Ever Notice How It's The People Without Kids Trying To Explain What Makes A Good Parent

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Your friends or family probably pointed out something you did wrong, now you on here crying. Heed the warning or your children might end up hating you. Everyone knows what it's like to be a child
 

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Tell that to LeBron. His lack of a Dad informed how he is now to be a better parent. He said this many times

He became a parent
It's not people who never had a parent
It's people that do not have children

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You can have general knowledge without having kids, but I would agree that we def aint gonna know the whole scope of the deal

That said, just cause someone has kids doesn't mean you should take their advice either. Cause very few parents will question their parenting skills :hubie:
 

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There are many shytty parents. I don’t have kids, but I know I would 100% do a better job than them 😂😂😂

We never a problem when yall need a babysitter though:ufdup:
 

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That's like saying...

'Everybody been to the dentist at least once, lemmi hook u up with these veneers, how hard could it be?'

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Bad example. And that "how hard could it be" example probably applies more to parents in our community than it should.


Dentists require at least 8 years of formal education beyond HS, yearly recertifications, and a state board issued license, all of which require proof of competence
- Becoming a Parent is as easy as not wearing a condom one night. No proof of competency or education is required.

No one thinks being a good dentist is simple or easy. But considering the majority of our community isnt disciplined enough to do their best to secure a two parent home for the children before having them, there are probably alot of people who in their actions think parenting is easy.

Results speak loud in parenting. Children experience and are the fruits of parenting. If you've had a parent you should be able to know what worked, what didnt, and why.
 

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While that may be true

Nothing as complicated as raising children is ever as black and white as many of the people who have never done it make it out to be.

It's why most folks with kids will 🙄 at folks with no kids that give them advice.


Outside of certain basslines of abuse that should never happen every individual child and parent is different
What if the person sees parallels with their childhood? They recognize something the parent doesn't.
 

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Your friends or family probably pointed out something you did wrong, now you on here crying. Heed the warning or your children might end up hating you. Everyone knows what it's like to be a child
Whose alt is this? You just using it to neg people back?
 

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What if the person sees parallels with their childhood? They recognize something the parent doesn't.
That may be the case.

I do not want to say that the childless person is ALWAYS wrong

More so raising kids is very nuanced and someone who has never done it is in some ways coming from a place of ignorance no matter how you slice it

Like I said outside of bassline levels of abuse that most people agree on.
 
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