#F*ckItUpChallenge - THOT Culture Being Glorified

Apollo Creed

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Step back for a second, and stop looking at it from a binary.

Yes, she is liable for her actions.
However, if she knows that being sexually promiscuous will bring her attention, money, or security, those weigh in her decision making as well. Its not all men's fault, but we as men have to admit that if we didn't reward thot behavior with any of the three things mentioned above, it wouldn't be as rampant today. And it works both ways. If our sisters weren't glorifying the super thug drug dealing poet, those types wouldn't be as rampant either.

Still not seeing the correlation. Being sexually promiscous does not get you any of the things you mentioned besides maybe money. Black men do not control the narrative that installs these values into black women. Black people do not control the narrative period. The only thing black people are responsible for doing is teaching their kids not to value stupidity. That is not "mens" fault that is the job of both parents. Using the "mens fault" line removes accountability and places blame on someone else. There are tons of parents who instill proper value into their children.
 

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Oh look, another "look at me" cry for attention on social media....


Yall can have the thots...I prefer WOMEN...women who have things going for themselves, that would NEVER participate in these types of "challenges." (at least not on film)

Folks CRYING OUT for attention and will go to the lowest depths of humanity to satiate that desire. Sad thing is, it's a drug, the more you get it the more you need to feel fulfilled...Never ending cycle...



Nothing wrong with fun, but stuff like this is NOT fun. It's degrading and shameful. All fun and games til it's YOUR daughter, niece, sister, etc doing this stuff. Why not shame it ALL regardless if you know them or not? I'm not saying that ending this will make our community instantly better, it won't. What it will do is help our young queens have self respect and decency. EVERYTHING doesn't need to be posted. I think about long-term damage. How this kind of attention-seeking will result in even further acts to top or best what somebody else has done.

Our young women are in the midst of a battle...One side has culture telling them that doing this type of ish is stylish, cool, and will bring them attention. Yet, we don't bat an eyelash to the sisters making REAL power moves in their careers or lives...being first black judges, doctors, lawyers, etc you know, stuff that actually means something...

I ain't on no high-horse, I just want us, our community and people to DO BETTER. Society as a whole will benefit from it. But I'ma let ya'll go 'head on and "enjoy" this type of foolishness... :yeshrug: I'm out...


Just wanted to be a voice of reason
 

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Oversexualized is like hypermasculinity. Basically, meaning things become a problem when they are all-consuming. Nothing wrong with a person being comfortable in their sexuality.

Oversexualization is when that becomes all that you are perceived to be either by yourself or others.

Example: You may see whores shaking their ass in order to arouse other's sexual desires. I see chicks having fun dancing. In that case, you may be oversexualizing them and not seeing the full aspect of their humanity.

if its not to arouse sexual desires why put it up for strangers to see? y not just dance with your homegirls in the crib?


when u bending over with no draws showing nikkas ya p*ssy print how else are we to perceive that?
 
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