that b!tch gets cut off....
Fellas, could you forgive your wife if she did this?
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MadameMoreaux
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the more you've invested into the relationship, the harder it is to let it go.
He was 17 years in, with 3 children. If anything, he stayed for his children and NOT for his adulterous wife.
At this point in my marriage, if my husband cheated and produced a child I would leave. We haven't hit 10 yrs yet and we don't have kids.
That kind of betrayal is just ridiculous though. Not only was she cheating, but she wasn't using protection therefore exposing her husband to whatever STDs the other man had. Thats what really bothers me most. At least have enough respect for him to consider his health. smh. I don't understand how you can dedicate your life to God everyday, but still manage to fall to victim to the most monstrous act a wife can commit. This just proves she was a fraud in her ministry. She might've been reading scriptures everyday but her comprehension of them was minimal.
Her nonchalant attitude is disturbing as well. No remorse whatsoever. Disgusting
He was 17 years in, with 3 children. If anything, he stayed for his children and NOT for his adulterous wife.
At this point in my marriage, if my husband cheated and produced a child I would leave. We haven't hit 10 yrs yet and we don't have kids.
That kind of betrayal is just ridiculous though. Not only was she cheating, but she wasn't using protection therefore exposing her husband to whatever STDs the other man had. Thats what really bothers me most. At least have enough respect for him to consider his health. smh. I don't understand how you can dedicate your life to God everyday, but still manage to fall to victim to the most monstrous act a wife can commit. This just proves she was a fraud in her ministry. She might've been reading scriptures everyday but her comprehension of them was minimal.
Her nonchalant attitude is disturbing as well. No remorse whatsoever. Disgusting
but check it. why wasnt she using protection? this could actually help her cause.
why would you not wear protection if you're cheating on your husband?
#1 you have never cheated in your LIFE. you dont know the rules of engagement. you literally just slipped up into this thing and it has spiraled out of control. you dont pause to hit the 7-11 for a pack of magnums. that would be an adulterous somamaaa....b...
think about it. if someone tells you "i dont know what happened, i just messed up, i'm sorry." and it never happened before. EVER. and you know he/she aint lying. if they are running to the store to get condoms you know darn well it wasnt a slip. the time it takes to get to the store. its more then enough time to think to self "dont do it."
if you do it anyway. you dont care.
remember that chick was with dude she was married to since she was a Teen. they probably only had sex with one another. probably never used protection. she probably knows less about it then her two oldest kids. lol. thats just real talk.
You can forgive and move on... You can sit around and allow your anger subside but also decide to have nothing to do with her. For one, cheaters don't usually just cheat once. If they are allowed to stay, they usually end up doing it again. Second, that should raise some real red flags in his mind about her. If she's willing to sleep with an adopted son, you wonder what else she's been doing.
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I dont know shorty..being deeply invested in a realtionship is not determined by the years u put in or the number of kids u have.
A lot people in marriages choose to settle.U could be 10 years deep,4 kids and not giving a single fukk bout your spouse or the kids.
I could be 2 years deep,no kids and more than willing to do anything for my wife no matter what.Put her through school,wait by her side while she is battling cancer etc
People dont really change.If all it took was attention from another man for her ass to cheat,she is going to do it again.
Also this was HER SON[yes adopted but still] she cheated with...who does that?
Doobie Doo
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Geez all these nikkaz in here defending this story. Bottom line dude is a simp and sucker. His wife is a hoe and he lost for staying in the situation and raising a b*stard child he knows ain't his. You unhappy in a relationship leave or work it out you don't throw a nikka under the bus and cheat. And like someone said earlier this woman painted herself as a victim to defend her hoish ways and showed little to know real sympathy or emotion. fukk that bytch, fukk that dude, fukk their ideology, fukk the concept of marriage and fukk Christianity.
On a side note Christianity was purposely taught to blacks as a means for us to be docile and easier to control. All this bullshyt about forgiveness, so when people break in your home forcibly take your shyt. Rape your wife and daughter, kill your male family members and we are supposed to turn the other cheek and forgive and live in peace and harmony and hold hands, smile and have coke together right? You know why the USA has so many problems with the Middle East? Cuz them Muslims don't play that shyt they play an eye for an eye and the US ain't use to that.
On a side note Christianity was purposely taught to blacks as a means for us to be docile and easier to control. All this bullshyt about forgiveness, so when people break in your home forcibly take your shyt. Rape your wife and daughter, kill your male family members and we are supposed to turn the other cheek and forgive and live in peace and harmony and hold hands, smile and have coke together right? You know why the USA has so many problems with the Middle East? Cuz them Muslims don't play that shyt they play an eye for an eye and the US ain't use to that.
i was in an affair with a married before, she probably just didn't think she wont get pregnant or were sloppy with her contraceptives, we never used a condom once, i think you are overthinking this
i have patients come to the clinic all the time with affairs that they never wear condoms for (people are generally terrible at wearing condoms really)
I'll agree that he's simping, but I'm going to disagree about Christianity. There's nothing in Christianity saying you need to stay with an adulterer. They were about to stone that adulterer in the Bible, but Jesus stopped them from stoning her. He then told her don't do it again lest something worse happen to you. Him staying with the woman was a shot this dude made of his own volition.
K.O.D
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way to serious shyt unbearable shyt fukk the world and everbody that's in it shyt something ain't right about that stupid guy religious pig
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.Dusty Bake Activate
Fukk your corny debates
There's nothing in the Bible that says you need to leave her either. The Bible does say you should forgive sinners though, so technically if the hoe was legitimately contrite about what she did, the Christian thing to do would be to forgive her and move on. (I personally would've thrown her in the bushes, but thankfully I'm not a Christian).
So what happened to the adopted son?