Fellas, could you forgive your wife if she did this?

[Ronnie Lott]

Technically he did the right thing. You take those marriage vows = you stick with your wife through thick and thin, no matter what. Another reason why marriage is bullshyt.

I can't fault the man for standing by his principles, despite the fact that he wifed a whore. It's honorable, he seems to be one of the few Christians who practices what he preaches.

How the fucc did he do the right thing. That bytch betrayed him ,disrespected him, cheated on him, put her marriage & family in jeaopardy, was gettin her back blown out by some 18 year old cat, gettin piped down raw, gets pregnant and u mean to tell me the husband did the right thing by takin her punk azz back? Wtf is wrong with some of y'all nyggaz?

 

[Ronnie Lott]

yall need to watch the entire video to understand why dude stayed and held the kid down as his own. like i said earlier, what i suspected happened. the husband was missing the boat when it came to his wife. and it wasnt about the physical. the wife shut down mentally because the husband would be quick to put her down if she made a mistake. basically the kind of relationship they got married on (openness, honesty) was all gone all of a sudden. so the wife felt lonely WITHIN the marriage. it happens bruhs. that loneless is a devil's workshop. thats where the adopted kid stepped in filled that void.

remember the void was placed there by both the husband being quick to be negative with his wife and the wife for not being honest with the husband about her feeling a new void in their relationship because of his negativity. this is why the husband had to swallow that pill.

man up.

Stop makin excuses for females actin like whores! U sound worse that the broad justifyin and rationalizing her cheating

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

I don't understand this, if he's a church going man and respects god, why would get a vasectomy? Is that sort of like a sin almost?

 

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

If he's so forgiving where's the adopted son?

His whole marriage is a farce...he more than likely secretly resents his wife and that child

 

[rapbeats]

Stop makin excuses for females actin like whores! U sound worse that the broad justifyin and rationalizing her cheating

there are REASONS people cheat. beyond "they just did"

there is no such thing "it just happened"

cheating is a product of something else. always is. and its more to it then "well i just wanted a new piece of ..."
..young piece, etc.

it goes deeper then that.

 

[NVME]

 

[kevm3]

There ARE reasons for her cheating, but none of them are justifiable. Imagine the script being reversed and him talking about, "Well I'm sorry dear, you weren't never around, so I had to find relief SOMEWHERE and I did so with our adopted daughter. My bad on getting her pregnant. Will you help me raise the kid and be a mother to the kid?" Does anyone think a woman would really go for that? That negro would be in PRISON.

The crazy thing about it is when pregnancy comes up, the guy that did it ain't just hitting that thing one time. Lil Rudebwoi was in that thang every day while husband was away. The kid was probably doing all that crazy stuff them jamaicans do to that virginia... backflipping off a counter and wheelbarrowing her around the room. Mane it's sick to even think of how a conversation would go for your adopted mother to even bring something like that up to you.

 

[Malik]

There ARE reasons for her cheating, but none of them are justifiable. Imagine the script being reversed and him talking about, "Well I'm sorry dear, you weren't never around, so I had to find relief SOMEWHERE and I did so with our adopted daughter. My bad on getting her pregnant. Will you help me raise the kid and be a mother to the kid?" Does anyone think a woman would really go for that? That negro would be in PRISON.

The crazy thing about it is when pregnancy comes up, the guy that did it ain't just hitting that thing one time. Lil Rudebwoi was in that thang every day while husband was away. The kid was probably doing all that crazy stuff them jamaicans do to that virginia... backflipping off a counter and wheelbarrowing her around the room. Mane it's sick to even think of how a conversation would go for your adopted mother to even bring something like that up to you.

People avoiding this like an AIDS test. Wouldn't be any kind of understanding from any woman if a man was in that situation. She'd divorce your ass and you'd be in jail.

 

[kevm3]

People avoiding this like an AIDS test. Wouldn't be any kind of understanding from any woman if a man was in that situation. She'd divorce your ass and you'd be in jail.

Man if you turn yourself into the man women claim they want or like, you'll be a big ol SUCKER.... You'll be rolling around with Victim tattooed on ya arm. Women in here were talking about he was strong for sticking around, but what do you think if the situation was reversed in this story and it was the dad impregnating the daughter? They'd be calling him sick, a creep, saying he deserved to go to jail for life and would be calling her all kinds of stupids and idiots because she decided to stick around and raise the kid.

The sad thing about this situation is that since he decided to be daddy is that for the next 18 years, he will be responsible for this kid that isn't his, even if they divorce. Since he's going to be the assumed parent, even if they divorce and they go their own ways, he's going to have another 18 years of child support to pay to raise another man's kid.

 

[Born2BKing]

I see nothing wrong with this. He forgave her and moved on. Quite a few women have accepted outside children. It's time men step up to the plate

 

[rapbeats]

People avoiding this like an AIDS test. Wouldn't be any kind of understanding from any woman if a man was in that situation. She'd divorce your ass and you'd be in jail.

i agree a woman would have any understanding if the roles were reversed. but that doesnt change the facts. there never is an excuse for cheating..PERIOD. if you want to cheat that bad, LEAVE. then have all the sex you want outside of marriage. thats between you and God. leave your spouse out of it.

but with that said. if a dude would've done his wife dirty. from a biblical perspective, his christian wife could have still decided to forgive him for real and keep the kid and stay with him. assuming the husband was very humble in his apology and was making every effort to right the wrong. while also being as open as possible. again marriage is a reflection of God's love/treatment of the church. God is the husband the church is the wife. the church= you and I. sinners. if we sin everyday all day long. we cheat on God everyday all day long. yet if we come to him in humility and ask for forgiveness and attempt to change things for the better. he will forgive us. this is why even though technically he allows for divorce. he doesnt see why you HAVE to divorce.

most people can't understand this concept. because people get hurt and never forgive. but they also dont realize how forgiving God is. nor do they realize how sinning makes God feel. they dont realize that ssame sinning makes God feel like you felt when you got cheated on. but multiply that by every single sin you commit. think about that for a moment.

so again, if you think God should forgive you, and let you into to his house(heaven). why on earth would you not forgive someone else who is truly repentant?

whats good for the goose....

the real reason people are not willing to forgive people is because they are afraid to be hurt again. whether its by that person or anyone else in the future. what they dont understand is, the next person they are with can just as easily decide to cheat on them just like the last one. nothing you personally can do, will stop you from being cheated on. unless you are willing to cheat yourself out of LOVE. therefore you choose to not mess with anyone ever again.

 

[Northern Son]

Why didn't they forgive the homeless youth? Wasn't he their adopted son?

 

[KravenMorehead™]

This whole time I thought it was a black preacher and wife, then I saw the vid

diff culture, diff behavior

*walks out*

 

[The Burger King]

:thumbyfoh: to suckers in here saying "I respect his decision, since he's a man of God". No where in the Bible does it say to take back an adulterer.

I also bet that marriage counselor was fukking her too. I had a neighbor, his wife cheated, and instead of dumping her, they went to marriage counseling. Later he found out that the marriage counselor was smashing his wife too. Marriage counselors can be some of the largest predators, because they KNOW the issues in the relationship, and can take advantage of them.

 

[RiffRaff]

Like I've said previously if you're woman has the balls to announce she was cheating to you, you already lost. You can't contol what another person does ultimately, but me personally I'd like to put that fear of god in them that if they ever slipped up and I found out they know it's over, no ifs and buts about it. I swear telling your wife this from the jump and she knows you mean it would prevent a lot of affairs.