fellas would yall let your wife go out on a dinner with co-worker

[kevm3]

I don't really see it as having anything to do with jealousy. It's more an issue of respect... her respecting you and the relationship you are in.

I'm not going to paly this what if game on some well what if she just honestly wants to get dinner. Reality is if she's going to dinner with another man, she's been scouting that negro out and she's giving him an open door. What next, can she spend a night at his crib to get some work done? How many different negroes can she go to dinner with? Females that respect the man they are with are going to respect him telling her butt no, or even better yet, never bring up the nonsense in the first place.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

Yeah. You can't stop somebody from cheating on you, so if thats your concern your relationship is already doomed.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

I don't really see it as having anything to do with jealousy. It's more an issue of respect... her respecting you and the relationship you are in.

I'm not going to paly this what if game on some well what if she just honestly wants to get dinner. Reality is if she's going to dinner with another man, she's been scouting that negro out and she's giving him an open door. What next, can she spend a night at his crib to get some work done? How many different negroes can she go to dinner with? Females that respect the man they are with are going to respect him telling her butt no, or even better yet, never bring up the nonsense in the first place.

And she can fukk him in the parking garage. fukk him on her way home when she stopped at the store. fukk him on her lunch break.

 

[msims]

And she can fukk him in the parking garage. fukk him on her way home when she stopped at the store. fukk him on her lunch break.

If she hid it, oh well. People cheat. She was a coward about it, you can't help that.

But I'll be DAMNED if anyone disrespects me to my face, ESPECIALLY my wife.

Honestly, the way I feel about it...if she ASKED me (like she WANTED to go) i'd feel disrespected.

She should know that, that shyt is WRONG.

When you are married, you don't do dinner DATES with other men without bringing YOUR MAN along.

You simps must love it when your girl spends the night over her "best friends" house for the night. You know the one she calls the "male version of herself". They only cuddled, tho. No big deal.

fukk is wrong with ya'll.

Man up.

Alpha male or BUST.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

If she hid it, oh well. People cheat. She was a coward about it, you can't help that.

But I'll be DAMNED if anyone disrespects me to my face, ESPECIALLY my wife.

Honestly, the way I feel about it...if she ASKED me (like she WANTED to go) i'd feel disrespected.

She should know that, that shyt is WRONG.

When you are married, you don't do dinner DATES with other men without bringing YOUR MAN along.

You simps must love it when your girl spends the night over her "best friends" house for the night. You know the one she calls the "male version of herself". They only cuddled. No big deal.

fukk is wrong with ya'll.

Man up.

Alpha male or BUST.

Get the fukk out of here. Cheating is cheating. Going out to dinner with a friend/co-worker or whatever is cool with me.

You just a insecure fukk nikka. No No, babe, you can't have no friends. Why that nikka lookin at you? Who that nikka why he smilin at you. Straight bytchassness.

 

[kevm3]

Exactly. The woman is going to do whatever she does with her vagina. If she chooses to be loyal, excellent. If she is sneaky and gets caught, she gets cut. The major issue is just respect in general. Ya'll going to let her bring a male coworker to your house too to hang out because she can slang that vagina wherever, so might as well?

 

[msims]

Get the fukk out of here. Cheating is cheating. Going out to dinner with a friend/co-worker or whatever is cool with me.

You just a insecure fukk nikka. No No, babe, you can't have no friends. Why that nikka lookin at you? Who that nikka why he smilin at you. Straight bytchassness.

You be hangin out with her male best friend, don't you? You be dappin that nikka when you see him in the mall, don't you?

You the type to be "ok" with ya wife coming home EVERY NIGHT at 4am. I mean, it's no big deal. You already fed and put the kids to bed. She gotta have a social life too, right?

Simp ass.

I'm not talkin about cheating. If she wanted to cheat, she could always hide it from me. I'm not gonna check up on her. shyt happens. But asking for permission to chill with another man when she see's this nikka everyday at work? And we married? fukk outta here. Shorty betta not ever disrespect me like that.

I'll slap that ho.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

Exactly. The woman is going to do whatever she does with her vagina. If she chooses to be loyal, excellent. If she is sneaky and gets caught, she gets cut. The major issue is just respect in general. Ya'll going to let her bring a male coworker to your house too to hang out because she can slang that vagina wherever, so might as well?

Seriously, you dudes sound insecure as fukk. If she gonna fukk the nikka , she gonan fukk him. Putting all these dumb rules in place ain't going to curtail none of it. You keep bringing up respect, but how is her having males friends that she makes you aware of disrespectful?

