Fellas, could you forgive your wife if she did this?

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go back up there and read it again. jesus told them dudes , whoever was without sin throw the first stone.

now how is her husband without sin? we all sin daily. we know he is just like we are. so obviously he aint without sin. the man admitted "me and my wife havent prayed together in a very long time". that was after all hell broke loose. how are you a ministry leader, preacher, pastor with your preacher pastor wife. and yall dont pray together for that long? i'm just saying. thats a sin right there.

so how is dude going to "cast the first stone"

ok, so he doesn't have to stone her. and he might have sinned as everybody does from time to time. but where in the bible does it say that he needs to remain a cuckold and stay with a woman that not only cheated on him, but did so without protection, putting his health at risk and getting pregnant? there is a whole range of things you can do instead of raising you wife's b*stard offspring that leave your dignity intact without going to the extreme of stoning the bytch.
 

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Man he pumped her good

:noah: @ stories where chicks put everything on the line for some dikk... she was ready to throw it all away for a couple ounces of that yardie crude

Snapper wont never be the same. Husband left a smedium and came back to an XXXXXL

And she kept it :damn:

Husband prob joined the Klan the next day
 

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ok, so he doesn't have to stone her. and he might have sinned as everybody does from time to time. but where in the bible does it say that he needs to remain a cuckold and stay with a woman that not only cheated on him, but did so without protection, putting his health at risk and getting pregnant? there is a whole range of things you can do instead of raising you wife's b*stard offspring that leave your dignity intact without going to the extreme of stoning the bytch.

HERE'S what you're missing. you are still trying to SAVE FACE. its PRIDE. what does the bible say about PRIDE?

PROVERBS 29:23
Pride ends in humiliation, while humility brings honor

JOB 33:14- 18

14 For God does speak—now one way, now another—
though man may not perceive it.
15 In a dream, in a vision of the night,
when deep sleep falls on men
as they slumber in their beds,
16 he may speak in their ears
and terrify them with warnings
,
17 to turn man from wrongdoing
and keep him from pride,

18 to preserve his soul from the pit,b
his life from perishing by the sword.
NEVER SAY dignity when referring to a man that will cut ties with his wife. cutting your loses with some friend is one thing, cutting your loses with a stranger is another. but cutting your loses with your wife has absolutely nothing to do with DIGNITY. if you choose or dont choose to divorce her.

again you may not understand what spiritual purpose marriage serves. its not just to procreate and have two people together in life.
its also to show yourself(those in the marriage) as well as people on the outside the love of God/Christ for the church. thats why it says love your wife like christ loves the church. the church is people who believe in jesus/God. if you loved your wife that much. you would be willing to forgive her. because you have received the same forgiveness from God/christ. when people do that. it shows the rest of the world what God does for you everyday. the more people who pull this off, the more people on the outside and inside will be convinced that God is real and so is his power. you are getting a hands on example of FORGIVENESS aka GRACE.

Hosea 3:1
Then the LORD said to me, "Go and love your wife again, even though she commits adultery with another lover. This will illustrate that the LORD still loves Israel, even though the people have turned to other gods and love to worship them."
Bruhs i aint making this stuff up. its in the word.
 
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Hosea 3:1
Then the LORD said to me, "Go and love your wife again, even though she commits adultery with another lover. This will illustrate that the LORD still loves Israel, even though the people have turned to other gods and love to worship them."

Bruhs i aint making this stuff up. its in the word.


Bro you are using this verse out of context. God told Hosea to do the above to draw a parallel. To illustrate what he goes through with the nation of Israel. As said in the beginning of the book, "Go take a wife of whoredoms for Israel hath committed great whoredoms against me". That even though they are guilty his everlasting love will go back and love them [even though its fully within his righteousness to condemn them]. That was his commission to relay as a prophet.

As for the word, a man leaving his wife is forbidden except in the cause of fornication/adultery. It is fully within his right both by deuteronomical law and by the words of Jesus Christ to leave her for being a slôôt.



Him not practicing his due diligence towards her may have been a catalyst for a voide. But she still couldve sought to fill it as a mother/child with the boy. She didnt. She romped with the yardi. That is not the fault of the husband. The woman is a lustful sloot.
 

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Cringe worthy....just cringe worthy. Marriage + Christianity is the biggest L a man can take in life.

Fixed.

He's a real Christian dude doing what he's been taught, or brainwashed depending on your perspective, to do. So I'm not going to dog him out at all for staying with her or keeping the baby, he's keeping in line with his ideology so that in itself is commendable under the circumstances.

