss what u CAN control and the only thing that matters, is how u react. Period.

 

[Earnings]

Cosign/allow some disrespectful shyt, or check her and straighten some shyt out.

 

[villain]

not really the jealous type, wouldn't care

nikkas like this is ones gettin played like fiddles...

where does it end?

if shorty says she gon spend the night with a male friend to work on a big project, you gon let her?

if shorty says she's goin to the club with an old male friend and might be home late, you cool with that?

for a nikka to cosign his woman spending an evening with another man ALONE, he has to have no backbone or just be a naive ass nikka who think his girl will never fool around

 

[Banned Account12]

yu might as well trick off and buy the nikka sum condoms and a little weed cuz yu kno he finna try and put dikk all in ya wife throat and spinal cord

 

[Peruvian Connect]

That's like walmart deciding not to invest in cameras and have security procedures because employees and customers are going to steal anyways. You get caught stealing, you get the cops called on you or you get your butt fired. You are still going to have people that slip through the cracks of those procedures, but that doesn't mean you tolerate out of line behavior. If the woman decides to slang that funky thang on some other man, that's what she decided to do. If I get wind of it, she's getting booted. If she manages to sneak it past me, ain't nothing I can do about it, but I SURE ain't going to give her a pass to do so or engage in behavior right in front of my face that leads up to cheating.

This is illogical. Walmart was thousands of employees and millions of dollars worth of merchandise. You have one wife. She's gonna cheat or she won't. Nothing is going to stop it if she chooses to do so.

Nobody allows their woman to cheat, but no one with any sense is gonna sress themselves over something they have no control over.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

Its true, if shes gonna fukk him shes gonna fukk him

But at the same time, theres a diff between her doing it behind your back, and her essentially doing it with your blessing

You cant stop people from doing what theyre gonna do, but at the same time in a situation like this I dont think its smart to not be asking questions + looking at things critically

Really if she feels thats even appropriate I think there are issues, if she is going to private dinners w/other dudes alone its probably already too late. It would be clear at that point she has zero respect for you

There is no difference. Cheating is cheating. And if I gave her my blessing, it's not cheating.

Asking questions gets you what? If she's a liar, she's gonna lie. Is it gonna make you feel better when you find out she fukked him in teh conference room, instead of if the parking lot of the Steakhouse?

 

[brick james]

nikkas like this is ones gettin played like fiddles...

where does it end?

if shorty says she gon spend the night with a male friend to work on a big project, you gon let her?

if shorty says she's goin to the club with an old male friend and might be home late, you cool with that?

for a nikka to cosign his woman spending an evening with another man ALONE, he has to have no backbone or just be a naive ass nikka who think his girl will never fool around

You niccas

Let your bytch breathe, thats why your girl getting dicced down by niccas behind your back. i let my b1tch do what she want and if i dont like it ill change the locks and pawn her shyt off you sensitive ass niccas.

you guys in here really care about these ladies on some please dont leave me type shyt... if your b1tch wants to sleep at another nicca crib or go to the club with another nicca then you let that b1tch go and use that time to change your locks

 

[SuburbanPimp]

Hell nah...

I'm not trying to be that cool ass husband

 

[Lil Wango]

If yo bytch wanna cheat, she gone cheat. U can't watch her 24/7. But u best believe if i caught my wife cheating she gonna be eating nothin but liquids for a month

 

[Piff Perkins]

I can't believe nikkas are using the "if you can't trust your wife" shyt.

Ask yourself..."why is she going on a dinner date without you?"

"Why would she want to spend time with another nikka without you?"

Her coworker KNOWS she's married, yet he's crossing that line? And she's ALLOWING it?

If you don't explain to your girl (before you seriously wife her down) that no other nikka will be allowed to get as close as you do, then you're a fukkin simp.

Having a male co-worker / friend is fine....AT WORK. That shyt doesn't fly when she's off. Unless this nikka plans on inviting his wife, and my girl inviting me.

So to sum this up, it's not about the potential fukkin. They could just sneak that shyt, really. It's about disrespecting me to my face. I don't spend time with other women outside of work, you can't either. Point blank.

If she feels like that's too harsh, then fukk her. Like I said, making this point CLEAR before you get serious will save you a lot of time and energy in the future.

I disagree but I see where you coming from, my man. A woman can have platonic male friends just as I can have platonic female friends. Last time I was in a relationship my chick was fine with me doing things with my best friend, who happens to be female; we've known each other for more than a decade. And I was cool with her hanging with her old high school male buddies or whatever

If I'm in a relationship, I don't feel I have anything to worry about - or at least I shouldn't have anything to worry about. That ain't simping, it's knowing when you got a chick you got a chick.

 

[Nintendough]

nikkas like this is ones gettin played like fiddles...

where does it end?

if shorty says she gon spend the night with a male friend to work on a big project, you gon let her?

if shorty says she's goin to the club with an old male friend and might be home late, you cool with that?

for a nikka to cosign his woman spending an evening with another man ALONE, he has to have no backbone or just be a naive ass nikka who think his girl will never fool around

Some of these guys take the approach way too far. I don't think anybody should be acting like a warden but some ground rules have to kept. I don't have a problem with my lady going out but I require some details to make sure my time investment isn't a waste.

 

[Wallie]

 

[TEKBEATZ]

Hell nah...

I'm not trying to be that cool ass husband

What about an hour lunch

 

[twan83]

even though they knew each other for 15yrs

15 yrs they knew each and i ain't got a problem with it for the simple fact i already know that person cuz she would of had introduced me to them in advance regardless of the situation. I trust my wife so i ain't sweating it. dont see y she cant have a male friend she knew long before she knew me. If i had my doubts bout the guy i would let it be known i can tell you that.

My wife can go out have fun with her friends whenever she likes but when its a close friend I always want to meet them. Once i do that im cool. Cuz her close friends tend to come over to our place

Now if she wanna do something stupid thats her business and she gonna be wondering y she lost a good thing cuz of something stupid

I dont have the time or patience to be stressing bout what if she does this or that. I got my kids as my priority and her doing stupid things isnt