Ex NBA player Ben Gordon arrested for hitting his son/ arrested 2nd time/ arrested 3rd time /arrested 4th time

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using a closed fit is not right
however, disciplining your kids is good

or else they may end up like draymond
 

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That’s not what happened.

The dudes that immediately ran with the push-ups :duck: despite the poster who said it posting no proof tho :snoop:

Some of y'all truly are remedial beyond belief for real for real :laff:

Why don’t you bozo ass nikkas address me directly instead of the passive clown shyt you on… So you going to believe 3rd fukkin hand information from the daily news and NY Post? Where do you think they got their info from?

Now not going into too much but I was literally there… Mans was upset with his son because he couldn’t lift the bag.. Made him do push ups at the fukkin ticket counter and the ticket agents didn’t like what he was making his son do and they told him.. “Ben literally told those chics shut the fukk up and mind your business” verbatim… They end up calling the cops.. ticket agents told the cops that he hit his son with a closed fist which wasn’t true at all..

@RhodyRum what type of proof you want me to post? Footage from the incident? The DA affidavit? Police report? You fukkin clown
 

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Kids need they ass whooped…church airport don’t matter…free dat man
Your hands a weapon? Spare the Rod spoil the child

Exactly hot these lil caclettes end up shooting the school up


That's the dumbest narrative - it's literally the exact opposite. Kids who are taught that violence is the way to solve a problem are the ones most likely to turn to violence when they have problems in the future:

In a 2019 Los Angeles Times article, “We have studied every mass shooting since 1966. Here’s what we’ve learned about the shooters”, Jillian Peterson and James Delaney wrote: “First, the vast majority of mass shooters in our study experienced early childhood trauma and exposure to violence at a young age. The nature of their exposure included parental suicide, physical or sexual abuse, neglect, domestic violence, and/or severe bullying.”



Being subjected to physical violence, witnessing physical violence in the family, or being neglected are the three main ways kids get fukked up and end up using violence in the future. Any normal family where the parents are giving the child attention there is going to be ZERO negative repercussions of choosing not to beat the kid. It's a fallback for parents who don't know better and it only works because you're bigger and stronger than them so it teaches them nothing about how to behave in the rest of society.
 
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And sociopaths come in and make light of a father punching his ten year old in the face. Wish it was surprising, but it's not.


There's this edgelord tendency to the internet where you brag about how comfortable with violence you are, especially if it comes from authority figures. We literally have pro-fascism threads titled, "Do Black people need an iron hand to rule them?" along with pro-child abuse threads, pro-woman hitting threads, pro-coaches abusing players threads, and so on. Predictable as fukk.
 

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Good! Keep him there he has a history of child abuse:camby:
 

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Mental health issues aside for Ben Gordon, I can’t wait until we break the generational curse of thinking that putting hands on children is an acceptable form of discipline.

Generational curse is the exact way to describe it. They do it because it was done to them. And sadly the worse the results in their own case, the more likely they are to employ it in the future.

When I taught there were times where parents straight up beat their kids during parent-teacher conferences. And it was always the absolute worst kids too. You could tell that their parents had never taught them anything about discipline other than fear of beatings, so any time they were in a situation where they weren't going to get beat, they acted out.



I'm against it as well, but I'll never tell someone else how to parent their children. What's even worse are the parents who brag about whooping their kids.

Kids are human beings, not property. And they're especially vulnerable too. If no one protects a kid from abusive parents then that kid's life is a living hell and there's a high chance they'll grow up and do something violent to others in their own life.

Not saying I know what happened in this particular situation, but to say in general that you can't step in when a kid is getting abused ain't right.
 

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Above the fray.
. Any normal family where the parents are giving the child attention there is going to be ZERO negative repercussions of choosing not to beat the kid. It's a fallback for parents who don't know better and it only works because you're bigger and stronger than them so it teaches them nothing about how to behave in the rest of society.

Disagree with this generalization.
Parents teach children the lesson of repercussions for actions by administering punishment. Whether that punishment is a timeout, withholding privileges,,verbal or physical punishment. A correction.
Children from loving parents and households are aware of family guidelines and rules, and when they violate them there is some sort of penalty to reinforce them.
In the real world, as adults, they will live and work in a society where they have to follow rules and laws or face repercussions.



*I don't lump in all forms of physical punishment with abuse.
 
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