I did have a good laugh at all the various layers to the story tho...I kept waiting and wondering why they hadn't show this Jamaican teen especially if they adopted him.

I laughed out loud, loudly when they confirmed my suspicions that she was indeed taken with getting down on some BBC :bryan:....but when they didn't show lil buddy not once, my Spidey senses started tingling. I need to do some Internet sleuthing but the whole story sounds like a cover-up. Lil buddy was probably underage and she should have faced stat. rape charges...but maybe they get around that by all of a sudden adopting him.

White folks I tell ya...equinsu ocha!
 

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That dude Bob is a real-ass nicca fa dat...even gave li'l dude his name...I salute him, but iono if I would do the same...
 

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Lol@this hoe letting bruh smash it raw, nut it in, and seed it up talking about "This isn't me." :childplease: bytch it was you. Women be still be trying to paint themselves as dignified while doing the most demonic shyt imaginable.

lol, no lie I said the same thing when I heard that...

"Naw...I think that was you, though..."
 

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Bro you are using this verse out of context. God told Hosea to do the above to draw a parallel. To illustrate what he goes through with the nation of Israel. As said in the beginning of the book, "Go take a wife of whoredoms for Israel hath committed great whoredoms against me". That even though they are guilty his everlasting love will go back and love them [even though its fully within his righteousness to condemn them]. That was his commission to relay as a prophet.

As for the word, a man leaving his wife is forbidden except in the cause of fornication/adultery. It is fully within his right both by deuteronomical law and by the words of Jesus Christ to leave her for being a slôôt.



Him not practicing his due diligence towards her may have been a catalyst for a voide. But she still couldve sought to fill it as a mother/child with the boy. She didnt. She romped with the yardi. That is not the fault of the husband. The woman is a lustful sloot.
i wasnt taking it out of context. now you need to go back and read why i posted that script to begin with. he asked, i answered.
see its one thing to make divorce permissible, while at the same time GOd saying he hates divorce. what does that mean? it means, if you the person who was cheated on just cant handle it and forgive said person. dont hang around to torcher them via their guilt. go on about your merry way.
but by doing so, lets be real here. you are showing you dont have the ability to FORGIVE said person in the same regard GOd/Jesus forgives you on the daily. it goes back to the Love your wife like christ loves the church.

again, yes you can divorce your spouse if they dip on you on the side. but dont be so quick to bolt. the truth is, if you REALLLLLLY love your wife like that. you wont be QUICK to bolt. remember these two people were best friends for real. then they got married. at a very young age. they knew adult life together. they dont even know what life is apart. at least not adult life. that means something. truth be told, its part of the reason why i think kobe and vanessa keeps sticking it out. they got married so young. what do they realllly know about being in a committed relationship in adulthood aside from themselves? they dont. and probably dont want to know. which is a good thing if they treat each other right from here on out.

see the problem is, especially for dudes who get cheated on by his wife. guys think "man, i cant let her make a fool out of me. i aint about to be played like that."

so you bail with the quickness. the thing is this. no kind of bailing will change the fact you got dipped on by your wife. NOTHING. you can run, you can hide. the reality is, what it is. you got dipped on. you cant change that fact. now what you may be able to change is how you deal with it.
 

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Technically he did the right thing. You take those marriage vows = you stick with your wife through thick and thin, no matter what. Another reason why marriage is bullshyt.

I can't fault the man for standing by his principles, despite the fact that he wifed a whore. It's honorable, he seems to be one of the few Christians who practices what he preaches.
I can

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Fixed.

He's a real Christian dude doing what he's been taught, or brainwashed depending on your perspective, to do. So I'm not going to dog him out at all for staying with her or keeping the baby, he's keeping in line with his ideology so that in itself is commendable under the circumstances.

I did have a good laugh at all the various layers to the story tho...I kept waiting and wondering why they hadn't show this Jamaican teen especially if they adopted him.

I laughed out loud, loudly when they confirmed my suspicions that she was indeed taken with getting down on some BBC :bryan:....but when they didn't show lil buddy not once, my Spidey senses started tingling. I need to do some Internet sleuthing but the whole story sounds like a cover-up. Lil buddy was probably underage and she should have faced stat. rape charges...but maybe they get around that by all of a sudden adopting him.

White folks I tell ya...equinsu ocha!
hey you might be on to something detective.:ohhh:
 
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