Falling male earnings have led to a drop in marriage and a rise in out-of-wedlock births

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And this is how the game is fukked up and men are ducking marriage because now you want me when I have the resources but when a figga was eating top ramen, working two jobs and taking 15 hours a semester at college/votech just to get on..
Why should I get married when I'm a hot commodity in these streets.
:yeshrug: and this right here is the real issue
 

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You know, with every passing day I spend stuck in this shyt hole country, my following views are further written in stone....

fukk MARRIAGE.
fukk AMERICAN SOCIETY.
fukk AMERICA IN GENERAL....
 

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I'm not seeing that. No one is talking about the bum with no prospects and aspirations in life. What's happening is you jumping to extremes so that you can argue that women will end up with trash if they don't aim higher.

You think people can be great single parents; they would be better parents with a supportive husband or wife in the equation. Facts: children cost money and children require time, money requires time. A single parent is more than likely going to struggle to provide for their child and meet their emotional needs. Again, do you think women sit down and think "I want to be a single mother"?

I don't think anyone should have to date down but it is nice to see that materialism at play. Is a man dating a woman who earns less than him, dating down? And I don't believe women should have to lower their standards but when they're not getting what they want out of life, it would be pragmatic to assess their standards against reality.
u havent been here very long so i understand why youre doing this...but fam stop wasting your time. arguing with her ...shell do nothing but deflect and ignore when you make valid points
 

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Been said this

Capitalism, feminism, women narcissism is a toxic mix...

Alotta broken families will be in America future...whites will lose the most

Shiiiiiit. When Amerikkka catches a cold, Black folk catch pneumonia

Funny thing about this article is that for decades we been saying jobs for poor Blacks is a key driver of family breakdown (even Moynihan said that in the 60s before he jumped the shark and went dead right).

But no, they screamed it wasn't the jobs. It was our culture, our genes, our "victim mentality", etc. etc. Now young Whites are having broken families and a drug epidemic suddenly it all gets a human face.

:salute:
 

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Been said this

Capitalism, feminism, women narcissism is a toxic mix...

Alotta broken families will be in America future...whites will lose the most
nah. whites, asians, indians still subscribe to the traditional roles regardless because despite the narrowing gap men are still doing fairly well financially.

and more importantly they just have the exemplars in front of them (their parents) and believe in em
 

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You know, with every passing day I spend stuck in this shyt hole country, my following views are further written in stone....

fukk MARRIAGE.
fukk AMERICAN SOCIETY.
fukk AMERICA IN GENERAL....

Awe don't be bitter. Our society is poor in values, mainly because we live under a corrupt and ungodly government, but good people still live here. Marriage can be a wonderful thing when you find a partner through God. Pops want y'all to be together, as he wants us all to be together.
 

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the sexual market place brehs - marriage is just mutual economic benefits. 'we dont love these hoes'. Scared to have a kid to one of these girls man...

but theres a lot of good ones out there who understand what it means to be a woman. You gotta find one of those. They are out there. Usually 1st generation immigrant or some shyt.
 

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I'm an OG member of the #Importgang / And I'ma bring @Malta and @iBrowse mad more cream :myman:

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Gang business going down in this thread :youngsabo: :myman: @Tommy Knocks @twan83 down with the set too :myman:
 

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The fact is that emasculation in this country is having some very negative consequences. Many men feel like they no longer have a role. As a result we now have a country filled with 30-40 year old boys and women who are frustrated because many/most women in this country were raised to practice Hypergamy. The need to procreate is still there so women are going after whatever good looking guy they can and then possibly deal with the consequences of raising a b*stard child without support.

This might change in the future, but this is where we are now. There is a lot more to get into, but I'm sure most in this section already know most of the facts.
 

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Set your standards as you see fit. Just don't be bytching if nobody meets them - you're the one that set them :skip:

I can speak as an single guy in his late 20s. The women I'm meeting around my age want to settle down pretty quick :huhldup: they straight up tell me I'm marriage material. But I'm not into that. So I'm either dating girls who don't want to settle down, or women 4-5 years younger. That's still a possibility I can take advantage of.

I can't imagine what better looking and richer brehs feel like, with limitless options. They know their value, and know they can be extremely picky.
 
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