I can't believe nikkas are using the "if you can't trust your wife" shyt.
Ask yourself..."why is she going on a dinner date without you?"
"Why would she want to spend time with another nikka without you?"
Her coworker KNOWS she's married, yet he's crossing that line? And she's ALLOWING it?
If you don't explain to your girl (before you seriously wife her down) that no other nikka will be allowed to get as close as you do, then you're a fukkin simp.
Having a male co-worker / friend is fine....AT WORK. That shyt doesn't fly when she's off. Unless this nikka plans on inviting his wife, and my girl inviting me.
So to sum this up, it's not about the potential fukkin. They could just sneak that shyt, really. It's about disrespecting me to my face. I don't spend time with other women outside of work, you can't either. Point blank.
If she feels like that's too harsh, then fukk her. Like I said, making this point CLEAR before you get serious will save you a lot of time and energy in the future.