 

[msims]

Seriously, you dudes sound insecure as fukk. If she gonna fukk the nikka , she gonan fukk him. Putting all these dumb rules in place ain't going to curtail none of it. You keep bringing up respect, but how is her having males friends that she makes you aware of disrespectful?

It's not having the male friend. That's not the problem. It's spending too much time with a male friend.

Why aren't you (her husband) her best friend?

Why does she feel the need to want to hangout (off the clock) with a nikka she sees everyday at work?

She wants to get to know him better?

Why would she wanna do that, tho?

She asked you and you said "yes"?

You're ok with this?

Will you be "allowed" to have dinner with a woman co-worker after work?

 

[Peruvian Connect]

You be hangin out with her male best friend, don't you? You be dappin that nikka when you see him in the mall, don't you?

You the type to be "ok" with ya wife coming home EVERY NIGHT at 4am. I mean, it's no big deal. You already fed and put the kids to bed. She gotta have a social life too, right?

Simp ass.

I'm not talkin about cheating. If she wanted to cheat, she could always hide it from me. I'm not gonna check up on her. shyt happens. But asking for permission to chill with another man when she see's this nikka everyday at work? And we married? fukk outta here. Shorty betta not ever disrespect me like that.

I'll slap that ho.

If I'm hangin with dude, thats less time for him to be fukking my wife. While yoou worried about her friends, she might be banging YOUR friend.

Ain't no woman got no business being out pass 12.

Insecure fakkit. She she knows your estrogen levels are higher than hers, she won't ask your permission she'll do it and him all behind your back, so what exactly did you and your "machsimo" accomplish? Nothing.

"Yeah, yeah, she cheated on me, but I didn't allow that shiit," "i'm a real man". fukk outtahere."

 

[msims]

Ain't no woman got no business being out pass 12.

And when she does stay out pass 12 every night?

Then what?

You gonna be cool with it?

She just out there with her friend. You're such an insecure fakkit for wanting to know where she's at this late at night. Let her live her life. Learn to trust her.

You've got to draw the line somewhere.

I guess every man is different when it comes to drawing that line.

We obviously have two different views on how a marriage should work.

No amount of arguing will change that.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

And when she does stay out pass 12 every night?

She just out there with her friends. You're such an insecure fakkit for wanting to know where she's at this late at night. Let her live her life. Learn to trust her.

You've got to draw the line somewhere.

I guess every man is different when it comes to drawing that line.

We obviously have two different views on how a marriage should work.

No amount of arguing will change that.

SHe got one time to stay out pass 12. And She getting kicked the fukked out. It's plenty of time for her to do her dirt between 8am and 12am.

 

[kevm3]

That's like walmart deciding not to invest in cameras and have security procedures because employees and customers are going to steal anyways. You get caught stealing, you get the cops called on you or you get your butt fired. You are still going to have people that slip through the cracks of those procedures, but that doesn't mean you tolerate out of line behavior. If the woman decides to slang that funky thang on some other man, that's what she decided to do. If I get wind of it, she's getting booted. If she manages to sneak it past me, ain't nothing I can do about it, but I SURE ain't going to give her a pass to do so or engage in behavior right in front of my face that leads up to cheating.

 

[Earnings]

Yall my brehs but its alotta real live simps,cornballs, and nikkas that never held no weight in they relationship. Yall non chalent, gameless responses speak volumes.

 

[TRUEST]

Right... But if u bossin up whatever u say go... Period. Its 2 kinds of nikkas: nikkas that run they house, and nikkas that run around it. Pick 1

nah. a lot of you n1ggas tend to overlook the obvious. a man who is emotionally invested in a relationship really has no power. yall fellas in here can huff and puff about "ooo if u a boss, whatever u say goes," but thats not reality.

what happens if u lay down the law on her and yall get into a huge fight? an emotionally invested man (i.e. simp) will eventually back down for fear of losing her. (this is assuming of course that youre in a relationship with a girl u actually really really like)

but when a man who isn't emotionally invested in a relationship lays down the law, he can do so with righteous indignant fury, one that can never be challenged, and if challenged, he's ready for the consequences, whatever they may be.

yall n1ggas should think back to the prettiest, sexiest and classiest women u ever been with, yes, the one that broke up with you. imagine u came across another chick like that again, and shes going on dates with her coworkers, if u confront her and she says "if u cant trust me, or if u dont like what i'm doing, then we dont need to be together", what u gon do?

the simp will try to reason with her. tell her it doesn't make him comfortable. the simp will cave in the moment she raises the "insecure" angle. but the man who knows women and who knows them well and who isn't emotionally invested in her will give her a sharp ultimatum, one that will make her bones tremble, and her voice quiver.